I didnt have a pre-nuptial agreement. Could you get a nupital agreement drawn up during the marriage? So there is no agreement as far as i know oral/written between the sisters. They just try and keep the problem within the family.
you dont need that, how would you be responsible for her parents debts?
set your pride aside and ask her to work.. she should , unless she is with
child, theres no reasons for her to sit home while you bust your butt to pay off
her parents problems.... thats not your responsibility, only she is now your responsibility and your children if you two have any or going to have any..
how can you save for a future when her parents are taking it away?
no, they are responsibile for their own problems.. if they are handicapped then
they need to apply at the appropriate offices. if they arent, then they need to also
get a job, even if its not paying a whole lot, at least its paying something!!!!
and they also need to stop drinking and smoking ( wastin their money) and work
on putting their ( rest of their lives together) whats left..
no one should be responsible for someone else's bad habits and thats what they
are and if you cannot support them yourself, then dont do it..
im on your side gunner. it sounds like they are expecting help. which to me is
wrong.. the whole purpose of raising children and sending them off to college
is to make sure their future is stable.. not to take it away.. and even if I had nothing
to give my children, I would still never expect them to pay my way..