He has fun with you, does crazy stuff, realizes he's bored in his life.
kataryna is right in some ways.. first of all some relationships do take a turn and if
he is miserable and she is miserable what kind of life is this for them and the kids?
in our lives we hope that when we do finally meet that soul mate, this is the only
one for eternity, but it simply doesnt happen that way, we rush into marriage , or
think we have found them, only to find out later on that we didnt match, or things
are just not what they should be.
humans are inclined to make mistakes, we hope this wont affect our long term
but it does.. so what kind of life of misery are we putting ourself thru?
I could have stayed with the man who had three children ( his) and had one of
my own and married him and lived unhappyily ever after, I chose to not stay with
him because the hate outweighed the love.. do I want to hate this much - no
it brings alot of problems with the children, should they see the fighting? no
should they see their mother and father breaking items in the home that were
memories? no..
I agree to a Point, but we have to at least see/give the other side of it a chance.
I personally would hate to put my children thru this.. its never easy to divorce, but
the children in certain circumstances suffer more when the parents do stay together
and try to work it out.. counseling doesnt always work.. and if your heart is no longer
with the person you married, your creating your own misery.
love hurts.. it will hurt, but if the wife is a good person, she will also see this same
point, and not decide its all his fault.. it takes two people to work at a marriage and
the one thing I see in this post is blame.. it wont work if he stays because she is
already blameing him only and not willing to figure out what went wrong.
IMHO..
life is to short. we all make mistakes, but what is life without that one person you
feel at peace with?