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Getting engaged! I'm 18, he's 28. WOW


poland2006 2 | 85  
15 Dec 2006 /  #1
Yea.... thats right.. I am getting engaged.. and i am18 years old... umm.. but there is a small problem... he is 28 and i am 18.. is that wrong??????
Grzegorz_ 51 | 6,161  
15 Dec 2006 /  #2
is that wrong??????

I don't know, but nice avatar. :)
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
15 Dec 2006 /  #3
dzienkuje.. thnkxs... Uhh i dontknwo what to do!!!!
sledz 23 | 2,250  
15 Dec 2006 /  #4
Wait a few years things change alot when your 18 If you still love this guy when youre
21 then think about it... Are you going to college? I would think about finishing
your education first.:) :)
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
15 Dec 2006 /  #5
Didn't we already discuss this in another topic?

polishforums.com/love_means_never_having_say_sorry-16_4107_0.html
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
15 Dec 2006 /  #6
yes i am planning on going to school
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
15 Dec 2006 /  #7
This guy is creepy P2006! He may be nice, but it seems like he's into very very young girls. What happens when you're 20? He'll want another 15 yr old...yes I know you're 18 but you met at 15
sledz 23 | 2,250  
15 Dec 2006 /  #8
...yes I know you're 18 but you met at 15

Yeah, that is weird he was 25 and you were 15? I think this guy has a problem
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
15 Dec 2006 /  #9
yeah...definitely not recommended for mariage material. I'm sure the other women would agree.
wozzy 8 | 206  
15 Dec 2006 /  #10
i wish i had a boyfriend right now.. i am so lonly.. *sad**tears comming down my face*

That was quick!!!

You were wishing for a boyfriend 7 days ago.............

Your a fast worker for sure........:)
Huegel 1 | 296  
15 Dec 2006 /  #11
Sounds like the quickest shotgun in the West, er East. Yes :) Good luck and congratulations.
bpss  
15 Dec 2006 /  #12
When your guy hits 30 and you hit 20 both of your veiws and ambitions will have changed, better wait and see before rushing in, afterall you have the rest of your life to settle down. Your education is the most important thing for any young person. Without decent qualifications you limit your options ....Only my opinion....:)
Eurola 4 | 1,909  
15 Dec 2006 /  #13
Sounds like a "puppy love". I would not get tied up at 18. He might be established 28 years old, but his world is different than yours. Reconsider. You've got a lot of time.
kobieta  
16 Dec 2006 /  #14
i met my beau when i was 18 he was 33, he still wants me but i now like younger guys.
dziwna_gruszka - | 197  
17 Dec 2006 /  #15
Wow... Fisz that is so horrible... i mean if he loves her then he won't unless he's a jack arse.. then he will but hopefully they have a happy marriage... and at least she will be happy as long as shegoes to school and finishes before she has kids...!! That's my opinion....
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
17 Dec 2006 /  #16
Do you not find this strange D_g? Sorry, but being a man..I find it strange when a man in his 20's falls in love with a 15 yr old....I know she's 18 now, but this started when she was just a little girl. Honestly, I'd becareful with a guy like that. I don't mean any disrespect to her, but his character is a bit off.
shewolf  
17 Dec 2006 /  #17
I wonder if he even really is 28. Sometimes men who like teenagers are older and lie about their age.
miranda  
17 Dec 2006 /  #18
I have a feeling that Poland is just trying to get attention on this forum. She didn't have a boyfriend, now she has one, another post says that she is looking for one, so I think that she is not honest here.

Poland, I feel that you should talk to your parents or friends, because obviously something is bothering you and since you are providing mixed info here I wouldn't be surprised if none of it was true.

It's unfortunate, but this forum will not solve whatever is bothering you, I think.
sledz 23 | 2,250  
17 Dec 2006 /  #19
Do you not find this strange D_g? Sorry, but being a man..I find it strange when a man in his 20's falls in love with a 15 yr old....I know she's 18 now, but this started when she was just a little girl. Honestly, I'd becareful with a guy like that. I don't mean any disrespect to her, but his character is a bit off.

I`d have to agree with Fisz a guy looking for a girl being that age is strange.
I`m no angel the girl that I`m seeing is 10 years younger than me but I met her when she was 27 an adult.

have a feeling that Poland is just trying to get attention on this forum. She didn't have a boyfriend, now she has one, another post says that she is looking for one, so I think that she is not honest here.

Could be true kids like to make up stuff sometimes to get attention...
dziwna_gruszka - | 197  
17 Dec 2006 /  #20
Well it is strange i mean why would someone that old go out with a 15 year old... maybe miranda they met when she was 15 and he fell in love but she didn't want to and then they met not to long ago and are getting engaged... i don't know that' my interpretation... it was just what you said Fisz he is creepy.. but why did she wa nt a boyfriend 7 days ago and now she's getting engaged that is fishy.. maybe she wanted a new boyfriend... but i wish you all the best Poland...
sledz 23 | 2,250  
17 Dec 2006 /  #21
I defenetly think she is a bit confused. I hope she makes the right choice .
Being that young she could make a bad decision that could affect her the rest of her life..
Good luck though...Poland
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
17 Dec 2006 /  #22
yeah...definitely not recommended for mariage material. I'm sure the other women would agree.

my father would have locked me up and thown away the key if I was even dating at 15...let alone a bloke that much older.

Personally I think she's just attention seeking and is making it all up.
dziwna_gruszka - | 197  
17 Dec 2006 /  #23
Well are her parent's here maybe she should talk to her parent's you know...
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
20 Dec 2006 /  #24
Well thankxs to you guys.. i told him not now.. and i told him i amnot rady to have a reationship at this young of a age.. so its over....
shewolf  
20 Dec 2006 /  #25
Seriously? Wow. I'm impressed. I think you made the right choice but I'm sure it wasn't easy.
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
21 Dec 2006 /  #26
No it wasnt but i did... make the right one.. thanks to all of you ... now i am single .. and happy
Zgubiony 15 | 1,554  
21 Dec 2006 /  #27
Just lookin out for ya...that's all. Good decision on your part.
sledz 23 | 2,250  
22 Dec 2006 /  #29
Good choice kiddo :) You have plenty of time so go have some fun....... be safe and
have a good xmas:)
bpss  
22 Dec 2006 /  #30
Well done, at least you decided to listen to good advise,, Have a good xmas.....:)

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