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sadieann   
26 Sep 2009
Language / How does Polish sound to you? How to make Polish sound more pleasurable? [100]

I've heard girls speaking very soft and rather quiet.

Good point. Women continue to speak in a normal tone and softly. It's hard to keep up with men. I feel like I'm yelling. No voice the next day. Throughout this, men do continue to be polite to women. Generalization.
sadieann   
25 Sep 2009
Language / How does Polish sound to you? How to make Polish sound more pleasurable? [100]

Polish is very passionate, expressive, and loud. It does sound like arguing and yelling. You have to be amped up to be heard or to get in a word. Frustrating due to the interrupting. Add Vodka, and every other word is Kurwas. Extremely, animated. One could do stand up. I've laughed so hard watching stories being told because the teller acts out everything. Hysterical.
sadieann   
23 Sep 2009
Life / How much cash to give as a wedding gift? [25]

Bottom line: The Bride and Groom have invited you as GUESTS. There is no stipulation as to a gift. Use your own guidelines and common sense. Weddings are either traditional or not. Depends, on the wedding your going to? What are the traditions in Poland?
sadieann   
23 Sep 2009
Life / How much cash to give as a wedding gift? [25]

Is this a true Polish Custom to give money? Money is typically given by immediate family only in my experience. A registry is usually established with the couples needs. This eliminates the 10 Fondue Sets. The couple establishes their needs of China, Silver, down to linens.
sadieann   
23 Sep 2009
Love / Proposing to my Polish girlfriend [33]

Express your love. Choose what is fitting for you. There is no price on an engagement ring. Naturally, you should gravitate toward a ring that expresses your relationship and your commitment to each other.
sadieann   
12 Aug 2009
History / Who lost WWII (besides Poland)? [42]

'actually yes, your right in one sense, why not look forward (or more positively) than in this continual negative fashion' I've just been down to the bookies for the odds.....................

Funny...

Nothing can be done about the past yet you still bang on about it so much, its like Poland has nothing else to offer apart from a few sad stories and 'victimisation claims'

True! A fitting quote came to mind..

" I like the dreams of the future
better than the history of the past". -Thomas Jefferson
sadieann   
12 Aug 2009
News / Polish transfer of Family Estate in Will? [14]

Yes you should. I just checked with a very good (Polish) real estate lawyer and the advice is that a gift of property before the death of the giftor can not be challenged after their death by any of the necessary heirs.

Thank you. This is definately what I want to be done. Tata set it up a will in June. I would prefer to take care of Estate transfer now. Past experience, nightmare later. Now, a new roof and maintenance needs to be taken care of. If I will be paying into the home, other options need to be secured.

That's excellent news for the OP. We wanted to spend money developing the "family home", which I was unwilling to do if I would then have to pay inheritance tax on it. So we had the parents gift it to us several years ago (although it ended up being their suggestion, so that worked out best).

Thanks, your situation is very similiar to mine now. It appears we will be having work done on the 'family home'. Quotes are being sought. We trust and love each other. That would delete the inheritance tax..
sadieann   
29 Jul 2009
History / Bielski Brothers - does anyone know the story? [38]

No its not, the movie is a lie glorifying a bunch of thugs and murderers.

Worthless information unless you want to argue that teaching your kids how to survive as a Jew in WW2 has some merit in everyday life.

Kids should be educated about history and WWII. I didn't deem it worthwhile or worthless. Merely stated the concept of the story. I didn't go into the Politics of the Bielski Brothers.

I did state that it was about vegeance. Yes, Murder was involved. It does make you question what individuals and a group will due for survival. Do you wonder if it's your last day or due you try to survive? Can you live with what you don't condone and commit the same atrocities?
sadieann   
29 Jul 2009
History / Bielski Brothers - does anyone know the story? [38]

Recently, just watched Defiance. Yes, it is controversial, but it does provide an insight into the survival of Jews. Fascinating true story. It's an epic of family, honor, vengeance and salvation.
sadieann   
24 Jul 2009
News / Polish transfer of Family Estate in Will? [14]

so anyone who is excluded or gets less than an even share in a will can demand that the remainder of the inheritors pay compensation of 50% of what he/she didn't get - it's called "zachówek".

Next question: Does it count that his brother received a home already while he was still alive? He has documented to attorney that my husband still lives there? We want to keep the family home and not sell it. His brother on the other hand, will only care about selling it and the money. We told Tata we don't want to deal with it one way or the other after he's gone. We would prefer to know now. His brother is so disrespectful and could care less about his father. My grandfather started distributing who he wanted to have real estate and investments while he was alive. I told my husband that maybe we should have him give/by it now to avoid problems later.
sadieann   
21 Jul 2009
Love / Polish boys - are they handsome? [46]

good shot.

I agree.

#1
Im just curious - What the UK girls think about polish folks ;)? are the good-looking

Be humble and confident. Locale of women isn't going to change the impression they have of you. Rephrase "Polish Boys", not the best verbage. Generalizing is opening yourself up to trouble.
sadieann   
20 Jul 2009
Real Estate / Selling in poland, how do i get money to USA paying little or no taxes? [8]

Get it in cash and sew it into the liner of your suitcase or coat.

get the money from the sale of this home to the USA -paying very little

Once in the US, (if you want to put it in the bank), deposit under 10k, otherwise it is automatically reported.
Personally, I'm a cash person. Nothing illegal, but I like my privacy..!
Funny story: I like keeping hundred dollar bills. I fold them in half until I have a 1k and just keep going.. I literally, did it until I had 100k. I wanted to buy some real estate. I went to my mortgage broker and I jokingly told her I had this money under my mattress. "Mattress Money"....
sadieann   
19 Jul 2009
Love / Need help figuring out a polish guy [55]

we were immediately attracted! We hit it off real well, we kept staring at eachother

Never, Ever, Sleep with a man on the first date, you'll lose him forever. Wait atleast, for a second date...
sadieann   
17 Jul 2009
Love / My Perfect Love Story so I thought [73]

This is a hard time for you. Yes, you invested a lot into this relationship. Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Be strong. When you find yourself thinking about her, remember the pain she caused you. This is the first step forward. Next, live life and cherish it. You have your health, good heart, and family. This wasn't meant to be. Your True Love is waiting for you. This special person will appreciate you. To truly have loved once is better than to have never loved. To have found your one true love, once in your life is a miracle.You may feel that you loved her, but she truly hurt you. That isn't Love. Don't make the mistake of giving up. It's not the solution and it intensifies your dispair, because you add more negative feelings. Perhaps, take a trip. It will do you good. Do something for just you. Have fun, laugh and think of your new adventures. Good Luck to you...If you love her, let her go.
sadieann   
11 Jul 2009
News / Does Poland count in Europe or is it ignored? [428]

Dear John,
So glad you diverted your attention from women.

changing and losing its identity.

Poland never will lose it's identity. It overcame too much and has a will that can"t compete with other EU nations. It already has and will continue to be strong.
sadieann   
11 Jul 2009
USA, Canada / Taste of Polonia 2009 Chicago, Illinois [33]

I'll drink to that..Good music.. Love Live Music! Chicago monapolis of Poles in US, we're only (last count) 3-4k strong. The best we have our party's at the Polish Home. May have to make a trip to Chicago. Better yet, soon I'm going to Poland, but I want to see More Polski in US. (That's are biggest importer) for ZWIEC and etc. We're small, but STRONG!
sadieann   
11 Jul 2009
Life / How much Zloty to have an average life in Poland? [98]

na raty..?

Its called "na raty"...

If one has been smart with money and not living on credit, doubt the na raty.. People
that have money usually know the value of money and how to use it wisely. They
probably can live on half, but actually are capable and have the means to spend more.
Security with money is the best. It is interesting to hear the varying costs of living.
Should atleast, get an average depending upon where you live and life style and overall,
plan.
sadieann   
8 Jul 2009
Love / My polish guy left me!!! Why do people post that here? [46]

lol im 13 and im not kidding

It doesn't sound like you are. Your 13 and want to kill yourself if a guy doesn't like you? Puppy Love.. You have your whole life ahead of you. Never let someone else determine your happiness. You can be anything, your just starting out. Don't rely on anyone, but yourself.! lol? I'm serious this isn't something to say. Value your self. That is a solution that will haunt every one that loves you. Take Care. Keep talking. It sounds like you need to.
sadieann   
8 Jul 2009
Love / My polish guy left me!!! Why do people post that here? [46]

i dont know about you guys but if the polish boy i like hated me i would kill myself X¬l

First, your PF name: iluvmaciej? How old are you? Please tell me your not serious...? If so, I would suggest counseling...
sadieann   
1 Jul 2009
Life / What really represents Polish people? What would be the symbol of Poland... [51]

I need it to put it in the cover of my research... so it needs to be something that you can design...

***IDEAS: 1ST BRAIN STORM- WITHOUT STOPPING OR ANALYZING- take all symbolism of Poland and write, sketch as many ideas as possible.
Next: intuitively focus on your objective of project and rely on what you gravitate towards. Don't limit yourself to 'placing value one over the other.' Although, you feel your placing importance over another-your not- and that makes your project limited.

You've stated your leaning toward Syrenka/Mermaid? Will that capture the Polish Spirit?
Focus on what Poles truly stand for..Good Luck..Would love to see finished Design!