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Getting engaged! I'm 18, he's 28. WOW


OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #31
Well... I am back in the wedding plans.....
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
1 Mar 2007 /  #32
so whatre the plans?
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #33
well... we are talking about getting married after i am done with school
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
1 Mar 2007 /  #34
how long have you got left at school... are you then going to uni?
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #35
well i have one more year till iam done with high school.. what do you mean by

are you then going to uni?

BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
1 Mar 2007 /  #36
i just wondered if you are going to go to university after highschool...
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #37
oh yes.. i amgoing to go to collage
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
1 Mar 2007 /  #38
cool... and then get married after that...
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #39
yea i thik so.. we might even get married after high school who knos.. when ever he wants to porpose to me

Mar 1, 07 [09:57] - Attached on merging:
I need your help!

I am 18 female, dating a guy who is 28. I have been with him for 3 years now and this year we are really seriouse in our realationship. We are talking about weddings and talking about kids now. What am i to do??? Help??
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
1 Mar 2007 /  #40
think yourself lucky that you have such a strong loving relationship... finish school... go to university... look at how life goes and then think about getting married... and then think about having kids...

:)
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #41
Thanxs... yea i am planning on going to go to collage and finish high school..... eveyone has been telling me that i am lucky in so many diff ways. i just dont knwo what they arte
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
1 Mar 2007 /  #42
youre lucky that you have found happiness at such a young age... many people wait years to find their special person... some people never find them..

i am really glad that you are in a relationship where you both feel comfortable talking about marriage... but my gut instinct is to say dont rush into anything... you are young... who life in front of you... etc etc... :)
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #43
awww well thank you so much for sayig that.

yea i am gald i have found someone as well... i have been hurt many times and i dont lik it. i am gald that he loves me for me and only me. i wont rush things.. he wants me to finsh school, get a job and start living my life
Arien  
1 Mar 2007 /  #44
eveyone has been telling me that i am lucky in so many diff ways.

Yup, you defo are lucky in so many different ways, but what if I would speak my mind and say one of those ways would be that you're very good looking? Then what? Would you smile? Think too much? Or just laugh? Probably the last one. :)

But it's true, you're a stunning young lady, and if you have a boyfriend who's good for you, and you study for a half-decent qualification, then I'm sure your future looks bright indeed.

Wish the best of luck to you. :)

he wants me to finsh school, get a job and start living my life

Then you should hold on to him, it's obvious that he cares for you and your future, which is good, that's valuable. :)
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #45
hat you're very good looking? Then what? Would you smile? Think too much? Or just laugh?

i would smile and say thank you

arien.. thank you so much.. that is so sweet... yea i will keep him.. hehehe but i dont know
peterweg 37 | 2,319  
1 Mar 2007 /  #46
Wait until you are at least 21 before getting married, doing it too young can screw up a marriage.
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
1 Mar 2007 /  #47
So you got back together with him?
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
1 Mar 2007 /  #48
What am i to do??? Help??

What do you mean by "help"? Do you feel unsure about the situation?
jimbo 2 | 13  
1 Mar 2007 /  #49
similar situation here but I am 38 & my girlfriend is 24 !
she was the one who chose me last April when she worked in England
we speak to each other at least twice every day !
I will be back in Poland with her in April now she has finished her law degree !

GOOD LUCK POLAND 2006
i_love_detroit 1 | 69  
1 Mar 2007 /  #50
Seriously, Poland, do you have any friends? It's not that kind of topic I'd discuss with strangers.
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
1 Mar 2007 /  #51
yes i did get back with him.. well i knwo what i want to do and i wont get married till after i am done with school
ArturSzastak 3 | 593  
1 Mar 2007 /  #52
Its by-tor- the snowdog...

He's a QT :)

yea i am gald i have found someone as well... i have been hurt many times and i dont lik it. i am gald that he loves me for me and only me. i wont rush things.. he wants me to finsh school, get a job and start living my life

As long as you're happy go for it, just make sure its not your only option. Things change over time so it might not stay perfect for long. Good luck :)
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
6 Mar 2007 /  #53
hey.thnkxsa a lot for ur support
josecitomadera  
6 Mar 2007 /  #54
Yeah, that is weird he was 25 and you were 15? I think this guy has a problem

In the latino culture and many cultures worldwide, the man is at least 10 years older than the woman. This ensures a long relationship. You're 18 and if you get with someone your own age, then you will have real problems.
Arien  
6 Mar 2007 /  #55
You're 18 and if you get with someone your own age, then you will have real problems.

I disagree, because some adults can be extremely childish, and some youngsters can be very mature. And vice versa. :)

Anyway, Justyna.. If he's good for you, he's good for you, we can't judge a man we don't know now can we? Really wish you two good luck. :)
josecitomadera  
6 Mar 2007 /  #56
What is more probable? An 18 year old boy being able to deal with life's problems better than a 28 year old. I'm 26 now and I can deal with problems better than when I was 18. I am secure in many more ways now than before (emotionally, financially, spiritually). Many younger girls that I know would rather date an older guy because of maturity. Well I'm talking from the latino perception. What is the Polish take on this?
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
6 Mar 2007 /  #57
Well... your right. you cant juge him if you dont know him. But yea... a lot of younger girls do rather dat older guys beacuse they are more mature. I am really happy with my bf. There really is not problem with the 10 year diffrenace really. Beacuse when you get older it only seems just a number to you. So i dunno really.
josecitomadera  
6 Mar 2007 /  #58
Anyways 28 is still young. He looks young. Its not like he's old like over 35
Rubin 3 | 11  
6 Mar 2007 /  #59
Yea.... thats right.. I am getting engaged.. and i am18 years old... umm.. but there is a small problem... he is 28 and i am 18.. is that wrong??????

there is no problem
age is in your personality not date of birth!
OP poland2006 2 | 85  
6 Mar 2007 /  #60
YEA THATS TRUE.. HE ISNT OLD.. HE IS STILL REALLY YOUNG,... AND THATS WHY I LOVE HIM.. BC HE IS A SWEETHEART

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