/ Is this Polish guy's 'Sister' his wife?
Sorry i know the subject sounds totally bizarre but i am looking for a little advice about something.
I have become good friends with a Polish guy over the past couple of months.He is over here working and we have become close friends.I suppose we like eachother.
I am a bit cautious about becoming involved with him as his best mate dated a mate of mine and waited till after he slept with her to call her an 'easy rider' and that he actually had a long term girlfriend in Poland.
He claims he is not after 'fun' but a relationship etc and that he is not like his friend....anyways.....a while ago we were all out with a big group of friends and he pulled his mobile phone out and started showing me pictures of his family etc.He stopped on a picture of a girl who had black hair (he's blonde) and asked me what i thought of her..i said she was pretty and he said it was his sister and that she was 20 and pregnant.
I didnt think anymore of it until another night we were out and i picked up his phone to find his screensaver was his sister!!!
Obviously i was trying to be cool and nonchalant so i didnt say anything....its not like we were actually going out properly...then he claims he has to go back to Poland for a week as his sister is going to give birth and that his boss is giving him the money to go back ..... according to him he has a big family there so i thought why is it really necessary for him to go back??
Okay maybe he is from a close family etc but how would that explain the screensaver on his phone?? Should i just casually ask him if he is married and risk looking like a bunny boiler or just forget about it???