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Arien   
4 May 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

Oh,and no arguments,Monty was a tosser,and alleged kiddie fiddler to boot.,still kicked Rommels arse though :)

He did. But the truth is that this battle was critical and decisive. Had the Polish soldiers not done this, the Germans would've defeated the whole regiment, and they would've had more time to re-establish their positions.

Everybody fought their ass off. Oh, and most Germans were just young men who did as they were told. (Or were forced to do.)

And what I mean with cover up was that the Dutch government has been under some political pressure coming from England, not to recoqnize the Polish, (Meaning they never got their medals and recoqnition untill recently!) or to shed more light on this particular event in the war.

The Polish General ended up standing outside an English hotel, welcoming guests for a living.

I know you don't like to hear that, but it's true, and it's also a shame.
Arien   
3 May 2009
Love / Please I need advice. Are Polish Girls and Poland Westernizing for the worse? [16]

Hatred between the sexes? Let me ask you one question; How many times can you find the word w-h-o-r-e (Sorry, censor!) in the Bible? How many times can you find an example of an evil woman in the Bible?

;)

It's actually your Bible who teaches hatred between the sexes.

1) How fast are the Polish People abandoning the teachings of the church?

Teachings? You mean lies.

2) How fast are the Polish Ladies entering the European and USA man-hating phase fuled by feminism?

Some men hate women aswell you know, and some men really do their best to disappoint women too, so don't blame everything on the women?

3) How fast is the divorce rate moving up?

How many men drink too much? How many men beat their wives? How many men cheat?

4) How much hatred is there between the sexes.

I live in Holland, and really there's not much hatred between the sexes, I just think some women need to learn how to communicate with men better. (They usually give you those hints and riddles, and really I don't understand half of their games either?)

I'll be honest, when some women are angry with you, they usually have a reason to be angry. (Not saying they always have a good reason, or that it's always completely fair!)

5) Czech People claim that cheating and unhappiness between the sexes is the same in Poland as it is in Czech Republic. But they say that Polish People just do it within the marriage. Hence the low divorce rate. Is it true?

Could be true, I've worked with a lot of married Polish women who were working over here, and left their husbands at home. I've had quite a few offers, but I've always refused to sleep with a married lady. (Not too bad for a non-Christian huh?)

I think you'll find it difficult to find a women anywhere with your attitude. Women just want to have a laugh. They want someone who cares. They want to cheer you up and would like your appreciation. They want you to show some passion, and just have a lot of fun with you. What's so evil about that?

:)

Just be honest and be yourself. Don't be your Bible.
Arien   
2 May 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

Think about it?

I disagree, I think Poland has great potential. I just think most Polish people forgot about their potential (No offense!) during all those years of communism.

Also, I know the truth behind a few stories, and really the Polish fought like lions in Holland, and they managed to liberate the English troops who had found themselves completely surrounded due to a huge mistake and the unwillingness to listen from a certain General who happened to be Montgomery. (This event got covered up shortly after the war because of politics and propaganda, but a while ago, the Polish finally got their reqocnition!)

but there came 1944 and Allies promised to liberate Holland soon if the Dutch underground is actively sabotaging and fighting Germans. The Dutch did as were told, the Allies never came in 1944 (it's not that they did not want to), there were lots of reprise from Germans they took most food from Holland and eventually flooded most of the land - the winter was pretty harsh for the Dutch.

One correction though, our people were actively sabotaging the Germans from the day they found themselves occupied. Many people succesfully hid Jewish.

I have seen the graves of the Dutch underground fighters killed executed in 1944 (some of them were probably actually no fighters like it happened quite often when the German military were involved) and it was as far as at todays German-Dutch border

Some of them were workers who refused to work in factories for the Germans. (Half my family got executed for refusing to work for the Germans!)

People who say that our country suffered little losses, aren't quite aware of the fact that our country only had a small population. (Although it's true that the Germans favoured Aryans, so I guess that most of the Dutch were just lucky to be both blonde and blue eyed!)

Holland declared itself neutral in the beginning. (Not really!) Hey, what do you expect? Their country is twenty times bigger than ours? I'm proud of all our boys though, they've fought extremely well. (And so did the rest!)

:)

It's easy to talk about the whole war in hindsight, but I think we all know that it has been a horrible time for all of Europe. (I understand why the Polish felt betrayed in the aftermath, but really, all of our countries were devastated, and not really ready to fight the Russians.) Had they done that, even more people would've died.

I seriously doubt that would've been good news for Poland?
Arien   
2 May 2009
History / Territories of eastern Germany should rightfully belong to Poland? [161]

they had to much fun chasing Gauls and Celts....

Yeah. That would be my ancestors! Fuckíng Romans! Let's bomb Italy!

LOL

Seriously, even Slavic people share the same ancestors?

Edit: Oh, and following your logic, we should invade Belgium and Luxembourg aswell?
Arien   
1 May 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

and not the point you were trying to make anyway.

It's in the past.

:)

..that's my point. But go ahead and bicker on about all the gory details if you must.
Arien   
1 May 2009
News / Poland to ban Che Guevara image [55]

this image should be replaced by John Paul's one.

..who also represents a fascist ideology.

;)
Arien   
1 May 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

We are the Spirit of Britain and the Spirit of Poland arguing from the depths of history

Well, the Spirit of Holland just told me that a bit of common sense wouldn't hurt any of you at all..

;)
Arien   
1 May 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

AGAIN, you impudently expect gratitude for betraying us! Unbe-fcuking-lievable :-)

Hey, she didn't betray you, because you both weren't even born yet!

;)

Erm... I didn't start this thread.

Talking about all of you in general?

;)
Arien   
1 May 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

Quite sad...

Yes, we're all sad, we're all spoiled, we're all capitalists, we're all bad, we're not paying any taxes to help Poland, we've never tried to help Poland, we're all pathetic, we're all desperate, and we should all bown down and kneel to your slavic superiourity.

Seriously, what are you trying to prove with this thread? There's no what ''we'' have done, or what ''you'' have done, because the simple truth is, it's 63 years ago and all the people who did this are already dead, or soon will be.

:)

Oh, and if you need threads on the internet to prove how superiour you are, then really you must be the one who has an inferiourity complex?
Arien   
1 May 2009
News / Is Poland ready for the swine fever stuff? [59]

H1N1 is just another influenza. It's not as dangerous as they make it out to be in the media. Medicines are available everywhere.

;)

Yes, sensational television. You may breathe now.
Arien   
1 May 2009
Real Estate / Foreigners: Please don't buy Polish Land! [823]

We dont want foreigners in Poland buying out our homes, go home english GO HOME and leave us alone. And dont tell me I didnt want you, Poles dont want you here bloody capitalists.

Yeah, I love all you Polish girls in my country too!

:)

Sweet dreams Ola.
Arien   
1 May 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

Yes, but tanks dont generally float too well over flooded polder do they?

Tactics.

;)
Arien   
27 Apr 2009
Love / Age difference in our relationship. I'm 41, my girlfriend is 27. Common in Polska? [57]

Since when? Men have always dated younger girls in the UK It's 13 years difference hardly kiddle fiddling! Maybe if you were the one who was 27 and she the 41 it might have caused a bit of a stir a few years ago, but these days it's even acceptable for women to date younger men.

Girls still giggle about it though..

;)

Stop thinking too much about it or it will cause a problem.

You know what?

:)

I agree with you!
Arien   
27 Apr 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

When?

Alright! It's been a while, I'll admit that much, but feel free to look it up, we even seized your most prized possession twice. ''The Sovereign Of The Seas''.

;)

And to make things even funnier, we've sold you back your own ship!

I am not going to apologise for colonising or being born in one of the greatest countries to have ever existed.

Hey, no one's actually asking you to apologize for anything?

Regarding colonisation, if you remember correctly this little island had been invated and colonised a few times, you do remember the Romans, the Saxons and the Normas? I suppose we just made the best of it and were destined to be Great, which in itself says that we are in fact superior!

Yup.. (Hey, you know I happen to like your little island quite a bit, but superiour? I'd say we should call it even, just because we're such a small country!)

;)
Arien   
26 Apr 2009
Love / SOS!! I feel a little hopeless with my Polish husband... [58]

Go to someone (Any friends or family?) you really trust, tell them about the whole situation, and take your children (I'm not sure but you've mentioned your family?) with you, and then go to the Police.

:(

Don't tell him anything?
Arien   
26 Apr 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

Well, 80 dollar, pound or euro would definitely be superiour to 80 zloty.

;)

I know, I'm not being reasonable!
Arien   
26 Apr 2009
UK, Ireland / POLES SUPERIOR TO BRITS? [260]

but I do admire poles for having more guts than anyone else in Europe.

Oh yeah?

We've had a 80 year long war with Spain, (Which was a much bigger country!) and we sank half the British fleet, and in South Afrika the British needed 5000 soldiers to defeat 80 of our farmers. (It's true!) During the Second World War, the Germans couldn't invade our country over land, (And they really had overwhelming numbers!) so they decided to bomb our cities and citizens into submission. We managed to stop the Japanesee fleet aswell. (All our ships got destroyed, but they had to turn around nonetheless, which gave the allies time to breathe.) Oh, and we also gave refuge to people who found themselves hunted down throughout Europe. Once, we also took in a lot of refugees from Czech, almost every householding in Holland offered them a meal and a bed for quite some time.

I think the Polish do have guts, but more than anyone else in Europe? I don't know about that really..

;)

Just felt like saying something, because we do have our pride!
Arien   
22 Apr 2009
Love / I'm pregnant by my Polish boyfriend but he wants me to abort it! [132]

do you have any regrets / advice??

I have many regrets, but leaving a girl who's pregnant wouldn't be one of those!

theres no answer, you know yourself.....whatever you do will be difficult.

i agree, it is your decision... do what you think is right...
i only want to add that you shouldn't be so negative about your family... they may be a bigger support then you think...

1. have the baby, be a single mother and have no support from him or contact off him, as difficult as it sounds right now, you will be surprised at how much support you will receive from your family and your friends, as for finances, as long as you work you can claim family tax credits, im not going to go all anicdotal on you, but I have friends that have had husbands walk out on them and they've raised children and worked and done better than manage, so it is possible.

Oh, and whatever you choose to do, do your best to remember to always stay positive and never to allow yourself to get bitter.. I've been bitter about quite a few things in my life, and for quite a while too! Trust me, whatever your decision will be, looking back in anger won't do you any good!

but it could make finding another suitable life partner difficult

I really think a partner is the last thing you want to think about right now, and that would be pretty much understandable, but do keep hope? There are single fathers out there too, and whenever the time is right for you, just remember there are enough guys who wouldn't mind dating a lady with a child. (And be serious about it!)

It's your decision to make, and it's a big decision, but I agree with Shelley, you should try to make up your mind before you run out of options.

I'm really sorry for you girl, and I don't think any of us should preach to you about wrong or right, because none of this was your fault. Just try to remember that there's always someone out there who means well with you, and I think you should trust that your parents love you, even when they make a comment or two that you may not really need right now.
Arien   
18 Apr 2009
News / Poland..wake up to a multicultural world [1059]

You are just too much

No I'm not. I'm just like some other people. You just don't hear those people very often.

;)

you will rot in hell.

He won't. Hell is an idea and a state of mind. It's better to make sense instead of fighting fire with more fire.

:)
Arien   
18 Apr 2009
News / Poland..wake up to a multicultural world [1059]

And there is nothing wrong with dating someone of the same race.

Correct. Just as there is nothing wrong with dating someone of a different race.

Hateful you are a retard who has no understanding of biology or genetics if you think this.

Well excuse me, but you don't seem to have much knowledge about this particular subject either?

Whites have been seperate from Blacks and other races for 60,000-80,000 years.

Thank you for demonstrating your lack of knowledge once again. Are you even aware of the fact that Aryans mixed with Persians in what is now Iran? Have you ever heard of the prophet Zoroaster? Zarathustra? Much of our original European culture got lost in history, thanks to the butchering of the Roman Empire.

If we were inbred, we would of died out long before the last ice age.

We are nothing more than a mutation. We aren't special. We aren't superiour. Some scientist recently came up with a theory that the gen that causes different eye colours due to a smaller production of melanin within the body mutated about 10.000 or 6000 years ago. The same goes for certain bloodgroups which have mutated, which are more recent mutations.

Before that, all humans supposedly had brown eyes.

Frank Sinatra, Stephen Hawking, Marie Curie and Stephen Fry all owe their blue eyes to a genetic mutation that likely occurred between 6,000 and 10,000 years ago, researchers say.

Scientists believe they have tracked down the cause of the eye colour of all blue-eyed humans on the planet today.

Henry VIII's 500-year-old tapestry gets 21st century makeover "Originally, we all had brown eyes", said Prof Hans Eiberg from the University of Copenhagen, who led the team.

The mutation affected a gene called OCA2 and "literally 'turned off' the ability to produce brown eyes", he says.

"They have all inherited the same switch at exactly the same spot in their DNA. From this we can conclude that all blue-eyed individuals are linked to the same ancestor," said Prof Eiberg, who reports the work in the journal Human Genetics.

sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/01/080130170343.htm

You've got it all mixed up Castanea. (No pun intended!)

Oh, and Rap music, you may not like it, and I might even agree with you on some occassions, regarding some Rap artists, but surely there are more examples of things gone wrong in this world that you wouldn't want to teach your children?

All I want to tell people is that they make their own truth. It's what you choose to believe in, and when you choose something more open-minded, you'll find that even your own perception may change. We do have the power to change this world if we wanted to, because our own ideas affect the people around us, and vice versa.

I got angry at you last time, but that's my short temper and my personal experience with people who called me a traitor. I shouldn't be angry, and so shouldn't you. I should just tell you the truth as I percieve it, and hope you'll be able to see that there's nothing to be afraid of.

We're all human. The sooner people realize that, the better. There's no ultimate good, and no ultimate evil, and really we've all been fed far too many lies in the past two thousand and nine years.

No more mental slavery. No more lies. We're equal, we're all human, and no one should tell someone else we should hate eachother for having a different colour. There are good and bad people in all walks of life Castanea, and some people might not even be as half as bad as you would think.

I'm not your enemy, and so aren't these people. So let's keep talking about our issues and concerns then, without generalizations, without blaming eachother for being racist, political correct, calling eachother retards, morons, hippies or whatever our flawed brains might come up with.

I think it's nothing but fear, a history of violence, and dreadful experiences that drive people to think this way.

So my question is: Are you strong enough to overcome your own fear? Are you rational enough to see a simple truth?

I have, and had black friends, (I still hate to name the colour! We never did this to eachother and we just saw eachother as Arien, Jeffrey, Stanley, whatever your name was!) and they've never done anything to me that other people haven't done to me.

Look, I can get really angry too when I see a woman who got gang-raped by a few men who call themselves Muslim because according to them she isn't respectable. I too, would get nervous and probably scared when I'm the only white guy in the middle of let's say.. Harlem.

But I choose not to be angry at every Muslim, and I choose not to be scared of every black person. Be rational. Be fair.

This world isn't perfect, we all know that, and it will probably never be. But in general, you can believe and trust that most people would want to live a normal and peaceful life, just doing all the things that they would want to do, without having to harm anyone.

If you're willing to believe that, you've come a long way already. I'm not saying you should trust everyone just like that, but you should try to look at the positive things around you too.

I'm happy Barack Obama inspires people from all walks of life, and I'm happy he acknowledged non-believers too. (I hope he'll acknowlegde Pagans and Wiccans too one day, because they too, exist and should be able to live a life without recieving threats from anyone!) I'm not saying he's the best president ever, but he certainly tries to unite people, and I'm happy he addresses, and tries to inspire average Joe aswell.

So I hope for the best, and hope for opportunities for everyone.

:)
Arien   
15 Apr 2009
Life / What should be done to make life in Poland better and more enjoyable? [94]

What should be done to make life in Poland better and more enjoyable?

What should be done? Well, maybe it's better to ask yourself what can be done?

Start with yourself? Dare to dream? Be optimistic? Be creative? Celebrate life? Break with religious fanaticism and don't judge eachother for making mistakes or doing stupid things sometimes? (Hey, everyone does that atleast once in a lifetime!)

Accept eachother's differences? (Be curious about those differences, instead of being afraid!) Keep in mind that most people are just like you, and they don't like to be lonely either, and just want to have fun most of the time.

Try to look at all the things you do have, because the most valuable things in life won't cost you anything but the effort you're willing to put into it! Try to help your brothers and sisters whenever you can, and always welcome a guest who's willing to lend you a hand, and be kind to strangers who are kind to you?

Oh, and money does make your life easier, we all know that, but it certainly doesn't help to create a better atmosphere out there, it's usually a smile, a friendly answer to a friendly question, or even the smallest act of kindness which helps to add to a better atmosphere.

If you can laugh, cry, have fun and share with friends, I'd say you're pretty succesful, whatever you're doing for a living. So try to see the humour in all things around you, and try to make the best out of what you have?

:)

Hey, it's all about the little things!

Oh, and last but not least: Add a bunch of smilies to your forums, because if they're funny and properly done, they make people smile sometimes..

;)
Arien   
24 Feb 2009
News / Poland..wake up to a multicultural world [1059]

No place on the plant do whites do this. Just as there are no white ghettos in America.

I take it you've never heard of trailer park trash before?

:)
Arien   
23 Feb 2009
Love / About Personal Problems (English / Polish relationships) [32]

Is it because some of us might have experienced something similar ?

Ofcourse, we all have similar experiences sooner or later. Often, we aren't as unique as we thought we were.

Is it because some of us might have friends who have similar problems ?

That could be the case, but then again, the person on the other side of your screen isn't the same person as your friend, so always keep in mind that no matter how much you've learned from their experiences, using the same approach on someone else might fail you horribly, where a completely different approach might work.

Is it just common sense ?

Sometimes, an assessment of a particular situation can be better made by someone who isn't emotionally attached. Objectivity isn't always the best choice, because sometimes, all that people really need is a bit of sympathy..

Another problem I have is wondering why it is that the original poster gets all the sympathy when we haven't heard the other side of the story.

Some stories might prove a little more complicated, but you'll always get one side of the story, which is the side people show you, and this could be for any given number of reasons. Tread lightly, don't jump to conclusions and maybe we shouldn't mistake some people's empathy for sympathy..

And why is the usual answer to these personal problems almost always: He's cheating on you, he's married, he already has a girlfriend.

That's what usually happens when people apply their own experiences to someone else's situation, often without any knowledge of the person who might've been involved. I say might, because I think it's easy for me to imagine that we can never be too sure about a posting on the internet.

Surely there can't be, what seems, such a large number of people who are taken in this way.

No? I would beg to differ. I would prefer to see someone as innocent untill proven guilty, and if proven guilty, I always try to remember that we all make mistakes, some more often than others..

I'd like to know why people cheat. What drives these people ? How can they be spotted before a romance begins.

You can't spot someone who cheats or has cheated before, and obviously you aren't born that way, although a broken heart can make you lose your ideals. Someone who cheats can do so for any given number of reasons. I don't understand the reason for cheating either, because I really am convinced you've got the freedom to leave a relationship whenever you're miserable with someone in that relationship.

Regardless, in every relationship there are two people at play, and these two people aren't perfect.

If I use my imagination, my best guesses would be that some people are too scared of hurting someone they've really loved once. (And maybe a part of them still does, maybe not always sexually.) Some people may have married someone they didn't like because of social pressure. Some people probably are scared of what their environment will think of them when they divorce a little too often, and some people might even want to keep a relationship working solely for financial reasons..

Etcetera.

I'd also like to know what posters think about giving the wrong advice, smart a$$ comments and how this might tip someone over the edge.

Deliberatly talking someone into breaking his or her heart (or breaking that of someone else!) seems pretty sick to me. I wouldn't want to wish that on someone else. In the end, we're responsible for our own actions though, and if we regret some actions, others shouldn't be completely unforgiving..

Does anyone wonder if some people have taken our advice and that advice has been wrong. And in fact a relationship might have been ruined because of one of our comments.

I don't wonder, I know it's a fact of life.

Hopefully, the answers to these questions will show that we do know what we are talking about and can be trusted.

Hey, if you carry no hatred in your heart, and are really trying to help someone else with all the good intentions of the world, I'd say you can be trustred, but that doesn't mean you're always right, or that it always turns out to be right..

Nobody's perfect.

:)