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Interests: Keeping fit,playing guitar(15 years)riding motorbikes,learning polish:-)

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Griff76   
17 Jan 2007
Feedback / Request for translation deleted? [25]

Kochana_Babcia i had the same problem yesterday,it bothered me but after reading why i understood what Admin was saying,im like you.........need a little practise:)
Griff76   
5 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

Hey i will keep in mind all the comments i've received here,its always great to hear other peoples opinions.........actually had a shock today,she called me!!!!Only the second time ever....i was happy but im still keeping my distance,etc........funny thing is i got a text from O2(mobile phone company)yesterday offering me 10% of my top-ups back for the last 3 months..............they gave me 36 pounds credit.........well its was worth 360 pounds to hear her voice:)

Thank you everyone,im trying to distance myself from her,although i still jump to my phone everytime i get a text:)im flying to Ireland tomorrow,the next step of trying to conquer my fear of flying,actually i'll try and take a picture when im on the plane and post it here.......thats if it doesn't crash:)
Griff76   
3 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

thanks for all the positive comments people,im not sure i'll make a move on her sister.........that did make me laugh though:)i'll keep you informed as to how this pans out.

Simon.

Nice to have such helpfull words,thanks.
Griff76   
3 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

Thanks again everyone,i knew i'd get an honest opinion of what to do from everyone on here,some of the comments made me laugh:) and others touched me:) and made me realise im not alone:)im staying away from her now and taking everyday as it comes,she's coming back to work here in 4 months and i hope to be living elsewhere by then.

Simon.
Griff76   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

Thank you for the comments,its really helpfull to have a outside take on things,i think you were right,she was trying to spare my feelings,in reality as much as we had great times together she doesn't feel the same way about me,i will try my best to distance myself from her,i sent 2 Christmas packages that she hasn't received yet so i'll expect to have a little thank you from her at some point.........the way i feel now im just not ready to be friends with her,i can't act like im not in love with her..........i will do the right thing and just leave her to be happy in what she chooses to do.

Thank you again....im touched.
Griff76   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

Bossie i will see if we make it that far and see how it goes with her........thanks.

Telefonitika i agree with you,it does seem suspect,since she went back 4 months ago she never did answer the phone when i rang out of the blue,i always text her and said......'is it ok if we talk kochana,etc' so she'd say,can we speak later or im not home yet,etc,etc,so out of respect i'd wait untill then

Also the reason she said she doesn't want to be with me is that she wants to be alone,find herself,etc,like i told you i said i'd wait for her and i would be happy to for as long as she took,to me she is the one!!But if she's with another guy then the reason she doesn't want to be with me isn't because she wants to be 'alone',she should of told me.........i want to date other people and your not one of them,etc........

Krysia,thank you..........i understand what you are saying,i wish i never fell in love with her,im guilty of chasing that image of perfect love with her as i believed it was real,i will take a big step back and just see what happens,i need to for my self,im getting hurt to much and i don't feel i was the man i was before i met her,its time for me to just get on with it and heal........
Griff76   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

Hi Bossie,
Im in Wales and she's in Poland,i call her everyday and we did text alot to,she's been back in Poland for 4 months now,she did come over her in November and i was supposed to go over in December but i have a problem with flying(see previous posts

)i am booked to go over in January,when she did go back she said she wanted to be alone,i told her that i would wait for her untill she would feel ready,etc,i remained faithfull here,she know's im in love with her,i think its just not the right time in her life for love,maybe!!She went to Zakopane for New Years and that where everything has seemed to change in her,she told me she wanted space......so i only text her when she text me,i kept it light,hoped she was having a great time,you know........i called her yesterday and it was a bad signal and i felt she was distant with me,it did get me worried,so i called her today to see if the signal was any better,of course i heard men laughing in the background and she had to quickly leave........i wrote to her this.......'Magda have you met a guy there?If you have just tell me as i don't want to be in love with you anymore,its killing me inside'(so much for keeping it light).........she wrote back that she was in a car with 2 guys and 2 girls and that i would never understand her 'space'???

So i apologised but nothing from her.........obviously im going crazy but im not going to call her and text her and push her more away.....

Simon.
Griff76   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

Hi everyone,
Well the Polish girl im in love with doesn't want anything more to do with me,i don't feel its my fault,the only thing i'm guilty of is being in love with her????I do feel like my world has come to an end,im not eating,sleeping,etc.....you know the usuall!!!How we got together is a very long story,so i won't bore anyone:)

I think she just wants to be friends and it feels like she's just forgetting all the special times we had and treating me like a stranger!!!Its driving me mad......I've thought about this very hard and i still love her so very much but to just turn those emotions i have inside me off and have next to nothing contact just doesn't seem right to me.....its to painfull to me and gives me no time to heal my broken heart,i do feel discarded by her and that hurts me alot.

So as much as i want to hold on and hope that one day she will come running back into my arms i've just got to face facts and realise its not going to happen,what i would like to do is have some sort of message translated by you good people.......

i don't know......something like........

'I love you more than anything but the way things are now are to painfull for me to carry on,i can't just forget what happened and just treat you as a friend,i think the best soloution is to stop contact between us,it will be hard but i will never forget the woman who i truely gave my heart to'

Actually i don't know what to do????I know i can't go on like this,so any advice is appreciated,i would of married this girl,thats how serious i am about her but i will let her go if thats her wish,i love her to do that,i just want to do it the right way!!!!!

I appreciate the time anyone spends reading this and any help given.

Simon.
Griff76   
25 Dec 2006
Love / Polish boyfriend hasn't been writing to me... [16]

The drawing you sent him(i just read on another post the he hasn't had it yet)
Believe me 'Love' is the most difficult emotion in the world,im 30 now and i still make mistakes,i follow my heart to much and always end up hurt.

It ended between me and the italian girl(Barby)because i hate flying and i didn't go to Italy..........i hate this fear and it has caused me to lose someone who was special to me....that was 2 years ago now,actually i spoke with her today,i do think to myself...'what if i just flew to her then,how would my life be know?'.

Now i've met a polish girl and i made the same mistake.........:)
Although you are young it doesn't mean what you feel isn't real,for me when a woman is in love with me its just the best feeling in the world,try and be ok,i know its hard.......i go crazy in my mind when i don't get a text from Magda,texting is all we have.

You always have the people on here to try and help you.
Simon.
Griff76   
25 Dec 2006
Love / Polish boyfriend hasn't been writing to me... [16]

hey kitten don't give up hope..........i once met an italian girl on the internet,we fell in love.she flew to Manchester and i was waiting with a rose:-)all we had to keep in touch was texting,emails and phone calls,i once had an £800 phone bill(ahh the price of love).........i understand that your worried that he hasn't got in touch,im sure he's missing you like mad.

How did he like the picture you sent?
Ciao Ciao.Simon.
Griff76   
16 Dec 2006
News / sending a letter to poland [33]

Kitten believe me he will like this drawing,its a great idea,i wish i could draw because i've thought of sending the same thing to the girl i love a few weeks ago............If someone special to me sent me something that they had spent so much time doing.......well i'd be lost for words to be honest........i'm sure he will feel the same.

Good Luck!
Griff76   
12 Dec 2006
UK, Ireland / Reporting Illegal polish workers in UK to Hm customs [133]

F**k the goverment,they take enough money so they can afford to lose some,the Polish were just trying to get by,your a rat............so get back to your sewer with all the other rats and stay there..................oh yeah and while your there learn how to spell!
Griff76   
7 Dec 2006
Language / Complete the saying in correct form and spelling? [9]

Yeah she does that finger walk,always makes me laugh:)
Why are you getting uncomfortable?I think its such a sweet thing when she does it,its the little things that make you fall in love!!

Thanks for the translation!
Griff76   
7 Dec 2006
Language / Complete the saying in correct form and spelling? [9]

Hi,the girl i'm with sometimes plays this little game with me and she says this Polish saying(forgive my spelling,im writing how it sounds to me).

'E JER RAK,NIE BOR RAK..............I can't pronounce the rest of it,could someone here write the full thing in Polish for me???

I want to text it her to chear her up:)
Griff76   
6 Dec 2006
Travel / WOOOHHHEEE POLAND IN A WEEK...holiday [18]

I was booked on a flight to go to Gdansk today(from Liverpool)but i'm nervous of flying and i was in the airport but last minute i changed my mind,it was a big mistake because the girl of my dreams was waiting in Gdansk:)