Life / Nasty polish guys in Bialystok [36]


My boys at work flick their hands so that their fingers make clicking noises (sorry.. if you know the action I mean, its not that easy to describe in writing!? Haha)

Anyway, they told me if they do that to someone it means a big fcuk off - thats their words.

Ironically though in the UK some people do that when something is cool or really good... so I expect this could lead to a big misunderstanding if an English guy does this gesture to one of the Polish guys!

Love / Fallen for a Polish Guy!! But he's got back to Poland to get married! [71]


He's playing devils advocate! If you look at his profile pic you can see his horns! hahaha :D

UK, Ireland / The best place to buy a house in the UK [120]

If you want to find out more about a specific town, I have found this site very useful for detailed information on things like buying/renting, crime, population, schools, local amenities, etc.

upmystreet.com

Love / why is the older women such a problem for polish guys [37]

Maybe you should just accept that things are different in Poland than here in the UK.

I know a Polish girl who is very happy with her boyfriend, who happens to be black and over here its no problem. They are happy together, but if the rest of her family found out they are going to go absolutely mental. I know this because her brothers have find out but not her parents. Her brothers disapprove but know that things are different here, however they said that the parents will probably never speak to her again... so I doubt very much she will be taking him on holiday to Poland with her.

It's not right, but its how it is, for her and her family anyway. I wouldn't go making mountains out of molehills just yet.

But if Wroclaw is right and its just an excuse to cover up for some other reason, then yeah you have a problem.

Maybe he just needs some time to get used to the idea and will change his mind about the suggestion to go to a hotel somewhere else.. who knows.

Don't panic just yet!!

:-)

Love / Is this Polish guy's 'Sister' his wife? [8]

Oh dear...

Not sure exactly what to advise other than to say my Polish bf/ex-bf (not too sure about that!? haha) is blonde and his sister has dark hair.

But one time, when he was showing me pictures on his phone, before we were going out he showed me a pic of a pretty girl and said it was his sister, then another one of her and then another one of the same girl topless!!? It was funny at the time, but after that any girl he was dating was refered to as his 'sister'! Of course the girl was his gf at the time.

I don't know what to suggest tho, either ask him outright what his situation is or just forget him if you think he's being secretive/deceitful.

Language / Double entendres in the Polish language? [37]

Yeah... sorry. Thought some examples might explain the term a bit better.

Where's JustysiaS when you need her??

Language / Double entendres in the Polish language? [37]

A woman walks into a bar and asks for a double entendre, so the barman gives her one

Chris Tarrant discussing the first Millionaire winner Judith Keppel on This
Morning: "She was practising fastest finger first by herself in bed last night."

Language / Double entendres in the Polish language? [37]

A double entendre, as Osiol says has two meanings, one bieng literal and the other almost always sexual in nature... so unless i'm missing something I don't think you're example would count as a double entendre :-)

Edit... opps you edited! haha

Food / First time eating Polish food [30]

You say gołąbki, I say golumpki (well, not me, but... you know)

froststreet.net/archives/2004/04/you_say_golabki_i_say_golumpki.html

Life / Styles in Poland: What do people wear? [65]


Hahaha... this is one of my favourite comments so far!

There most likely is some difference in style, as styles can vary from one end of a country to the other, let alone in totally differing cultures etc.

My Polish friends have just noticed that where we live if you see a girl in white wash jeans, you know, blue denim thats almost white, then 99% of the time its a Polish girl. Not a generalisation.. just an observation that they have made. I personally do not own a pair of jeans like that!

Language / The only polish word a foreigner won't ever say correctly :P [113]

I don't want to speak for all Polish speakers, but I know at least one who can't say crisps. Always comes out as crips! Actually, comes out as Lays because he's sick of me saying crisps at him!

Edit:
Word with five consonants in a row - angsts.
I've got loads of these, up to and beyond eighthly!

Oh and just for Osiol:
In Georgian, GVPRTSKVNI (you peel us) is a one-syllable word [Benjamin Schak].

Language / x=a kiss sign. What's a kiss sign for the Polish? [48]


Oh cr*p... why can't I think of a witty one letter response???

Language / x=a kiss sign. What's a kiss sign for the Polish? [48]

Actually... maybe my guy is the odd one out (most likely) but he didn't know what I meant when i sent him a text that was just an X. He asked me what is this? And I said a kiss and he replied.. polish kiss =:)

He always sent his kisses using that symbol for the first few months and now he just does xxxx's like everyone else.

Maybe its just him tho?!

Love / Kocham Cię vs I love you - which sounds more sexy? [55]


Lucky you!!

Sorry, can't comment beyond that unfortunately... boo hoo!

:-)

Love / English Girls according to Polish Guys....... [68]

I'm gonna ask my bf this and see what he says!

<------ English girl, Polish boy

Love / Polish Girlfriend, but she is not single ... [35]

This is a situation I have seen a couple of times with my friends.

Its not right but... (I'll have to use my friends as the example here)

The bf's came here first and the gf's soon followed because the bf's were lonely here on their own, with no family and the gf's wanted a new life (not to mention the mutual distrust of living in different countries, etc, etc)

But as time goes on they start getting sick of each other. In this case they are living in a small room in a shared house, on top of each other 24/7 (not literally... ok well, maybe for the first few months!)

Anyway, once the novelty of living together has worn off they have a predicament. If the bf splits up, then he will be abandoning the gf in a foreign country and how will she fend for herself (this is exactly the situation one of my friends has) etc etc. The bf also thinks the gf might want to leave but is waiting to meet someone new who will care for her and make sure she is ok.

So the long and the short of it is they stay together out of fear and convenience.

So... although mcog's situation isn't good and cheating shouldn't be condoned, I can see the other side of it. Maybe this girl is genuinely scared, but has fallen in love with mcog?

Oh and by the way, my husband had an affair and run off in the night with a younger version, after 10yrs of marriage, so I know all about infidelity!

Language / The use of buziaki [6]


Well that explains things! I got sent a message like that and couldn't work out why it was 102 kisses!

UK, Ireland / Babies of Polish couples born in England [25]

Agreed.

The baby is perfection personified by the way!

UK, Ireland / Babies of Polish couples born in England [25]

Aha... a post back on topic!

I was doubtful that being born here was enough, on its own, to get you a British passport, but I just wanted to know for sure. Not because it matters whether the baby in question has a British or a Polish passport, the parents aren't worried either way. I just wanted to know out of interest.

PS Nice to see you back on the forum JustysiaS telling the trolls where they can go! :-)

UK, Ireland / Babies of Polish couples born in England [25]

Thanks telefonitika and Wroclaw :-)

Travel / POZNAN LAWICA [9]

If all else fails... just get your mirror, make-up, etc out whilst you're waiting for your luggage..

You might get a few odd looks, but at least you'll be looking fabulous when he see's you!

Travel / POZNAN LAWICA [9]

Are you meeting someone in the arrivals hall and wanting to nip in to the toilet first to beautify yourself, by any chance??

:-)

Hope you have a great time when you're there!

Travel / Donkey visits Poland [76]

Sounds like you had a great time. I was hoping you'd start a thread on donkeys visit to Poland :-)

Love / Is it worth it, is my Polish guy trying to avoid me??? [49]

I agree with the Falkster, if you trust him then you just have to be a bit patient.

My Polish bf does exactly the same thing. He doesn't always reply to a message, some days he might not contact me at all because he's busy (or usually bcoz he's grumpy!!) and when he is in poland he just makes contact every couple of days for a couple of minutes, despite saying he will call me every day, etc, etc. Its just the way he is!

After a while you do get used to it and at first I worried a lot as well, but now I just know it's his way. In his mind everything is perfect so he doesn't realise I might be worrying.

Stick with it... the surprise sounds like it'll be worth the wait!! How exciting!! :-)

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]

Just to point out that the thread is about divorced Polish women with kids and we may have slipped in to just talking about divorced women with kids in general.

As the first responders pointed out, as Poland is a predominately Catholic country, it could be assumed that many Catholic men would not want to get involved with a divorced woman, couldn't it?

On the flip side, I have seen Polish men in the UK who behave differently over here, ie they would have a relationship with a divorced mother in the UK, but who would not do this in Poland, with the disapproving eye of their parents and local community, etc on them!

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


Haha... can I have dogs instead please? I'm not keen on cats!

I haven't met a man yet who didn't want to date me/have a relationship with me because I have kids. Maybe I've just been lucky!

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


but that's their problem! I won't cry for them :-)

UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]


Unfortunately, also true.

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


Haha... this is so funny! That is just your opinion, which is valid and I'm sure many men (real or otherwise!) would be in agreement with you, but...

there are also many men (real men... I checked!!) who just don't see the kids or the past as a problem!