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How to get to know a polish guy better? [102]
A thought has just occured to me and it would be interesting to hear others views; do people ever change their minds about someone romantically? By this I mean that initially they may not be interested, but then it suddenly dawns on them that this person is right for them.
Maybe he has someone back in Poland?
Could be an ex and he is not sure of his feelings for her/him(got to be PC correct).
This is completely something that is happening to me right now. For weeks I realised a close Polish male friend of mine was getting a little more 'friendly' always hugging me and poking me in the side, touching my leg, making a beeline for me when he saw me etc. I didn't think anything of it though, just thought it was nice to have a hug etc. Then a close friend of his told me that basically, he adores me and I thought back over the previous weeks and realised I should have noticed this. I thought about it after a night out where he admitted his feelings in a round about way and two days later I told him I felt the same way - only to be told his ex girl had been in touch and she wanted to get back with him. I told him I felt stupid for admitting my feelings but he said not to feel like that because he didn't want to get back with his girlfriend...but he did want to talk to her when he was in Poland. So he's due back from Poland soon and hopefully I will find out what is happening. (Which will probably be that he is back with her!!!).
Liiii, I understand what you mean about knowing nothing about your guy. This guy I am on about doesn't give information away freely, to find out anything you have to ask him directly and it feels like pulling teeth - but I find this with different guys from different cultures - and, if I am honest, I am the same way, I don't give much away.
I actually think you might have to blunt with him, tell him how you feel to get some kind of reaction, if his reaction is negative then at least you will know and can move on. If it's positive then you will be feeling great and glad you were blunt. Life is too short to deny yourself a chance at happiness! :-)
Why doesn't this place have proper smilies???