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My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ?


bohobabe - | 39  
27 Aug 2008 /  #241
umm_hottie:
lukasz is not a racist

I'm not either O.o

Hahah uh ok

bohobabe:
beer,sports,women and getting laid.

Well said.

lol yeah i know
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
27 Aug 2008 /  #242
hes not you dont even know us how can you say he is a racisy Lukasz has never been racist too anyone
irishdeano 5 | 304  
27 Aug 2008 /  #243
lol ok awesome

yeah defo is haha
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
27 Aug 2008 /  #245
yeah defo is haha

such an opportunist ha ha...
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
27 Aug 2008 /  #246
JustysiaS

Are you living in England or Poland
irishdeano 5 | 304  
27 Aug 2008 /  #248
are you Polish

No im not polish im 100% IRISH :)
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
29 Aug 2008 /  #249
Oh awesome so whats it like
irishdeano 5 | 304  
29 Aug 2008 /  #250
its like having all the luck in the world
and all the girls love your accent hahaha
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
31 Aug 2008 /  #251
Awesome having all the luck in the world lol i need some luck i should go too ireland maybe ill get lucky.

I dont remember what they sound like lol
but ill take your word
irishdeano 5 | 304  
31 Aug 2008 /  #252
Awesome having all the luck in the world lol i need some luck i should go too ireland maybe ill get lucky.

yeah you cant beat the luck of the irish :D :P

oh if you go into the speaking thread i was the second person to speak in it :P
petrushka 3 | 20  
31 Aug 2008 /  #253
oh my god, dump him. If it was me it would have hurt me badly... you don't deserve this.
bohobabe - | 39  
1 Sep 2008 /  #254
umm_hottie are you still seeing this guy or are you done with him
polishgirltx  
1 Sep 2008 /  #255
are you still seeing this guy

yes.... still happy and in love....how sweet...
;)
bohobabe - | 39  
4 Sep 2008 /  #256
Why are you with someone who treats you like that
stop being a fool and wake up he is using you,untill the girl next door gets it on with him .Do you like knowing your second best too her
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
4 Sep 2008 /  #257
He treats me good and what has it got too do with you, mind your own buisness and im not second best too her he made his choice and he chose me .
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
4 Sep 2008 /  #258
how does this train wreck of a thread have 9 pages? jesus h. christ post pictures of the neighbor or this thread is a fail!
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
4 Sep 2008 /  #259
what has it got too do with you

lol, while i love you to bits, i can't help but say what i see.

You just said to about four people who had commented on what you wrote, if you remember rightly 8 pages ago you were asking for people's advice on what to do :) so all they are doing is giving their point of view.

mind your own buisness and im not second best too her he made his choice and he chose me

you know when i see to cakes in a shop and somebody says to me 'choose' i take both :).......

He treats me good

i'm glad that is in the present tense as he hasn't always been the angel from above but then again who is an angel!!!!

its like having all the luck in the world

yeah all the luck in the world, whenever somebody beats me at pool with a load of fluke shots, i always ask 'do you have Irish blood in you' but they never seem to get it :):)
Warsaw8 4 | 126  
5 Sep 2008 /  #260
what do i do please help!!!!

If hes longing for something else then let it go, its better off. And if they think "brown is down", then its their loss, not yours. If thats you in your avaitar, I find it hard to believe that a decent man wants to leave (what I can see) for something less...
z156502 - | 1  
5 Sep 2008 /  #261
whoaaa i read halfway and it sounded like a race issue!!!
im Indian and idk why but polish girls are attracted to me...
EDIT: just read the last part of the thread...sorry! lol
im glad its resolved.
Somerled 5 | 93  
5 Sep 2008 /  #262
he tried to break up with me but i begged him to take me back as i told him it wont bother me that he likes her but it does.

Your boyfriend is a douche. Judging from the above statement you make a good pair.
Hueg - | 320  
5 Sep 2008 /  #263
Somerled

lol

Haven't had the chance before now. Welcome to the forums mate. :)

Enjoying reading your stuff.
Somerled 5 | 93  
5 Sep 2008 /  #264
Translation: "Hit me"

Enjoying reading your stuff.

Hey thanks. Just want to give the good lass some sound advice.
OP umm_hottie 2 | 75  
10 Sep 2008 /  #265
Your boyfriend is a douche. Judging from the above statement you make a good pair.

back at you ( ASS).

lol, while i love you to bits,

Thanks Tornado your pretty awesome too

Translation: "Hit me"

yeah i agree think someone needs too give you a crack ;)
pldudeinus - | 6  
14 Sep 2008 /  #266
Like many, Poles fantasies about “forbidden fruit” or about what they could not “get” in their country. Exotic excites but it is usually short lived. Practically speaking, he obviously would not mind “doing her” over some period of time so that he could review the results with his group of Polish friends. That’s all is there.

If he still keeps any contacts with family or friends in Poland, there is near zero probability that there would be any lasting relationships between Polish guy and Pakistani girl no matter how pretty she may be at that very moment. The “pretty” part is not going to last in the long run. For the average guy, if he ever plans to go back to Poland, he may not be able to overcome social taboos there. In Poland, such relationship with Pakistani girl would be constantly tested; ultimately, it would become very fragile and likely result in quick break up or early divorce.

If he lives outside Poland permanently, keeps limited contact with his Polish friends and family, depending on the local acceptance of such relationships, there is a small chance something deeper may develop overtime; however, even then, it is still unlikely it would last because he might feel “isolated” so much.

Not sure if that makes you feel better or more secured now. It really should not. Besides, you said you had to beg (!) him to take you back – that gives you pretty small odds that you will have any lasting relationship with him too. Enjoy what you have with him while you have it, but do not plan too much stuff together into far future. It might save you some pains later.
frenchboy 1 | 46  
14 Sep 2008 /  #267
umm_hottie

your well hot babe , if id you id give me a call and dump that dick your with i wouldnt be chasing my neighbour if you was my chick your fine as hell
irishdeano 5 | 304  
14 Sep 2008 /  #268
you leave my hottie alone :P :D haha
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
14 Sep 2008 /  #269
irishdeano

frenchboy

fight fight fight! geez how desperate are you guys ha ha... the girl is blissfully in love, leave her alone.
Dekameron 1 | 146  
14 Sep 2008 /  #270
umm_hottie

Well there are several possibilites.

1. You are ugly and thus your boyfriend looks around.
2.You are dull and thus he's looking for some fun.
3.You cant cook.

Anyway its obviously all your fault.

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