i will have my own place.
I'm slightly confused by this. Does this mean that you will be completely relocating to Poland for this guy but you won't be living with him? Or have I got mixed up somewhere.
If that is the case then a warning light comes on for me. He's resisting your moving there and
you'll not be living together. Something odd there. It's almost like you're moving there to be the other woman.
our plans are to have a place there
Now I am confused. Please explain what your living arrangement will be in PL.
The fact that he is resisting you moving there at all is the major warning though. If he wanted you there so much he'd, of course, be making sure you felt you were doing the right thing but it would also be a major event for him. A happy event.
there has been no need to meet them and i am not expexting that when i am in poland-
I'm not getting that either. You don't want to meet his family or he won't let you?
This is a strange one indeed. I think you need to think long and hard about this.