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Patrycja19   
6 Jan 2009
USA, Canada / FIRST POL-AM CATHOLIC (?) PRIESTESS [72]

Patrycja19:
I dont claim to be expert in catholic religion

Yes we can see that by your comments such as...

ok.. again, the original topic is about.. first pol-am catholic..

and I think that it would be a better option then the pedofiles <~facts
that are serving in the church now..

theres far to many MALE PEDOFILES.. making things bad for the Catholic religion
they change to suit..

tell us oh catholic one.. tell us something good about the catholic religion and how good it is so we may join this following and become good catholics like you are.. give us some type of hope oh expert of chicago :)

I for one would love to hear more.. lets hear your views..

or would you still want to cont attacking?

I would love to hear more from eurola..
Patrycja19   
5 Jan 2009
USA, Canada / FIRST POL-AM CATHOLIC (?) PRIESTESS [72]

Going to church is part of a practicing Catholic.

says who? so in order to pray you have to go to a church..
now whos ignorant. you can pray on your front porch if you want.
doesnt mean your less a catholic just because the people who run it are less then holy.. she left for her reasons.

The only ignorant person here is you sweetie.

yeah and your the expert.. ha ha hahahahahahaaaaa

Its not my fault she didnt teach you about her religion.

never said it was.. I dont claim to be expert in catholic religion, and I dont think you are either. and the thread was about a woman priestess.. so I agree,. there should be more. at least that woman who was ordained is married and so we dont have to worry about young choir boys getting messed with.. isnt that right !

your argument with me was about my comment on old and new testament. which I was joking around and just making a statment , no harm intended but ya took it further and made some rude comments about someone elses mom that you dont even know.. yep good catholic arent you.

I dont know who your mother was, what she practiced, and honestly I dont care.

good, so then dont comment anymore about it and I wont comment to your stupid crap.. calling someone you dont know a lesbian and thats expert advise coming from a good catholic who practices.. what did you learn in church yesterday?

There is nothing Kosher in the Catholic religion, shows how ignorant you are.

no , in America we use the word kosher as slang.. meaning its not cool/kosher to talk crap/shyt about others.. like calling them lesbian or making comments about other peoples family.
Patrycja19   
3 Jan 2009
USA, Canada / FIRST POL-AM CATHOLIC (?) PRIESTESS [72]

Maybe your mom "didnt go back" because she didnt know much about the religion to begin with. Its rare that a person knowing the religion very well step away. Its usually due to ignorance of what it truely is, and laziness to find out. It's easier to say bah humbug

Well. I would talk to my mom more about it, but shes with god right now..

she stepped away from the church, not her religion, she stayed catholic she just didnt go back to church.

my mom wasnt ignorant as you are right now for saying such things about a beautiful person that you dont have a feken clue about..

and if your so true to your religion, you would know its not kosher to talk shyt and judge like you are so harshly.. but I would bet you know you will meet your maker and have to answer for all the stupid things you did and do in your life..

I find it pretty selfish to talk bad about other people.. you dont sound like a good catholic. especially if your calling someone a lesbian before you even know them..

I think its pure laziness to not find out more about the person and what they represent for the religion.. I also think its ignorance to to call someone a lesbian or predict the future when you havent even met her to know what type of person she is and your condeming her before she is committed a wrong..

wow, do you think your a KNOW IT ALL????

Such extreme treatment doesn't make sense to many ordinary Catholics, Meehan told NCR. "They ask, 'Why would you excommunicate someone who just wants to serve God?' " More and more Catholics are accepting the idea of women priests, she said.

ncronline3.org/drupal/?q=node/1568

this is the link to the story Polonius3 has posted..
and yes I agree with the above statement.. why would the church <~the good ole church and its laws tell someone they cant serve god????

u have a good answer, cause I am listening!!!

natcath.org/NCR_Online/archives2/2003a/030703/030703g.htm

Pope secretly approves changes to permit quicker trials, dismissal of priests

the vatican is not the law.. but as you can see.. the church does.. I repeat does make its own laws.. <~changes to suit, this wasnt a bad change, but non the less is a change made by a church.. god doesnt support this.. man does.

I could post a million more for you.. changes the church has made.

cha cha cha anges.. like david bowie!!!

compassdistributors.ca/topics/cathtrad.htm

But the Bible commands us to be separate from false gospels,

read this Seanbm

I believe in god, but not what man has changed by gods words.. and heres proof of that, and its been proven over and over..

the church does what it wants.. its almost corporate just like everthing else.

if this woman wants to teach about god and she is married, good natured and caring person.. why not?
Patrycja19   
3 Jan 2009
Love / Polish Girlfriend gone missing [154]

if not then you just move on. relationships are hard work.

justy, I cant agree with you more , just keep your head held high ;)
Patrycja19   
2 Jan 2009
USA, Canada / FIRST POL-AM CATHOLIC (?) PRIESTESS [72]

Catholic religion does not allow women as priests,

well with all the pedofiles something should change.. god didnt say thou should play with young boys either.. they said they were catholic/baptised and took a oath to god !

That by any standards, is a terrible thing to teach a child.

that is why some choose to not keep interpreting things as they are written because the book was at one time called the old testament then it became the new testament.. pretty soon it will say.. versions 1 thru 500

I have my beliefs, but each parish/priest does have their own ways of teaching and rules to how things should be within this community.

its funny how you cant even get your own family history without sending a good amount of money and some priests are nice and do the respectful thing and some will snub you.. so I dont know how these men who are ordained get ordained when they are not fully capable of being around the public.

thats why my mom never went back.. so many things change to suit.
Patrycja19   
2 Jan 2009
Love / Polish Girlfriend gone missing [154]

so all women, regardless of age or nationaliy = mental!

well then I guess we will have to put yo mamma in the mental ward for having you right :)
Patrycja19   
30 Dec 2008
Life / Bad opinion about Polish people - rumour or the truth? [90]

A black woman dropped her wallet on the crowded street. Poorly dressed man who walk behind her picked up the wallet run to her and to her surprise returned it to her. She could not believed what happened .

she should have given him something in appreciation.. I would have, not saying she had to, but that would have been honorable thing to do seeing that he returned her wallet and was honest.. show those around her how good people can be..

The Good, the Bad and the Ugly are everywhere, in every country.

this is the truth.. that is pretty much what i was trying to explain in another thread, but it became to intense.. I felt like I was arm wrestling.
Patrycja19   
30 Dec 2008
Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]

If you form part of some minority group (religious, ethnic, political, sexual orientation etc.), you should hide this fact in case it offends people?

I dont run around saying I am polish and I have sex with a man on a daily basis... and I really dont think if I did say this, I would get to many dirty looks VS someone who says I am gay.. and I have sex with a man , or I am black and gay etc etc..

I didnt make this up, it really happens.

when interviewing for a job.. does the application on it have a place to put what gender you prefer?? they dont care, they just want you to do your job!!

when you walk into a coffee shop .does it say gays sit here and do the bathrooms have seperate places for them too??

does every gay person in the world say, I am gay, and I want you to know that I have sex with a man or women.. I really dont give a rats arse!!

just like my preference shouldnt be a big deal..

I am saying, stop drawing attention to yourself..

and as for the above ... all the rest you wrote, your taking what I said way over the top and out of context as to how I am feeling.. your making it sound like I am trying to surpress their way of life.. would you rather see a friend go to work in one piece whos gay and come home in one piece or would you rather he shout to the whole f-EN world, I am gay and someone take a pot shot at him??

I am done with this debate/conversation.. because I dont feel your catching my message and so with that I will agree and be done .
Patrycja19   
29 Dec 2008
Life / Coming back to Poland after 5 years in UK [14]

lol, don't tell me you have balls too! lol..

apparently more then you.. :) ha ha..

Patrycja and Bolek are both right.
I need to say that Bolek's opinion that the feel and touch effect doesn't work in Poland at all is...true. I am going to write to Patrycja personally as well.

ok Paulina, I would like that :)

bolek and I were discussing the best course of action to help.

I am glad our replys could help some, and help you to smile :)
Patrycja19   
29 Dec 2008
Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]

If someone came on to PF and said ''I hate Polish people, I don't think they should have the same rights as other people, and it is my right to think so'', I'm sure they would receive a few abusive/indignant responses. Even though it is their right to believe it. No?

I wont argue that.. because we have had this ,, its a daily thing and as much as we tell them to deny some of the abusers rights to come in pf because of this, they are still here..

just like the kkk still exists, and nazis still exists <~ and I for one cant stand people like this.. and I would do everything in my power to protect those around me who would be subject to harm by people like this.. but again, my feelings are, I think that making a big deal out of being gay ( not saying they shouldnt be proud) but putting signs up fully knowing people are like this is asking for trouble..thats all I am saying.. we know its happened.. before this discussion, and it will continue to happen unfortunately.

at every march/rally someone will get hurt in the crowd.. stupidity knows no bounds, and they shouldnt be subjected to hate crimes, some innocently have been, but others have openly done/said things that caused something to happen and in society, fully knowing its not totally accepted by some, there should be some type of respect also given.. just like the incident with my ex BF brother who almost caused a problem..

I would like things to be calm to, but a straight man who feels very defensive towards his manhood will get highly upset if a gay man makes advance towards him and its intensified 20 times if the guys are making a joke of it.

so embarassment, and other emotional factors play a key role in how gay men are treated.. if you noticed, the only ones that you hear about performing these hate crimes are men.. women accept gay men and gay women.. if there are any women who have done something wrong to this nature, its few and far between.
Patrycja19   
29 Dec 2008
Life / Coming back to Poland after 5 years in UK [14]

Patrycja, men don't change because the methods you want us to follow don't work.

lol..

ok, well you stick with yours and I will mine, if she takes it or leaves the advice whatever she does I do hope everything works out for the best..

can you show your softer side there bolek or do ya have to be a mean old fart and matter of fact everything just because you have a couple of nuts to sit on :)
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / DECENCY RATINGS FOR THE INTERNET? Would it work in Poland? [17]

He said he was working with Obama to create higher decency standards to protect children against harmful content.

we have this now , only it works if you use it... Aol has a rating system , its to protect children, I am all for it, how many sick perverts out there who hunt children on here... what is wrong with protecting children? before we had internet they stalked them in cars.. now they do it via the internet.. any type of protection is ok by me..
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / Coming back to Poland after 5 years in UK [14]

patrycja19, your advice is pure nonsense,

Im not going to argue with u, my father was the same as how she explains. believe it or not they are capable of letting their human side out .. I know how polish men are.. I have two brothers ( stubborn as they come) and my father who taught them everything they know.

My father is gone, both brothers are now very caring and concerned and do support me the way family should.. dont tell me I dont know what I am talking about unless you are alien and of another breed of men. I think she can handle it just fine.. and apparently she is supporting them which shows a softer side of her and how much she cares..

my father listened to me more then my brothers after I showed him I was equal to him and we became alot closer..

and yes I am polish, my dads father was polish, he was just like his father , and they all came strait from poland!! some men never change.. huh.. bolek?
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]

To show that thay are proud of who they are. Why shouldn't they celebrate their sexuality in the same way that people celebrate their culture, religion, nationality etc?

if people were willing to accept of course it would be fine, but again heterosexuals dont celebrate being heterosexuals by having national marches.

and just like religion, and cultures some of these are questioned in this very forum and not accepted but are discussed..

I didn't realise that eyeing someone up in a bar was worthy of a lynching!

its not, but if your the only person able to help someone you care about to not get hurt, my feelings were that we were out together, his knowing this can happen why would you put your friends in danger? or yourself? its fact people dont accept it.. just because I did and his family did doesnt mean the whole world will!!

I was mad at him for doing that, we were in a straight bar, even other gays knows you cant just walk into a straight bar and expect good responses!!

especially if your acting out.. it was eye opening for me.. because I thought why dont people act more tolerant, but they dont its just the way it is!!

know. In the same way that some people are racist/xenophobic and wont be changed. Doesn't make it right though.

it dont and its not going to change any time soon. getting upset at people who dont accept it isnt going to change it either.. they have a right to feel the way they do as much as a homosexual does. thats why I had pointed out that in another thread.

i knew you'd come up with that... please, show it on some research...

ok heres where i agree with you.. lol
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / Coming back to Poland after 5 years in UK [14]

Giving emotional support to my brother means that he will take everything you give it to him but you can't expect even simple "thank you". I quess, he doesn't see the same I see and is very unhappy himself.

The same with my father - he can be rude and doesn't show much respect sometimes.
He is my lovely father but I think our relationship was much better when I was away.

Paulina.. you need to gather your family and speak your mind ...

not having a older sister or some support yourself can be hard.. sometimes people ignore the fact that others could be still hurting and it sounds like your doing all you can to keep your family together , but not getting the emotional support and time to mourn like they have.

so I am going to act as the older sister right now...

gather father, and brother tomorrow..
ask both to please listen and to not speak until you are done.
please do not be rude and cut me off as I am only going to say this once.

I love the both of you, but I need your support too.. I miss mom too, and I dont have the nuturing or someone to turn to and cry when I need that shoulder.

I am depressed, I dont want to live here if I have to be your support only. we are family and we all should work as one.. this is what our mother would have wanted and expected.

Paulina.. you tell them that.. you certainly deserve more help and emotional support then you are getting.. we all know sometimes we dont show our side, so you show it to them so they can know that you are still hurting too..

Please feel free to email me as well if needed my email is open always or pm

* sisterly Hugs*
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]

Why would anyone choose to be something that could cause them to be scorned by society, rejected by their families, deny them rights and subject them to possible violent hate crimes?

then why run around showing society your gay by having marches?

why look a man up and down fully knowing he is heterosexual and wondering why these violent hate crimes happen..

I remember going out with my ex bf brother after we had broke up and we hung out at my bars.. he was looking at the men as I was.. it was not a good situation, he became drunk and I had to stop and intervene several times to tell guys he advanced at that he was just drunk and thought the man was someone else.

I realized I couldnt be his hangout buddie.. not in the bars I went to. so we just stopped hangin around for a long time. but it was very frustrating, because he cried on my shoulder many times, just wanting to find a true love and I comforted him.. we got along as good friends.. it was fun to dance and get drunk together until all that started happening.. but he was a victim of a hate crime one night when he went to a park where they gays frequent and a car load of guys got out because one winked at him and he thought he was gay, so the guys set him up

oops and forgot to say they beat him badly he was a mess.

and I told him to stop doing stupid dangerous things..

some things will never be fully accepted by people. and you cant make them.
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]

people don't become gay... they are born gay...

in some cases he is right, my ex bf brother ( admitted gay) but only after I seen him kissing his lover in the car one night by accident.

we dated the year before, but thats it, then I started to see his brother, the attraction wasnt there for me, I liked him as a friend, and we dated, but it felt awkward sorta.. after I said I was going with his brother ,he was so upset and mad wouldnt speak to me for a long time, then he started to, but started acting wierd.. thats when he told me ( after I seen the above) and I openly asked him

he then said yes... which I said ok, whatever .. but he jokingly said it was my fault that he turned gay.. because he loved me.. and I laughed with him, but then asked my friend ( his cousin) and she told me he told her this same thing, but wasnt laughing , was crying..

you dont know in life what things can happen.. he said he felt different as a young man, and says he often thought of men, but if he was to be with a woman it was only me he cared about. so its possible for some to be with women, I think sometimes its because men understand men more so theres a mental attraction right off the bat, just like women feel comfortable with women, there are things that the same sex has in common and things to talk about.. and I think its how comfortable a man can really feel around a woman that goes the same for a women around a man ... some are born this way. genetically more hormones of one or the other, but I think tomek has some valid points as well as you :)
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]

it was merely incidental that I was reading Catholic press.

thats what I would say too.. :) lol
I just thought I would keep your opinions straight :) you know me..
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]

Religious clowns are destroying this world and hampering progress.

But he criticised the stance of bishops who threaten the clergy with enmity should their relationships become public. Speaking in an interview in London,

timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/faith/article2155865.ece

well they exist in your neighborhoods too Seanus.. dont just blame the catholics.
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]

You are such an ignorant waste of sperm. If you are Polish, then go back to your little retarded village in the Tatras where cousins are also brothers and sisters and Papa is f****ing the cow because Mama is too Catholic to f**k anymore. Nearly all of the EU countries are accepting or tolerant of gays as citizens with equal rights... except Poland. You probably want sex with a man because the biggest homophobes like you are the closet ones.

Homo tolerance has spoken... lol...

remember what I said greg :)

that was a old post obviously, but again, gay people have always been citizens, when were they not citizens? when they became gay? sexual preference has nothing to do with citizenship.. if your born polish its automatic, if your becoming gay then you dont change citizenship unless you decide to move to another country right? why make a issue out of nothing..and gays always have equal rights, how can someone deny them this , do they follow them about and watch them in their bedrooms to see if they are gay so they can take away this valuable right?

is there signs on doorways stating, your gay so get the F out? is there seperate bathrooms? seperate drinking fountains? seperate seating arrangements?

WTF does a gay person have to worry about then? some people dont and wont accept it, and I think this is the only reason this keeps being a issue.. as we all have our own sexual preference, it doesnt have to become a national holiday that we have sex with someone..

but then again, we heterosexuals dont have a holiday so I guess I will declare this now!!! 0n a national level.. everyone get out your sexiest undies and prance the streets!! :)

its party time!! we shall call it * NORMIE DAY * lol
Patrycja19   
28 Dec 2008
Food / POLISH HANGOVER PREVENTIVE? [7]

it was common for some of the menfolk to drink a glass of melted lard, rendered fatback (słonina), butter or oil before going to a wedding. Supposedly one could then drink all night without few ill after-effects.

wow.. heart attack soup.. lard and alcohol - just add the smoking and your pretty much ready for your funeral, not someones wedding.

the best way to not get a hangover is to eat something starchy before drinking or just plain eat. orange koolaide always helps me afterwards :) but its been a long time since I really felt that bad. thank goodness :)
Patrycja19   
27 Dec 2008
Genealogy / how many know their own family histories? [139]

[quote=Domino]
P.S. some of you wonder why pictures and documents may be destroyed on purpose. Often times it was to protect other family members from being identified by authorities if they lived under a repressive regime. It could also be to get rid of the bad/sad memories...survivor's guilt maybe.

well, for those who are looking, theres alot out there.. unfortunately the above stated is true as I have watched documentarys on hitler and his familys decendants have changed names, or dont speak of history, documents are sealed etc.. and some live in the united states ... I dont feel its their responsibility, but a great deal prob do, so they live in hiding.

its a sad way to have to live , under the shadow of the most evil person in history.
Patrycja19   
27 Dec 2008
Life / New skyscraper in Warsaw... [58]

It's a district of offices, malls and hotels, not many people is living there.

how many skysscrapers can one build in a district where theres barely any people? does this make sense?

it might drag in some business, but if the area isnt highly traveled whos going to set up shop somewhere where its proven fact that its not accepted by locals and doesnt have a large profitable future?

I think trying to force these projects will only create anger, you have to be backed by the citizens,, not just the govt. crime will go up even higher..
Patrycja19   
27 Dec 2008
Genealogy / how many know their own family histories? [139]

The amount of people looking for their roots amazes me.

its because in the United states, there is very little to show or prove heritage and why do they want to know? because so many people identify with countries what nationality they are.. this has been going on for centuries.. but the importance of it became more distinguished in the early 1990's Genealogy has always been around , the interest hasnt though.

and with the internet and so many history centers popping up, its becoming a business just like everything else.. who would have thought that our own family documents would cost us a arm and a leg.. go figure.. and its our familys.
Patrycja19   
27 Dec 2008
Life / How do Polish people view themselves? [92]

feel free to enforce my point about polish people

maybe polish people dont talk to you because your personality sucks..

the guy said sorry if this offends anyone and you went beserk anyways.

Example :

"WHO NEEDS AN EXPLANATION FOR A FAAACKING BANK HOLIDAY YOU SAD, PATHETIC PR*CK!!!WHY CANT YOU JUST ENJOY THE DAY OFF???WHY??HUH???"

I dont think I would talk to you either till you start taking your xanax or paxil..

;)
Patrycja19   
22 Dec 2008
Life / Are Polish People Hypochondriacs? [50]

yeah we are sick of generalizations of us being hypochondriacs, our ears hurt from listening to it all the time. our stomachs ache from the nauseating constant badgering and we cant take the headache of being catagorized every day we walk the earth..

please someone take away the pain of all this generalizations.. get me a doctor!!
lol
Patrycja19   
21 Dec 2008
News / Poland will take half a century to catch up with the West [240]

The answers are obvious, so lets just leave it at that. I have more important things to attend to.

someone has to pay, its prob taken out in taxes like anything else..

my question is, why dont you debate a little more nicer, you act like were bothering you when you come in here to have a discussion at least make your point and stop acting like we made you come here.. if you have more important things to do then dont come back.. otherwise join the discussion and thats it!
Patrycja19   
17 Dec 2008
Language / Why Polish people use so many words to describe a situation? [122]

It is the same when asking for directions, it seems to take up to 20 mins to just establish a basic route.

well ,if your not smart enough to find it by yourself with a map and your askin for help we only try to make it easier for you since it was your fault you became lost or cant find your way , then it takes longer to make you understand..

you wouldnt be having to listen to us if you were smart enough to not get lost in the first place.. lol

does this answer your question?
Patrycja19   
17 Dec 2008
Life / Moving back to Poland after 20 unhappy years in Canada and USA [70]

Here it is only for rich if you don't have money you don't have any health care

Canada has universal health care I thought..

Do you speak to dog turds you see on the street? No? Well then why bother replying to noimmigration? He's exactly the same and so are his posts. Just move on past him taking care not to get his shit on you.

Wow Harry, it must be close to Christmas ,, your actually nice :)
* Nudges Harry* ye ole softie.