Love / A Story of mine [47]


You've had a tough time and my heart goes out to you for sure. Somebody gave me advice to 'hope for the best and plan for the worst'in situations like this which I understand and will try to adopt in the future.

Its very difficult for us men in situations like this, in order to form relationships like this we have to let our guard down and as a result are in danger of having our egos kicked into the gutter. It goes back to the cave men I think (I'm pretty sure I read something about it in a book once)

Love / A Story of mine [47]


Then again, I don't think you'll have too many problems with the ladies judging from your photo.

I'm off, feeling a bit depressed and inadequate! lol.

Love / Ok new game plan....my polish experience take 2 [42]


How true. It is a classic example of social Darwinism, survival of the fittest. Not alot has changed since neanderthal man.


We all like to think we are advanced, intelligent beings but in reality we are only on this planet for one purpose: to continue the cycle of life.

By the way, is there a proper place in this forum for a good old theological discussion?

Love / Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies [304]


Not true, not true at all.


Please don't lower yourself to their level, its not your style.

There are some decent guys out here, believe me, it just takes a bit of effort to coax us out from under our shells.

(Sorry, just felt I'd better stick up for us few good men!)
It would be great if you could tell us a little of your interests, I for one am interested.

Love / Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies [304]


I understand. Glad your exam went well.


You went into this relationship with honest intentions, he did not. He is to blame, not you.
Please don't run yourself down by saying that you are stupid, dumb, etc. It just isn't true and thinking these things can damage self esteem. I know, at your age I felt the same way and it spirralled downwards into depression which ten years later is hard to break out of. So try hard not to feel bad, it is not easy but is crucial for your future happiness. You seem a lovely girl, things will work out for you.

As for my opinions of Polish girls, I am probably not the best to say but I have found them to be beautiful, warm and friendly. They are certainly very popular where I live.

Love / HOW MANY TIMES CAN YOU LOVE IN A LIFETIME? Once, twice or many ... [70]


I have a friend of a friend who is only mid 20's and he is already father of three children to three different women. Makes me sick and he is boasting to everyone. I would hold my head in his position. I feel sorry for the children, sorry for the mothers but angry that this is all too common. Makes me ashamed to be a man.

Love / Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies [304]



Thanks Southern for trying to play cupid.

But seriously, Unicornes, I've seen your photo's. Phew, you are breathtakingly beautiful. You could have any man you desire. I'm just an ordinary, decent guy, my poor heart couldn't survive such a relationship. It would be broken for sure.

Love / Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies [304]


Indeed. My problems have been well documented in another thread. I suppose I am making things out to be worse than they really are.
If I may be permitted could I run a thought by you Unicornes and indeed any other attractive women who may be out there. I have a theory and I would like to see if it is accurate or way wide of the mark. You're bound to get a lot of male attention but it requires much skill to determine the true intentions of potential suitors. Are they interested in you the person or are they just after your looks so they can brag to their mates about the 'babe they pulled'. It must be incredibly difficult to find the right guy and is probably the reason alot of beautiful women end up with unsuitable men. Actually, in my case, being not very attractive means that if (and it is a big if) I find someone I can be confident that they are interested in me for what I am and not for some superficial reason.

Love / Foreigner's opinion about polish ladies [304]


Thank's, you're very sweet.


Why should they? Everyone has their problems but it is unrealistic to expect someone else to do it for them. No, I need to find my own way through this maze called life.

Love / Seeking advice - I get a feeling she is seeing other guys [25]


It's a awkward situation, if you confront her it looks like you are being overbearing and a control freak. Proceed with caution.

Love / HELP! SEXY POLISH FEMALE STUDENT ISSUES [57]


Very true, I have found Polish girls to be way more friendly than native girls.
Why is that? It can be very misleading but that is no excuse in this case. Hang your head in shame.

Love / HELP! SEXY POLISH FEMALE STUDENT ISSUES [57]

What do you mean by this?
I certainly wasn't implying that they where easy. I mean they are easy to talk to, they show interest in other people and smile a lot. This is a superb quality and it really shows up local women who appear much more guarded. I can understand how some men mistake this friendly attitude for something more.

I don't think hollywood has anything to do it.

Love / How to get to know a polish guy better? [102]




Been reading this thread with interest. I too am very shy and can certainly empathsise with your situation. Maybe all along he has been hoping you would make the first move.

How about sending him an email and suggesting that you meet up somewhere, just for a chat. Its not a marriage proposal, nothing like that, just two people who are friends. Thats what friends do, isn't it?

Trust your own judgment and take it slowly but I think it is best if you take control of this and make this first move. Believe me, I know it isn't easy but you will feel great that you have tried, even if it doesn't work out.

Love / Seeking advice - I get a feeling she is seeing other guys [25]


Thats good to hear.

Love / A flying Dutchmen..deep in the Polish forest..... [34]


A very eloquent description.


Modern life seems to be invading every second in our lives. So many gadgets, internet, tv, desparate for a piece of our time. So many things to distract us. It is easy to get swept away on this tide, it takes courage and intelligence to fight against the current, to realise that this 'stuff' is unnecessary, it is spam and we need to filter it out properly.

It saddens me, I see it every day, people totally absorbed in meaningless activities, getting worked up about things that when you look back in a year, or a month, or a week, don't matter a goddamn. I am guilty of it myself, it takes courage to step back, to step out of yourself sort of and look at the bigger picture.


It seems to be human nature to 'busy ourselves', I guess it is good to be busy but the key is to be aware of the situation, to be in control so as not to let it dictate our lives.

Love / Polish Engagement and Wedding Traditions [42]

This is very confusing, the girl I liked had a ring on her right hand. Whoops. I was always told to check the left hand for an indication.

Life / Beach fashion. Are Polish youth into baggy or tighter clothing? [48]


Not a good look. Maybe if you have six pack but for hairy men with beer bellies it is a definite no no.

Life / Beach fashion. Are Polish youth into baggy or tighter clothing? [48]


Was in Tenerife a couple of years ago, full of Germans. They all seemed to wear these, thought it was part of their National dress!

Life / Beach fashion. Are Polish youth into baggy or tighter clothing? [48]


It varies, probably some do wear boykini. The point I was making is that it seemed that every single German wore these. It is only a stereotypical view of mine, I've nothing against Germans. Just calling it as I see it.

Life / Beach fashion. Are Polish youth into baggy or tighter clothing? [48]

I wouldn't have the balls to wear a boykini (excuse the pun!)

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]

My sentiments exactly

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

You can't hold what you don't have in your hands!

Love / Advice Required for UK Man in love with Polish Woman [26]


This you must do. She is using you 100%. It is not a pleasant decision to make, but for your own pride, please end it asap.


You are in love with an ideal, but the reality just doesn't measure up. No-one, absolutely no-one, is worth that kind of hassle.

I understand how hard this is for you, a lot of us on here have been in similar positions. It is for the best.

Love / Advice Required for UK Man in love with Polish Woman [26]

Well done, that is such a brave and difficult thing to do. It was the right move. It always takes a wee while to get over. Respect.

Love / Do Polish men shave under their arms ? [45]

Okay, I've tried this. I'm not a faggot, I'm not a psycho but then again I'm not Polish either. The smell was getting a bit nasty, desparate times call for desparate measures. It certainly removed alot of the odour issues.

Love / Do Polish men shave under their arms ? [45]


WTF

Love / Do Polish men shave under their arms ? [45]

Hogan knows best!

Love / How to get to know a polish guy better? [102]

I guess it's good that at least you got the chance to see him again, okay, it wasn't one to one but taking it slowly may be the best way forward. I don't know, I'm not really the one to give advice on these matters.

Love / How to get to know a polish guy better? [102]


There are a million possible maybe's, but you should probably prepare yourself for the worst. It sounds like you have made it quite clear that you like him and he is either not getting the hint (we can be a bit dim in this respect) or more realistically (and painfully) he doesn't feel the same way about you.

You really have to decide for yourself what to do next, you can continue taking it slowly, building up the friendship and hoping it leads to something more serious or grasp the bull by the horns and find out exactly where you stand. There isn't a right or wrong answer here, each to their own as they say.

A thought has just occured to me and it would be interesting to hear others views; do people ever change their minds about someone romantically? By this I mean that initially they may not be interested, but then it suddenly dawns on them that this person is right for them. I had always believed in the 'love at first sight' theory until the other day when a girl I am friendly with, who, I admit, I never previously considered attractive suddenly appeared in a different light. Maybe it happens, but trying to force someone to like you when they just don't doesn't work either and it is a really tricky situation to guage. My heart goes out to you and I hope you can find a solution. Your own happiness is the key in all of this, please remember that.

Love / How to get to know a polish guy better? [102]


I beg to differ...for some, yes it is easy but others find this fear of rejection to be a massive obstacle to overcome. Speaking from personal experience I find anything like this so difficult and I really do understand you're situation liiii. It took me ages and ages to pluck up the courage to talk to the girl I liked and even though it didn't work out, the sense of accomplishment I felt from actually facing my fears outweighed the disappointment of not being with her.


This may be positive news for you, he may well like you very much but is just uncertain of the whole situation. He possibly does get the hint that you like him but is maybe doubting his own judgements and has this fear of rejection also. Taking it slow could be better, certainly I would be put off by a girl being a bit too forward and always taking the initiative (the chance would be a fine thing! :). I can't speak for him, but as probably the shyest and most introverted man on the planet I feel I can speak from a position of some authority!

The fact that you like this guy is actually positive news for me as I always thought that girls only went for bold and extravert men. This gives me new hope, thanks.