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Fallen for a Polish Guy!! But he's got back to Poland to get married!


Jopper 1 | 8  
3 Apr 2008 /  #1
I have fallen in love with a polish guy, we have know each other a year now but he has gone back to poland. The worse part of this short story is he is getting married; I have heard from him since he went back he gave me his new number and said he still thinking about me. Before he left he told me he loved me and that I was very special to him. Why has he left me?
polishgirltx  
3 Apr 2008 /  #2
If

he still thinking about me

and

he loved me

and

I was very special to him

,
why
is he

getting married

?!??

IMO, it's a lost case...
plk123 8 | 4,150  
3 Apr 2008 /  #3
yeah.. you need to forget about his ar$e and find your own happiness and someone who deserves you. good luck
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #4
I have fallen in love with a polish guy

Before he left he told me he loved me and that I was very special to him

he left me

he is getting married

i am very sorry but he obviously isnt't thinking about you seriously, he is messing you about. the best thing you can do is to cease all contact with him because he will hurt you even more. if he loved you, he wouldnt be getting married to someone else. i'm sick of all these Polish tossers who leave their wives, girlfriends and fiancees back in Poland, play don Juans abroad and mess women about like this, it almost makes me wanna say 'beware of Polish men, they all cheat'!
plk123 8 | 4,150  
3 Apr 2008 /  #5
oh, and the women don't? have you not been reading some of these crazy 'love' stories on here?
telefonitika  
3 Apr 2008 /  #6
No comment !!!

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jestesjedyny 5 | 125  
3 Apr 2008 /  #7
omg he is getting married. you know what you should do? Go to Poland, find him and cut his daadaaa off!... loljk Men are good liars babe ;P forget about him! forget him! oh please do, he sounds evil & his intentions are worse than mine hahahahh smile! forget him though.
Mali - | 300  
3 Apr 2008 /  #8
Why has he left me?

He seems like a jerk and you should stay away from him. I think he just likes the idea of having you fawn after him while he has a woman back home. He sounds like a worthless excuse for a man.

i'm sick of all these Polish tossers who leave their wives, girlfriends and fiancees back in Poland

There are men like that from every nation. Sleaziness does not discriminate :)
Wulkan - | 3,251  
3 Apr 2008 /  #9
'beware of Polish men, they all cheat'!

Are you feeling ok today?
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #10
oh, and the women don't? have you not been reading some of these crazy 'love' stories on here?

yeah they do, i actually know a couple of Polish girls like that in person... and one of my british friends is trying to get an evil manipulating Polish guy out from her heart just now. its amazing how blind love makes you.

There are men like that from every nation. Sleaziness does not discriminate :)

lol true

Are you feeling ok today?

today? yeah i am ok. dunno about tomorrow ha ha. i just don't like people who manipulate others.
PinkJewel  
3 Apr 2008 /  #11
There are men like that from every nation. Sleaziness does not discriminate :)

Very true. The saying "he has a girl in every port" fits in here.

Jopper - leave it alone. Just cut contact with him. Take some time to yourself and get over him and then find someone who deserves you :)

You'll probably find that if he lived elsewhere while being here that there was a girl there too...
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #12
Why has he left me?

Listen darling, i'm a very honest and open person, you have clearly got yourself into a mess that you need to get out of. The first part you have to realise is 'HE IS GETTING MARRIED' so thats the first reason to 'BACK OFF'. 2nd thing, he said he was thinking about you and gave you his new number, have you heard from him, probably not, will you hear from him, maybe if he comes to england for a holiday and fancies playing away from the wife.

What he told you about liking and loving you before he left, was to keep you in his pocket just in case he comes back to england one day and fancies what i just said above or his marriage goes tits up. Either way 'YOU ARE 2ND CHOICE OR SECOND BEST TO HIM' so forget him and move on or you will find yourself in a world of ****, i can assure you that you don't want that.

I wish you good luck but please please please if your ever going to take a strangers advice, take it now.

Sorry for sounding so harsh and black and white but really you need telling,

thnx

T
telefonitika  
3 Apr 2008 /  #13
one of my british friends is trying to get an evil manipulating Polish guy out from her heart just now. its amazing how blind love makes you.

Tele says "mmmmmm vaguely familiar ... "

JT .. i will say (you know the story anyways so you will understand what i mean) done a complete vanishing act .... !
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #14
JT

who or what is that?? i thought JT stood for (John Terry) England captain, well not anymore but he should be!!!
Mali - | 300  
3 Apr 2008 /  #15
a complete vanishing act

How pathetic does a guy have to be do suddenly vanish? Some guys just need to grow the f*ck up, act like real men and be honest about their intentions.
telefonitika  
3 Apr 2008 /  #16
JT

lol lol ... Justyna knows

John Terry would never spring to my mind then any English football doesnt ... !
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #17
How pathetic does a guy have to be do suddenly vanish? Some guys just need to grow the f*ck up, act like real men and be honest about their intentions.

although in these cases i agree, have you tried being a man and trying to understand a women and her intentions and emotions, lol, its hard work sometimes :) I don't even get a wage for it, lol.

lol lol ... Justyna knows

John Terry would never spring to my mind then any English football doesnt ... !

ow ok, its a bit of inter-talk, didn't get what you meant, yeah sorry i should know not everybody likes england :)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #18
telefonitika:
JT
lol lol ... Justyna knows

JT is one of my nicknames at work and on facebook lol ;) vanishing act you say?

Some guys just need to grow the f*ck up, act like real men and be honest about their intentions.

amen to that, Mali...
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #19
JT is one of my nicknames at work and on facebook lol ;)

aha an answer finally, cheers :):)

amen to that, Mali...

guys TAKE COVER!!!!! lol
Mali - | 300  
3 Apr 2008 /  #20
I don't even know my own intentions sometimes :)
However....in the 'vanishing act' situation, its completely pathetic that a guy can't say "hey, I like flirting with you but I don't want to be with you". When a guy vanishes, all it says to me is that he's too afraid to deal with the situation.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #21
I don't even know my own intentions sometimes :)

you see :):):):)

However....in the 'vanishing act' situation, its completely pathetic that a guy can't say "hey, I like flirting with you but I don't want to be with you". When a guy vanishes, all it says to me is that he's too afraid to deal with the situation.

agreed, however its the same the other way around too:)
Mali - | 300  
3 Apr 2008 /  #22
amen to that, Mali...

guys TAKE COVER!!!!! lol

LOL
Be afraid!

agreed, however its the same the other way around too:)

Of course its the same if a woman does it to a guy. Except I rarely hear about women 'vanishing'. Usually women will give excuses, but at least they'll tell the guy that they're not interested.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #23
agreed, however its the same the other way around too:)

i'm actually hiding from one guy i have been talking to on msn for months, he's gotten a bit full on and i'm creeped out lol!
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #24
kool, sounds interesting lol, can you give an example of full on, i fancy a laugh :) I bet he was, hhhhhmmmm, Turkish or Arabic, well thats a great generalisation but who cares its free speach on this forum right :) or was he Polish, hahaha, that would be funny :)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #25
actually, he is scottish, he is single and lonely and keeps caling me hot all the time and messaging me if im not online for a couple of days... full on or what? we've been internet friends for a long time and he wasn't like this before so i feel bad about telling him to go away, i'm just doing nothing for now! tricky situation... oh yeah, i thought you knew what i did if a turk or an arab tried to talk to me online lol. i'm actually talking to my Polish ex as well, and he's gotten a bit weird too. all men are going mental this time of the year or something ha ha.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #26
ow a jock, well i wouldn't of pulled that one out of the hat in 10 guesses let alone 3.

ow Justysia your so hot, i can't spend a day or two without messaging you, damm i must control myself, what was it you were saying about all men being weird lately :):):):)

P.S. your pictures in your profile have gone bananas whats going on??
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #27
what was it you were saying about all men being weird lately

i'm sure you know ;). oh yeah i did see what happened to my pics, they were all stretched and pixelised, i just deleted them both now. another "improvement" from the admin, i liked his reply to my post earlier about the issue lol.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
3 Apr 2008 /  #28
Forget the loser. You'll have nothing but trouble and a miserable life if you keep in contact with him. He's getting married and he loves you? There must be something seriously wrong with him. The sooner you get him out of you mind the better.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #29
i liked his reply to my post earlier about the issue lol.

yeah i think i even commented on that, 'improvement' funny as hell when i saw he had wrote that :):):):)

i'm sure you know ;).

hay i'm weird all the time just not in the way where i become a sex pest, lol.
Mali - | 300  
3 Apr 2008 /  #30
i'm actually hiding from one guy i have been talking to on msn for months, he's gotten a bit full on and i'm creeped out lol!

Did he think you were dating? Although, if he's a stalker he probably did think something was going on.
My sister's ex still calls her cell after being broken up for over two years and begs her to come back to him (he always forgets what a piece of sh*t he was when they were dating ). He calls our house sometimes and hangs up when anyone other than my sister picks up. He made up a bunch of accounts on facebook and tried to add both my sister and me. etc. He won't quit. I wish he'd pull a 'vanishing act'.

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