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Why are polish girls more approachable than north american girls


Cyprian 2 | 69  
14 Dec 2006 /  #1
heres something im relaly intersted in hearing other peoples comments and opinions about.... why are european lets say in specific polish girls more approachable than north american girls?
Wroclaw 44 | 5,386  
14 Dec 2006 /  #2
They don't come from a commercial, materilaistic background. Religion plays a part as do higher family values and education. This gives a more balanced view of the world, which may make Polish women more appealing.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
14 Dec 2006 /  #3
hhhhhuuuummm what about us lovely lasses from England....
Wroclaw 44 | 5,386  
14 Dec 2006 /  #4
One or two English girls I met recently were really nice to be with. They were great fun and know how to enjoy life. I found myself particularly attracted to one of them.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
14 Dec 2006 /  #5
Now its nice to hear that men like English women too, see.... maybe they'll be an english forum with lots of Polish visiting it saying how much they think English women are wonderfull....lol
miranda  
14 Dec 2006 /  #6
A, there are a lot of Polish men who date English women, so I assume they have to be attractive and intelligent.
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
14 Dec 2006 /  #7
I like the english accent on women :) There are also many beautiful english women. I just happen to be dating a PL woman.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
14 Dec 2006 /  #8
The accent Mr F, you have to be in the right town, because a lot of it is just damn right horrid and common, vicky pollard is alive and well in most cities in the UK...lol
shewolf  
14 Dec 2006 /  #9
Why are Polish girls more approachable than American girls? Maybe it's because there are millions of sex offenders, rapists, stalkers, murderers, physically abusive men in America and women worry that a strange man is going to be one of them. Do women in Poland face the same threat?
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
14 Dec 2006 /  #10
shewolf, I get your point, but I think that women in the West have changed over the years and not really for the best, women in the UK are far more violent when on drinking binges with their g/f's so I would say it was the men that are more scared in the UK...
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
14 Dec 2006 /  #11
vicky pollard is alive and well in most cities in the UK...lol

Ha ha no way. I like a more proper accent then :)

Why are Polish girls more approachable than American girls? Maybe it's because there are millions of sex offenders, rapists, stalkers, murderers, physically abusive men in America and women worry that a strange man is going to be one of them

Huh? The question was why PL WOMEN are more approachable....we all already know there are psycho's here.
shewolf  
14 Dec 2006 /  #12
olf, I get your point, but I think that women in the West have changed over the years and not really for the best,

How have they changed? Too promiscuous now?
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
14 Dec 2006 /  #13
IMHO I don't find N American women unapproachable.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
14 Dec 2006 /  #14
How have they changed? Too promiscuous now?

I would say that women have less respect for themselves, I dont want to sound like a prude but my values are different to a lot of women I know who find it acceptable to sleep with a guy who they have just men in a bar or club...I suppose its just sign of the times, some might says it equality, but I think if a bloke that sleeps with anything that moves is a dirty dog and wouldnt go within 5 ft of him
shewolf  
14 Dec 2006 /  #15
I agree that values have changed. But there are millions of women who aren't that way. It just seems like they all are because of where you're looking. Not all men are like that either, even though it seems like it.

Do you know America has huge organizations for people who vow to save sex for marriage? They make the promise and then help each other keep the promise. There are alot of members.

You probably won't find them in bars.
OP Cyprian 2 | 69  
14 Dec 2006 /  #16
They don't come from a commercial, materilaistic background. Religion plays a part as do higher family values and education. This gives a more balanced view of the world, which may make Polish women more appealing.

Yes well said and i agree with you.....

Why are Polish girls more approachable than American girls? Maybe it's because there are millions of sex offenders, rapists, stalkers, murderers, physically abusive men in America and women worry that a strange man is going to be one of them. Do women in Poland face the same threat

There may be some truth to that but wht i really think it is that north american girls are so influenced by media,and peopelaroiund them that they alwasy are trying to fit or achieve a certain image that they really dont know them selves or respect who they are.. and when they hear there are rapists and murderers out on the streets they belive that everyone is like that.... but also when they hear from a freind that a guy is cool... she belives it and has nuthing oher then her freinds words to make her own decision.... regardgin sex i respect girls who enjoy having sex themsleves and dont make it more then what it is.....but i found alot of NA girls will have sex because the guy wanted to but not because they did or they say that for the guy which is something i have no repsect for... what i found it comes down to is that girls in NA go for guys who have this and that, know these ppl, and what he can do for her now... whereas euopean girls like what a guy represents, how he carries himself, and his future plans....

this is not to say every girl is liek this but i think itsa fair generalization.
shewolf  
14 Dec 2006 /  #17
but wht i really think it is that north american girls are so influenced by media,and peopelaroiund them that they alwasy are trying to fit or achieve a certain image that they really dont know them selves or respect who they are

This is so true about the media. Girls are so influenced by it that they are miserable with themselves the way they are. And they change themselves to be like the images they see in the media. And also young men think women are worthless the way they are and they only accept girls if they fit the media's image. Not everyone, of course, but many.
bunnie 2 | 20  
14 Dec 2006 /  #18
I have to say that I am new too all of this. My boyfriend is from Poland and I met him over the summer this year, along with about 30 other men, they were all the sweetestest gentlemen I have ever met!

I have been on several threads and I don't understand why there is a discussion regarding looks and politness by men or women of anyone from Poland or any other culture? I will admit, I am from "Middle America, The Bible Belt or even call us Cow Town USA," but I do think we are very tolrerent of all different kinds of people! We all know in the USA, that we don't have a long and hard fought history as Europe, but we are proud that we came from Europe or where ever that we may be from but....we do love our history.

We have fought for our heritage and we appreciate very much where we are from...please, for once, give us the same respect!
shewolf  
14 Dec 2006 /  #19
I met him over the summer this year, along with about 30 other men,

What? 30 men?!
bunnie 2 | 20  
14 Dec 2006 /  #20
that sounded extremely bad! Not that way at all!

I helped them getting apartments and bank accounts. I am with a big company....nothing disrectally at all
shewolf  
14 Dec 2006 /  #21
I was just teasing.

Here's another one:

nothing disrectally at all

Did you notice what you wrote? What kinds of things are on your mind, girl? lol
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
14 Dec 2006 /  #22
we all already know there are psycho's here.

dude that is all over the world.
man or woman, there is a psycho now killing in the uk young prostitutes!
there was a man in austria who held that girl in his home since she was 10!
I could look in the local newspaper and read the around the world stuff and
name off some more.

this did have to do with why are polish women more approachable.
everyone wants to dog Americans (your old countryman/woman)

theres plenty of poles living here, my brothers boss came from the UK and
moved here when he was 11 years old.
what doesnt anyone get about America is a Land of Immigrants?

yeah is commercialized, but I didnt fricken do it! my neighbor didnt.
technology did it.

as for Approachable, well , how many of you came to America? and actually
dated an American woman? I can tell you just from talks with the gals here
that most American women find men with accents very attractive!

if you approached one in Poland, they might be wary of people, its not
something I would be doing in a foriegn country, if you move there, it takes a
while to get used to things, cripes I moved to a new city and I am still
watching my back!

as for all the killers, rapists, muggers etc etc, its world wide.
our jails are full because the govt dont want young kids getting drugs,
you cant control everything, but ya know it says something for them, least
they are trying.

Im not saying you wont come across some Be-Oches, cause there are, but
I am sure most women are unapproachable if you are being pushy also!
I think it depends on the situation, where your at, how women will react
because atmostphere has alot to do with it too.

said my piece. Peace!

Cyprian,

sorry, but your wrong, most young girls want a prince charming, romance me
be there for me and not your friends type of guy, I can say that is a fair
generalization , and most guys are to busy to take time for the girls, so they
ignore them, then they start calling them, they say I cant do this and thus
leaving a broken hearted young girl to go find another male who will get the wrath
of the last relationship!

this is a viscious cycle that happens daily all across the globe!
a fair generalization would be to say that most of the time men are only lookin
for a good time from young girls wouldnt you say so?

I get it now, your talking about Vancouver girls IE north american! gotcha!

yeah, Canada is a great Place to live isnt it?
shewolf  
15 Dec 2006 /  #23
I can tell you just from talks with the gals here
that most American women find men with accents very attractive!

That's so true. The Polish accent is the sexiest. :)
krysia 23 | 3,057  
15 Dec 2006 /  #24
Ya, I love when Polish people speak english. Sounds really cool!
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
15 Dec 2006 /  #25
They don't come from a commercial, materilaistic background

Niether do I, my father didnt buy me a barbie weekly, we struggled growing up
I didnt go to church, but I knew about god, baptised catholic, I earned my keep
on my own and have everything I have because of me working for it

many of the women here have had to do that, I am not materialistic, I could care
less about buying my self something < I put my kids first and formost in front of
any needs I have> I was born here and raised here. and I do have sense of
direction, know what I need to do, and do care about people.

as for material things, I have my house ( which I do need to live under)
MY van to get to work!
my jewelry that I never owned a piece till I met my husband, because I didnt care
about gold!
and didnt wear jewlry, and I dont own Furs or a million pairs of shoes because
I will never wear that many in my life time!

my family comes first before anything, and guess what! Im third generation
Polish American! Never went to church. but hold god dear to my heart!

Sorry I am taking offense, maybe is because I am working over a 100 hours
a paycheck. nite!
Wroclaw 44 | 5,386  
15 Dec 2006 /  #26
Sorry I am taking offense, maybe is because I am working over a 100 hours
a paycheck. nite!

No offence taken. I can accept well formed critisism.
Arien  
15 Dec 2006 /  #27
polish girls more approachable then north aamerican girls?

because they need a green card. :)
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
15 Dec 2006 /  #28
No offence taken. I can accept well formed critisism.

usually I can too, but sometimes reading some of this generalization gets a bit
irritating.

if someone were to say that the reason why they are unapproachable is because
so many men screw them over, why bother?

no one knows the whole story behind why someone dont want to date someone
maybe they werent attracted, maybe they have a man, maybe they are gay?

could be any number of reasons, which they dont have to enlighten upon because
plainly its no one business.

that question is right up there with, why are polish men so ugly?

dont make sense to say something you dont know about really.
Wroclaw 44 | 5,386  
15 Dec 2006 /  #29
Patrycja19,

I'm not quite sure how to take your post. Are you having a go at me now ?

Or are you speaking in general terms ?
shewolf  
15 Dec 2006 /  #30
But when we were kids we were happy with small plastic toys but kids today want expensive electronic things. Young people are definitely more materialistic today and it probably does affect relationships. Maybe they are more demanding. I don't know.

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