Syrena_04
1 Jan 2007
Syrena_04
27 Dec 2006
Love / Polish interracial dating [333]
He who lives in a glass house shouldn't throw stones. I'll keep mine if you keep yours.
yes please, keep all the terrorists you like!
He who lives in a glass house shouldn't throw stones. I'll keep mine if you keep yours.
Syrena_04
27 Dec 2006
Love / Polish interracial dating [333]
Oh, sure... you want our snow but not our terrorists... Picky aren't we? :)
Seriously, I agree that this is a great cause for concern. And I am not at all reassured by the turn of some events recently.
Oh, sure... you want our snow but not our terrorists... Picky aren't we? :)
Seriously, I agree that this is a great cause for concern. And I am not at all reassured by the turn of some events recently.
Syrena_04
27 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / catholic new blood in UK [46]
Eurola, how is the pronunciation different?
Polack - offensive for a Pole
Polak - a polish man
Polak - a polish man
Eurola, how is the pronunciation different?
Syrena_04
27 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / catholic new blood in UK [46]
You're new here, aren't you? Won't happen, trust me. :)
To others, would appreciate if replies could keep ON topic.
You're new here, aren't you? Won't happen, trust me. :)
Syrena_04
25 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / We welcome Polish people to Britain! [224]
I'm very sorry you got hurt, Manser. Nothing breaks the heart quite like loving and, instead of being loved back, being hurt and wounded. It happened to me too and, I would bet, to most of us in life. It happens quite a bit when we are young, too. Not that it doesn't happen later on in life, as well, but most of us mature as we get older and know better than to hurt someone who loves us. We try to let them down more gently, I suppose. Perhaps it is because we remember how much it hurt, in our younger days. Chin up, sweetie. And take good care of yourself.
I'm very sorry you got hurt, Manser. Nothing breaks the heart quite like loving and, instead of being loved back, being hurt and wounded. It happened to me too and, I would bet, to most of us in life. It happens quite a bit when we are young, too. Not that it doesn't happen later on in life, as well, but most of us mature as we get older and know better than to hurt someone who loves us. We try to let them down more gently, I suppose. Perhaps it is because we remember how much it hurt, in our younger days. Chin up, sweetie. And take good care of yourself.
Syrena_04
23 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / We welcome Polish people to Britain! [224]
I noticed. That's why he sounded so out-of-character. Unless we only _thought_ we knew him...
I noticed. That's why he sounded so out-of-character. Unless we only _thought_ we knew him...
Syrena_04
23 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / We welcome Polish people to Britain! [224]
You sound like a mad-man, Manser. Are you drunk? High? Or both?
You sound like a mad-man, Manser. Are you drunk? High? Or both?
Syrena_04
21 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]
I had a similar experience with a Polish man. He was able to be MUCH closer to me, emotionally, than anyone I had met. It was noticeable. And highly pleasant :)
My ex girlfriend - who was N. American - told me once that we (Poles) were able to be "closer" and were genrelay into relationship
I had a similar experience with a Polish man. He was able to be MUCH closer to me, emotionally, than anyone I had met. It was noticeable. And highly pleasant :)
Syrena_04
20 Dec 2006
Syrena_04
20 Dec 2006
Life / Appropriate Gift for Wigilia [7]
'Krupnik Krakowski' sounds very nice, indeed. Krakowski was the Holy Father's favorite pastry, is that right? Yes, a book is a good idea. As you said, it depends on the person.
'Krupnik Krakowski' sounds very nice, indeed. Krakowski was the Holy Father's favorite pastry, is that right? Yes, a book is a good idea. As you said, it depends on the person.
Syrena_04
19 Dec 2006
Life / How many people really know English in Poland? [53]
I read somewhere that you were ill. Please take good care of yourself and see a doctor if you are concerned.
I read somewhere that you were ill. Please take good care of yourself and see a doctor if you are concerned.
Syrena_04
19 Dec 2006
Love / Why are polish girls more approachable than north american girls [158]
This is a very personal experience, of course, but I remember my brother mentioning something similar when he returned to Canada after spending 12 years in England and in France. That was perhaps ten years ago now, and I remember him commenting that he had found the way to approach a young adult woman had been different in Europe, meaning easier, at least for him. He could easily spark a conversation on the bus, or in public places, for example, whereas he found he was getting a cooler reception here. However, he would get a better reaction in Canada when he was in a group, with friends, or at a similar gathering where people somehow knew each other. There are many factors at play here, of course, but this post reminded me of his comment.
This is a very personal experience, of course, but I remember my brother mentioning something similar when he returned to Canada after spending 12 years in England and in France. That was perhaps ten years ago now, and I remember him commenting that he had found the way to approach a young adult woman had been different in Europe, meaning easier, at least for him. He could easily spark a conversation on the bus, or in public places, for example, whereas he found he was getting a cooler reception here. However, he would get a better reaction in Canada when he was in a group, with friends, or at a similar gathering where people somehow knew each other. There are many factors at play here, of course, but this post reminded me of his comment.
Syrena_04
17 Dec 2006
Syrena_04
17 Dec 2006
Life / Polish people have low self-esteem? [80]
I find it contradictory and perhaps short-sighted as a society - I know that Zero tolerance programs exist in schools as well as conflict resolution skills teams, and I think that this is an excellent idea, yet, I can't watch television for 10 minutes without seeing violent or mean-spirited behaviour. Even our politicians are not much better role models for our youth. From where I stand, the adults have the responsibility to walk the talk.
I find it contradictory and perhaps short-sighted as a society - I know that Zero tolerance programs exist in schools as well as conflict resolution skills teams, and I think that this is an excellent idea, yet, I can't watch television for 10 minutes without seeing violent or mean-spirited behaviour. Even our politicians are not much better role models for our youth. From where I stand, the adults have the responsibility to walk the talk.
Syrena_04
17 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / Heavy drinking culture in the UK - is it still the same in Poland? [69]
I agree. We are seeing this phenomenon in Canada as well. Not often, but once is once too often if you ask me.
The fact is, women are as bad as men (maybe worst) when it comes to 'herd mentality'.
I agree. We are seeing this phenomenon in Canada as well. Not often, but once is once too often if you ask me.
Syrena_04
17 Dec 2006
Syrena_04
17 Dec 2006
Life / Polish people have low self-esteem? [80]
This often happens to me, too. When people get to know me, and (I have to admit) when I feel comfortable enough to 'let my hair down' (because I am terribly shy), people get to see another side of me. But that takes time.
Yes. I have to agree with that. I think that healthy self-esteem is the greatest gift one can have. And those who do not have good self-esteem deserve respect and protection.
That reminds me of a discussion we had in one of my 'psychology of self' class. Someone said something along the lines that one had to deserve respect in order to get it. And someone else replied that, instead, our behaviour is under our own control. Basically, that I can choose to respect someone even if they are behaving in a disrespectful way towards themselves. A person whose behaviour is inviting disrespect does not force me to behave in a disrespectful manner towards them. I am the one who controls my behaviour. And my behaviour can stem from my values, not from another's behaviour. Easier said than done, but still. Anyway, I said I was going to be here for an hour only to take advantage of the nice weather outside. So, I will leave now but this is a very interesting discussion. Thank you all and take care.
the ice queen
This often happens to me, too. When people get to know me, and (I have to admit) when I feel comfortable enough to 'let my hair down' (because I am terribly shy), people get to see another side of me. But that takes time.
Honesty often isolates but only ones trying honesty would know about it.
I am such a great guy that I would never intimidate someone showing his weak side (at least consiously) but I've seen sharks eating flesh out of such people and had my share of performing in defesnive mode afterward.
I am such a great guy that I would never intimidate someone showing his weak side (at least consiously) but I've seen sharks eating flesh out of such people and had my share of performing in defesnive mode afterward.
Yes. I have to agree with that. I think that healthy self-esteem is the greatest gift one can have. And those who do not have good self-esteem deserve respect and protection.
"bully"
That reminds me of a discussion we had in one of my 'psychology of self' class. Someone said something along the lines that one had to deserve respect in order to get it. And someone else replied that, instead, our behaviour is under our own control. Basically, that I can choose to respect someone even if they are behaving in a disrespectful way towards themselves. A person whose behaviour is inviting disrespect does not force me to behave in a disrespectful manner towards them. I am the one who controls my behaviour. And my behaviour can stem from my values, not from another's behaviour. Easier said than done, but still. Anyway, I said I was going to be here for an hour only to take advantage of the nice weather outside. So, I will leave now but this is a very interesting discussion. Thank you all and take care.
Syrena_04
17 Dec 2006
Life / Polish people have low self-esteem? [80]
I would venture that low self-esteem comes in a variety of shapes and forms. Some visibly appear to feel inferior, others will readily admit to it; others still, as Krysia pointed out, will act it out in various ways. I thought that this was how low self-esteem manifested itself. However, recently, I have come across another way with which some people deal with low self-esteem. I call it 'image management' ('over-reaching' is another form but it is different from 'image management'). Image management means that the person looks and sounds self-assured, successful, and capable when in fact, all one has to do is scratch the surface a tad more to reveal a deep well of insecurities. I have come to know what the expression 'the bigger they are, the harder they fall' means. All this to say that many persons whom you would never suspect of having low self-esteem do. The trick is to manage your image so that it does not show. I for one prefer more genuine people who will admit their fears and insecurities as well as their strengths. But, at least in many aspects of my personal and professional world, one risks way too much for being that authentic. Too bad. So, intimidating people are perhaps nothing to be intimidated about. :)
I would venture that low self-esteem comes in a variety of shapes and forms. Some visibly appear to feel inferior, others will readily admit to it; others still, as Krysia pointed out, will act it out in various ways. I thought that this was how low self-esteem manifested itself. However, recently, I have come across another way with which some people deal with low self-esteem. I call it 'image management' ('over-reaching' is another form but it is different from 'image management'). Image management means that the person looks and sounds self-assured, successful, and capable when in fact, all one has to do is scratch the surface a tad more to reveal a deep well of insecurities. I have come to know what the expression 'the bigger they are, the harder they fall' means. All this to say that many persons whom you would never suspect of having low self-esteem do. The trick is to manage your image so that it does not show. I for one prefer more genuine people who will admit their fears and insecurities as well as their strengths. But, at least in many aspects of my personal and professional world, one risks way too much for being that authentic. Too bad. So, intimidating people are perhaps nothing to be intimidated about. :)
Syrena_04
12 Dec 2006
USA, Canada / How attractive is Canada for Polish men and women? [23]
canada.gc.ca/acanada/ViewCategory.htm?lang=eng&font=0
and
canada.gc.ca/depts/major/depind_e.html#T
for those of you who wish additional information. I find these sites too wordy for my taste but they can be interesting.
canada.gc.ca/acanada/ViewCategory.htm?lang=eng&font=0
and
canada.gc.ca/depts/major/depind_e.html#T
for those of you who wish additional information. I find these sites too wordy for my taste but they can be interesting.
Syrena_04
11 Dec 2006
Syrena_04
11 Dec 2006
USA, Canada / How attractive is Canada for Polish men and women? [23]
:) I had understood it to be 'the nice nature of Canadians' but I see my bias is showing. :) Flora and fauna is quite nice too, yes.
I wonder if that might be because you're in Toronto. Toronto hardly ever gets any serious snowfalls. People are not used to driving in it. Plus, the melting snow can be more slippery than a good 10 cm of it. Do you think that might be the case?
You've noticed this? Really? There are more automatic cars here than in Europe, or so I am told, but I assumed it was because the US had flooded the market for so long. Scared? Hmmmmm, interesting.
But I think due to the nice Canadian nature Poles like it.
:) I had understood it to be 'the nice nature of Canadians' but I see my bias is showing. :) Flora and fauna is quite nice too, yes.
It seems strange to me that people have not gotten used to the snowy conditions by now.
I wonder if that might be because you're in Toronto. Toronto hardly ever gets any serious snowfalls. People are not used to driving in it. Plus, the melting snow can be more slippery than a good 10 cm of it. Do you think that might be the case?
which a lot of people are simply scared off here.
You've noticed this? Really? There are more automatic cars here than in Europe, or so I am told, but I assumed it was because the US had flooded the market for so long. Scared? Hmmmmm, interesting.
Syrena_04
11 Dec 2006
Life / Polish Santa? Does he look any different to the Santa Claus in UK/America? [14]
This picture made my day :)
This picture made my day :)
Syrena_04
11 Dec 2006
Love / Feminism effects both sexes in a different way - opinions? [115]
Well, thanks a bunch Miranda. I'm off looking for a new avatar.
Well, thanks a bunch Miranda. I'm off looking for a new avatar.
Syrena_04
11 Dec 2006
Travel / Snowboarding in Poland [75]
dark... very very dark... But only until Dec. 21. Then, not so dark anymore :)
dark... very very dark... But only until Dec. 21. Then, not so dark anymore :)
Syrena_04
11 Dec 2006
Travel / Snowboarding in Poland [75]
That's global warming for you. London, Ontario, had 40 cm on Friday. :)
That's global warming for you. London, Ontario, had 40 cm on Friday. :)
Syrena_04
11 Dec 2006
Love / Feminism effects both sexes in a different way - opinions? [115]
I wish I had that spunk. :)
I found your posts very interesting. It sounds as if the pendulum has swung to the other end. Reverse discrimination is not any better.
I know I had said I would return to this topic but somehow, I couldn't. Sorry Miranda. Perhaps later. We never heard from Matyjasz. Too bad. I usually enjoy his posts very much.
I would tell him - Your ass is not bad too...Can you show me more?
I wish I had that spunk. :)
feminism...hmmm....don't get started
I found your posts very interesting. It sounds as if the pendulum has swung to the other end. Reverse discrimination is not any better.
I thaught that the subject has exhausted itself.
I know I had said I would return to this topic but somehow, I couldn't. Sorry Miranda. Perhaps later. We never heard from Matyjasz. Too bad. I usually enjoy his posts very much.
Syrena_04
10 Dec 2006
News / Will sex-scandal in Self-Defence end the coalition in Poland? [28]
I'm beginning to appreciate your sense of humour, Wroclaw. :)
Don't worry. I'll learn you to talk proper like what I do.
I'm beginning to appreciate your sense of humour, Wroclaw. :)
Syrena_04
10 Dec 2006
USA, Canada / How attractive is Canada for Polish men and women? [23]
Thank you all for your comments.
Thank you all for your comments.
Syrena_04
29 Nov 2006