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having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]
You post a message to us, in order to tell us that you're having an affair.
When you do it, you tell us you 'hate to admit it.'
That implies that there is something about the situation that you do not like, despite your protestations later on that, you're not hurting anybody, you're having fun and he's a 4 star.
Taking you at face value, all is well with your world. If so, then why are the wife and child a problem, as you suggested?
Those people, who i'm sure are lovely and lots of fun, are hundreds of miles away in Poland aren't they?
They know nothing about what fun their dad/husband is having, do they?
They don't know about you, do they? Leaving aside the fact that i'm sure, those same lovely people would probably be devastated if they knew, why are they the problem? They were in his life long before you were, but like you say, you've known him for two months, so i'm sure he'd never do that to you. :)
So, if the case is as stated; all is well and nobody who knows about what is going on is being hurt, then why are you still feeling bad and loathe to admit your indiscretions?
Have fun. :)
