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Joined: 8 Jan 2008 / Female ♀
Last Post: 14 Sep 2008
Threads: Total: 14 / In This Archive: 14
Posts: Total: 86 / In This Archive: 77
From: england
Speaks Polish?: no

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angel   
14 Sep 2008
Love / moving to poland to be together is this the right decision? [67]

the likelihood that he could ever move to UK permanently to be with you is extremely low.

goodlady has said their plans are to have homes in both poland and england-she accepts he has responsibilties in poland- its about time he added her to his list of reponsibilies!!!-she is not his comfort blanket-she is a loving understanding women and i thionk this man knows what a gem he has in her-i think she should start making some demands on him

You are special to him only where you are right now. He finds you comforting when he is visiting you there in UK, far from all the people he knows, all the problems and responsibilities to financially care for others.

so what are you saying here? only his situation and needs should be considered? goodlady has said they lived together when he was ih england that he loves her- she seems to have made little demands on him being very understanding of his situation. she misses him -shue says she is able and willing to be in poland to be near the man she loves-and from what she has said he still says he loves her.

maybe this man is using his "so called " reponsibilities in poland so that goodlady feels sorry for him and will believe she is his salvation- i think if she lived out in poland for a while she would probably find out that his "reponsibilities" are not so demanding afterall. i think she should either demand he comes to england- even if only for a visit -let him do something for her or she should go and stay in poland and find out if he is really as busy with his family as he says
angel   
3 Sep 2008
Love / moving to poland to be together is this the right decision? [67]

well we all have stress in our lives sometimes of our own doing. reading his thread it does sound like this guy is trying to please too many people. you sound like a very patient and understanding woman who obviously loves this man very much. BUT you do matter and it seems to me he is keeping you a "secret" so he can escape to this secret life when he needs a respite from his demanding family.

it is admirable that he supports his family but i dont think he is happy, you obviously make him happy and you sound as if you would help him with his family problems.

the question is what does he want from you? because i am not sure
angel   
26 May 2008
Life / Catholic funeral of a close relative- from Poland [3]

yes it is sad

-i have spoken to him several times and sent sms to tell him i understand his saddness and i am here for him-i just wondered if there was any special polish phrase which is said in these circumstamces?
angel   
26 May 2008
Life / Catholic funeral of a close relative- from Poland [3]

a polish friend of mine has just lost his uncle -he was very close to him- he is in poland i am in the uk-he is very upset about his loss- i what to say/ do something to help him through this sad time but i am not sure want will be correct. i know my friend very well but i do not know and have not met his family-can someone advise me on this -should i send a sympathy card? flowers? is there a typical mourning period?-i want to show my concern but i obviously do not want to intrude upon a sombre family situation
angel   
11 May 2008
Life / Applying for EU passport... [51]

i hope to be in poland very soon-dad was born in chelmno i dont have a copy of his birth certificate-do i go through the embassy here or best to go to poland?
angel   
11 May 2008
Love / I work in a bank and employed a Polish girl - help required please [30]

id talk to your girlfriend of 5 years see how she feels if the relationship has gone stale she may feel the same and if you both want to work at it then work at it -if it was definitetly over for you with your current girlfriend you would know and you would not be in a dilema. you are temtped by this polish girl and she is by you-seems to me neither of you will break with your current partners-follow your heart and your head
angel   
10 May 2008
Life / Applying for EU passport... [51]

my father was polish so do i have or can apply for polish citizenship-where do i go to apply? will my birth certificate be enough proof?
angel   
10 May 2008
Travel / EasyJet suspends flights to Gdansk [9]

Merged: Internal flights in Poland from Gdansk

from gdansk airport are there many internal flights to other cities for example poznan and how much is the internal flight thanks
angel   
7 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

my father died 5years ago my mother a year later-my husband at the time (now x-husband) said he would give me 6months to get over it-he didnt give me space-tried to make me feel guilty for grieving-told me to "get back to normal" he meant -think of him and his needs only.

when you loose someone you love you never "get over it" hopefully in time you come to terms with it-you do change-its an inevitable change-you question everything and for a while you loose a sense of reality.

when you loose a parent-you loose security and stability.
if you loose both parents you feel orphaned-alone.

what you need at a time like this is a loving,understanding from those around you-not demands and pressure.

if you love her give her time to heal
angel   
7 Apr 2008
Life / Mobile phone reception in Poland [17]

just come back from tricity-
1. my t-mobile picked up on era and worked okay
2. my orange worked ok-but my sons didnt
3.bought an orange polish sim card for orange phone-only 5 zloty-to try it out-didnt last long-didnt have time to buy voucher to top up
4. my sisters 02 didnt work
angel   
30 Mar 2008
Life / Mobile phone reception in Poland [17]

Thread attached on merging:
polish mobile network problems

i know there are many posts on here about the polish mobile phone networks but quite honestly it is somtimes impossible to get connected!! i keep getting a polish voice telling me -sorry your call cannot be connected then you get the beep beep beep sound as if the phone is engaged also i have got a womens voice saying -i need to top up my polish card i am calling from england on a bristish network- this is plus gsm- anyone else like to comment
angel   
29 Mar 2008
Language / A good learning book for Polish [44]

i have recently purchased the dana bielec books-about £15-£20 each from bookers

my polish tutor says they are good
angel   
29 Mar 2008
Life / Polish people with learning difficulties? [42]

a polish friend of mine here in england - she is a teacher of english tells me there are special schools in poland for dyslexia, autism etc

aspergers syndrome is a complex disorder that may include learning disability on varying levels -i should know my x-husband has this-these people are hell to live with they show no empathy and only see the world as it relates to them. so from a learning point of view if they cannot see any personal benefit they will not learn
angel   
27 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

He doesn't have to explain anything. He will probably slam the door in your face.
If his 'girlfriend' answers the door, he will stand by her. He will lose face in front of his family otherwise.
If you make an appointment to meet him. He probably won't turn up. If he does, he'll be full of shite.

yes you are right

i will not turn up on his doorstep.

i do appreciate all the concern everyone has shown to me on this forum and i have listened to what you have said

i am going to poland with my sisters-they will make sure i dont do anything stupid oh and hopefully i might meet up with wildrover
angel   
26 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

is he married?

dont care any more-if he is and i decide to visit him when i am in poland-then if he is guess he has a lot of explaining to do to his misses-about his english friend!

Well done Angel, at least you know where you stand now. Would you want to visit him in Poland though? Has he told you the truth about his family and who he is involved with? I would find it hard to see him there in Poland if it was me, but you can move on now and find some-one who can take your relationship seriously and show you his love.

yep i can move on-god knows what the truth is-on his part-but i know i have been truthful-curiousty may take the better of me and i may visit him-i have nothing to loose.

DOES THAT ANSWER YOUR Q HON? :d

he says he doesnt want to get married-but maybe he does and was having a final fling in england-if id known the truth to begin with i wouldnt have got involved with him.

anyway looking forward to my trip to the tri-city next week just booked my hotel!
angel   
26 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

hi guys i gave him a piece of my mind!!! told him he was selfish, a liar -to himself and everybody that he should stand up for what he wants-whatever that is and that enough was enough! he said please could we be friends- he had now told his family-after several conversations and texts from him- i agreed to be friends but there would be no romantic involvement- he invited me to visit him when i go to poland-i said id think about it- but i would not tolerate any more lies
angel   
26 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

halo everyone -i finally have an answer to his behaviour!!

he has a polish girlfriend-for some years now-everyone wants them to get married-all his family like her-and her family like him-he likes her but does not love her- he has a son with her-he does like me a lot and he thought he could see me in england- but he had some committments in poland but now he doesnt know if work is available for him any more in england . he has told his family that he has a good friend in me in england but he has not told them my age and that i have children-he says they would not understand- i told him we will be friends for now and not to worry and that he has to decide what he is to do-must be difficult for him-he says he may be able to meet me if i go to poland but it will not be easy. i feel for him in his situation
angel   
23 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

i know i am depending on a dream-when we were together i had no question of how i felt-but this time apart and him not hurrying to see me- i am scared of loosing what i thought would be worthy of pursuing- but what will i be loosing-he is not here and i am doing all the effort-because i am scared i know the way he is treating me is wrong -but i need to hear from him he does not want to see me -but he wont say this- so i still hang on why does he not say no?
angel   
18 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

well he is capable of making me happy-but now he is making me unhappy-its much too long too ask anyone to wait-he is acting in a selfish way-he says all the right things. but dosent do them and as long as i accept this he will continue to do it-its cruel to expect someone to wait for so long. he knows i maybe going over and i have called all night-he has not answered-he dosent now seem bothered if i do go-so i think he has been playing a game -why i dont know
angel   
18 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

thanks for you concern. my head agrees with all these comments but my heart loves. i have
voiced all my doubts to him suggesting all he reasons all you guys have said on here. i think he still has feelings for his x-he says she still likes him very much and he hasnt even told her about me- maybe she has threatened he cant see his son - he knows i need more committment-maybe he is not ready-the language is a problem-i spoke to him yesterday.i asked him if i am too serious does he want little committment-i said i would understand-i am ready for committment and maybe he isnt-he sweet-talked me again.

i dont want to but i think i will have to be the one to finish it-
angel   
14 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

i love him he knows this i have said three times maybe we should finish because i told him i need more definites i said on monday thank- you and goodbye-he practically cried

- he rang me twice spoke for nearly two hours each time - said he would be here in a month-first time he has indicated when he also buzzed me throughout the day. i said i believed him- but now four days later nothing from him- and his phone has been off all day-
angel   
14 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

Has he explained why ?

no- he has indicated the age difference- i also asked if he had told his x about me he said no but the curious thing is my friend who is polish ,26 years olds and is to visit poland before me agreed to deliever a dvd and some infomation he asked for which other wise i will have to send by courier which costs quite a bit-when i told him she will drop off the things he asked for- and i explained it would be quicker , easier and less expensive he said no-and i dont know why-yes i do feel like just turning up- what could be the problem -when i ask him he says no problem-just please
angel   
14 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

you may have seen my other post about my relationship dilema. now i have another issue.
my guy insists he loves me , wants to be with me,has apologised for many things-which i have accepted-he is saying all the right things now. BUT i am still in the same postion-waiting and wating. now is this reasonble?

he is not the best communicator in the world and i know it can be a guy thing but after 2/3 days of me texting and ringing without any replys from him-i start to get frustrated. some of my texts are fun and lovey which do not need a response-and he asks me to sms him all the time and send photos- but he rarely texts and when he calls me its the early hours. he does not like me calling him but i do because he asks me to find out lots of things which i simply cannot put in a text. when i ask him what time is best to call him he says just call and see. quite honestly its like russian roulette if he answers . but he does answer somtimes and it can be any time morning noon night-sometimes he is with poeple. he is not married he has an 8 year old from a relationship he left 3 years ago. i spoke to him on monday and told him i love him very much but his behaviour was exsaperating and i dont understand it- we have lots of issues around out realtionsip-not been together for months -i am older- he says i am a secret and he does not want me to go to poland to visit him-he will see me in england when i ask when he says soon- he on . everytime i talk to him he tells me not to be unhappy that he loves me that he will see me soon, that he is seeing no-one in polandwhen i say i think he is messing me around and i say thamks for a good time but maybe now we should movew on because i thimk he is making excuses he says no and tells me how much he loves me and please wait and understand- because i love him i say yes -but then 2/3days later i am in the same postion waiting for his calls and him comimg to england. i have come so far and i love him so much but please are his requests reasonble and am i being unreasonble expecting an answer to my calls him ti call when he syas but he dosent and for wanting to know whn he will be here.also i am to visit poland with my family in afew weeks time i am tempted to call on him-

please help advise
angel   
13 Mar 2008
Language / learning aids for polish learning english [8]

any one know where in england i can get textbooks cds, dvds,to teach english to a polish person who speaks and underestands not much english