Love / Polish Girlfriend gone missing [154]


well then I guess we will have to put yo mamma in the mental ward for having you right :)

Life / Bad opinion about Polish people - rumour or the truth? [90]


she should have given him something in appreciation.. I would have, not saying she had to, but that would have been honorable thing to do seeing that he returned her wallet and was honest.. show those around her how good people can be..


this is the truth.. that is pretty much what i was trying to explain in another thread, but it became to intense.. I felt like I was arm wrestling.

Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]


I dont run around saying I am polish and I have sex with a man on a daily basis... and I really dont think if I did say this, I would get to many dirty looks VS someone who says I am gay.. and I have sex with a man , or I am black and gay etc etc..

I didnt make this up, it really happens.

when interviewing for a job.. does the application on it have a place to put what gender you prefer?? they dont care, they just want you to do your job!!

when you walk into a coffee shop .does it say gays sit here and do the bathrooms have seperate places for them too??

does every gay person in the world say, I am gay, and I want you to know that I have sex with a man or women.. I really dont give a rats arse!!

just like my preference shouldnt be a big deal..

I am saying, stop drawing attention to yourself..

and as for the above ... all the rest you wrote, your taking what I said way over the top and out of context as to how I am feeling.. your making it sound like I am trying to surpress their way of life.. would you rather see a friend go to work in one piece whos gay and come home in one piece or would you rather he shout to the whole f-EN world, I am gay and someone take a pot shot at him??

I am done with this debate/conversation.. because I dont feel your catching my message and so with that I will agree and be done .

Life / Coming back to Poland after 5 years in UK [14]


apparently more then you.. :) ha ha..


ok Paulina, I would like that :)

bolek and I were discussing the best course of action to help.

I am glad our replys could help some, and help you to smile :)

Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]


I wont argue that.. because we have had this ,, its a daily thing and as much as we tell them to deny some of the abusers rights to come in pf because of this, they are still here..

just like the kkk still exists, and nazis still exists <~ and I for one cant stand people like this.. and I would do everything in my power to protect those around me who would be subject to harm by people like this.. but again, my feelings are, I think that making a big deal out of being gay ( not saying they shouldnt be proud) but putting signs up fully knowing people are like this is asking for trouble..thats all I am saying.. we know its happened.. before this discussion, and it will continue to happen unfortunately.

at every march/rally someone will get hurt in the crowd.. stupidity knows no bounds, and they shouldnt be subjected to hate crimes, some innocently have been, but others have openly done/said things that caused something to happen and in society, fully knowing its not totally accepted by some, there should be some type of respect also given.. just like the incident with my ex BF brother who almost caused a problem..

I would like things to be calm to, but a straight man who feels very defensive towards his manhood will get highly upset if a gay man makes advance towards him and its intensified 20 times if the guys are making a joke of it.

so embarassment, and other emotional factors play a key role in how gay men are treated.. if you noticed, the only ones that you hear about performing these hate crimes are men.. women accept gay men and gay women.. if there are any women who have done something wrong to this nature, its few and far between.

Life / Coming back to Poland after 5 years in UK [14]


lol..

ok, well you stick with yours and I will mine, if she takes it or leaves the advice whatever she does I do hope everything works out for the best..

can you show your softer side there bolek or do ya have to be a mean old fart and matter of fact everything just because you have a couple of nuts to sit on :)

Life / DECENCY RATINGS FOR THE INTERNET? Would it work in Poland? [17]


we have this now , only it works if you use it... Aol has a rating system , its to protect children, I am all for it, how many sick perverts out there who hunt children on here... what is wrong with protecting children? before we had internet they stalked them in cars.. now they do it via the internet.. any type of protection is ok by me..

Life / Coming back to Poland after 5 years in UK [14]


Im not going to argue with u, my father was the same as how she explains. believe it or not they are capable of letting their human side out .. I know how polish men are.. I have two brothers ( stubborn as they come) and my father who taught them everything they know.

My father is gone, both brothers are now very caring and concerned and do support me the way family should.. dont tell me I dont know what I am talking about unless you are alien and of another breed of men. I think she can handle it just fine.. and apparently she is supporting them which shows a softer side of her and how much she cares..

my father listened to me more then my brothers after I showed him I was equal to him and we became alot closer..

and yes I am polish, my dads father was polish, he was just like his father , and they all came strait from poland!! some men never change.. huh.. bolek?

Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]


if people were willing to accept of course it would be fine, but again heterosexuals dont celebrate being heterosexuals by having national marches.

and just like religion, and cultures some of these are questioned in this very forum and not accepted but are discussed..


its not, but if your the only person able to help someone you care about to not get hurt, my feelings were that we were out together, his knowing this can happen why would you put your friends in danger? or yourself? its fact people dont accept it.. just because I did and his family did doesnt mean the whole world will!!

I was mad at him for doing that, we were in a straight bar, even other gays knows you cant just walk into a straight bar and expect good responses!!

especially if your acting out.. it was eye opening for me.. because I thought why dont people act more tolerant, but they dont its just the way it is!!


it dont and its not going to change any time soon. getting upset at people who dont accept it isnt going to change it either.. they have a right to feel the way they do as much as a homosexual does. thats why I had pointed out that in another thread.


ok heres where i agree with you.. lol

Life / Coming back to Poland after 5 years in UK [14]



Paulina.. you need to gather your family and speak your mind ...

not having a older sister or some support yourself can be hard.. sometimes people ignore the fact that others could be still hurting and it sounds like your doing all you can to keep your family together , but not getting the emotional support and time to mourn like they have.

so I am going to act as the older sister right now...

gather father, and brother tomorrow..
ask both to please listen and to not speak until you are done.
please do not be rude and cut me off as I am only going to say this once.

I love the both of you, but I need your support too.. I miss mom too, and I dont have the nuturing or someone to turn to and cry when I need that shoulder.

I am depressed, I dont want to live here if I have to be your support only. we are family and we all should work as one.. this is what our mother would have wanted and expected.

Paulina.. you tell them that.. you certainly deserve more help and emotional support then you are getting.. we all know sometimes we dont show our side, so you show it to them so they can know that you are still hurting too..

Please feel free to email me as well if needed my email is open always or pm

* sisterly Hugs*

Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]


then why run around showing society your gay by having marches?

why look a man up and down fully knowing he is heterosexual and wondering why these violent hate crimes happen..

I remember going out with my ex bf brother after we had broke up and we hung out at my bars.. he was looking at the men as I was.. it was not a good situation, he became drunk and I had to stop and intervene several times to tell guys he advanced at that he was just drunk and thought the man was someone else.

I realized I couldnt be his hangout buddie.. not in the bars I went to. so we just stopped hangin around for a long time. but it was very frustrating, because he cried on my shoulder many times, just wanting to find a true love and I comforted him.. we got along as good friends.. it was fun to dance and get drunk together until all that started happening.. but he was a victim of a hate crime one night when he went to a park where they gays frequent and a car load of guys got out because one winked at him and he thought he was gay, so the guys set him up

oops and forgot to say they beat him badly he was a mess.

and I told him to stop doing stupid dangerous things..

some things will never be fully accepted by people. and you cant make them.

Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]


in some cases he is right, my ex bf brother ( admitted gay) but only after I seen him kissing his lover in the car one night by accident.

we dated the year before, but thats it, then I started to see his brother, the attraction wasnt there for me, I liked him as a friend, and we dated, but it felt awkward sorta.. after I said I was going with his brother ,he was so upset and mad wouldnt speak to me for a long time, then he started to, but started acting wierd.. thats when he told me ( after I seen the above) and I openly asked him

he then said yes... which I said ok, whatever .. but he jokingly said it was my fault that he turned gay.. because he loved me.. and I laughed with him, but then asked my friend ( his cousin) and she told me he told her this same thing, but wasnt laughing , was crying..

you dont know in life what things can happen.. he said he felt different as a young man, and says he often thought of men, but if he was to be with a woman it was only me he cared about. so its possible for some to be with women, I think sometimes its because men understand men more so theres a mental attraction right off the bat, just like women feel comfortable with women, there are things that the same sex has in common and things to talk about.. and I think its how comfortable a man can really feel around a woman that goes the same for a women around a man ... some are born this way. genetically more hormones of one or the other, but I think tomek has some valid points as well as you :)

Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]


thats what I would say too.. :) lol
I just thought I would keep your opinions straight :) you know me..

Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]


But he criticised the stance of bishops who threaten the clergy with enmity should their relationships become public. Speaking in an interview in London,

timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/faith/article2155865.ece

well they exist in your neighborhoods too Seanus.. dont just blame the catholics.

Life / Homosexuals in Poland / Hands off (PETITION) [797]



remember what I said greg :)

that was a old post obviously, but again, gay people have always been citizens, when were they not citizens? when they became gay? sexual preference has nothing to do with citizenship.. if your born polish its automatic, if your becoming gay then you dont change citizenship unless you decide to move to another country right? why make a issue out of nothing..and gays always have equal rights, how can someone deny them this , do they follow them about and watch them in their bedrooms to see if they are gay so they can take away this valuable right?

is there signs on doorways stating, your gay so get the F out? is there seperate bathrooms? seperate drinking fountains? seperate seating arrangements?

WTF does a gay person have to worry about then? some people dont and wont accept it, and I think this is the only reason this keeps being a issue.. as we all have our own sexual preference, it doesnt have to become a national holiday that we have sex with someone..

but then again, we heterosexuals dont have a holiday so I guess I will declare this now!!! 0n a national level.. everyone get out your sexiest undies and prance the streets!! :)

its party time!! we shall call it * NORMIE DAY * lol

Food / POLISH HANGOVER PREVENTIVE? [7]


wow.. heart attack soup.. lard and alcohol - just add the smoking and your pretty much ready for your funeral, not someones wedding.

the best way to not get a hangover is to eat something starchy before drinking or just plain eat. orange koolaide always helps me afterwards :) but its been a long time since I really felt that bad. thank goodness :)

Genealogy / how many know their own family histories? [139]

[quote=Domino]
P.S. some of you wonder why pictures and documents may be destroyed on purpose. Often times it was to protect other family members from being identified by authorities if they lived under a repressive regime. It could also be to get rid of the bad/sad memories...survivor's guilt maybe.

well, for those who are looking, theres alot out there.. unfortunately the above stated is true as I have watched documentarys on hitler and his familys decendants have changed names, or dont speak of history, documents are sealed etc.. and some live in the united states ... I dont feel its their responsibility, but a great deal prob do, so they live in hiding.

its a sad way to have to live , under the shadow of the most evil person in history.

Life / New skyscraper in Warsaw... [58]


how many skysscrapers can one build in a district where theres barely any people? does this make sense?

it might drag in some business, but if the area isnt highly traveled whos going to set up shop somewhere where its proven fact that its not accepted by locals and doesnt have a large profitable future?

I think trying to force these projects will only create anger, you have to be backed by the citizens,, not just the govt. crime will go up even higher..

Genealogy / how many know their own family histories? [139]


its because in the United states, there is very little to show or prove heritage and why do they want to know? because so many people identify with countries what nationality they are.. this has been going on for centuries.. but the importance of it became more distinguished in the early 1990's Genealogy has always been around , the interest hasnt though.

and with the internet and so many history centers popping up, its becoming a business just like everything else.. who would have thought that our own family documents would cost us a arm and a leg.. go figure.. and its our familys.

Life / How do Polish people view themselves? [92]


maybe polish people dont talk to you because your personality sucks..

the guy said sorry if this offends anyone and you went beserk anyways.

Example :


I dont think I would talk to you either till you start taking your xanax or paxil..

;)

Life / Are Polish People Hypochondriacs? [50]

yeah we are sick of generalizations of us being hypochondriacs, our ears hurt from listening to it all the time. our stomachs ache from the nauseating constant badgering and we cant take the headache of being catagorized every day we walk the earth..

please someone take away the pain of all this generalizations.. get me a doctor!!
lol

News / Poland will take half a century to catch up with the West [240]


someone has to pay, its prob taken out in taxes like anything else..

my question is, why dont you debate a little more nicer, you act like were bothering you when you come in here to have a discussion at least make your point and stop acting like we made you come here.. if you have more important things to do then dont come back.. otherwise join the discussion and thats it!

Language / Why Polish people use so many words to describe a situation? [122]


well ,if your not smart enough to find it by yourself with a map and your askin for help we only try to make it easier for you since it was your fault you became lost or cant find your way , then it takes longer to make you understand..

you wouldnt be having to listen to us if you were smart enough to not get lost in the first place.. lol

does this answer your question?

Life / Moving back to Poland after 20 unhappy years in Canada and USA [70]


Canada has universal health care I thought..

Do you speak to dog turds you see on the street? No? Well then why bother replying to noimmigration? He's exactly the same and so are his posts. Just move on past him taking care not to get his shit on you.

Wow Harry, it must be close to Christmas ,, your actually nice :)
* Nudges Harry* ye ole softie.

USA, Canada / Stories from Babcia's homeland Poland- Please join in the discussion [29]

Keep the stories coming folks.. :)

I believe the guests can see this thread too. please join the forum and join in the discussions :)

Love / Polish girlfriend and birth control! [62]

first you write this.


then you write this..

I dont know about anyone else, but my advice I would hope would help someone eventually.. you came in asking advice, then you contradicted your own post by saying your fully prepared to marry her, but yet you want to ask a forum full of people who are having conversations about POLAND>> or other things and dont know you from adam to give you advice on something you already made your mind up about.. I really believe you are playing/toying with all of us.. and I feel this way only because of last nights conversation.. to which I think either you know

NO IMMIGRATION or you are him.. either way.. your post sounds fake and
someone commented on the fact that you should be not talking about this on a forum.. as things like this are personal.. which is true.. you dont sound like a responsible young man, someone who is responsible would have not brought this to a forum , and he would have been smart enough to get a condom or ask her prior to * putting it in* if she was using some type of contraception..

I think I am done with these game players..

and NO immigration, you cant pull the wool over my eyes.. I know you either put someone up to it, or you used a different name. which isnt hard to do in this forum and you said you have at least 8000 comps at work, I am sure someone you know is prob laughing with you..

go ahead and enjoy yourself. we have had trolls lurk the neighborhood before and they are gone..

Genealogy / Anybody familiar with Szypliszki [8]


my same feeling. we dont do family searches here we help with what we can and maybe someone might run into someone with similar name, but we are not official genealogy site.. I did however think this might be helpful for you just type in your family name its a new pilot for the family history center.

Genealogy / Anybody familiar with Szypliszki [8]


zielona-gora.polandpoland.com
I hope this helps.. theres a email address as well..

Food / Looking for a Simple Polish Rabbit recipe. [11]


I want one for Christmas..not to eat though ever since I heard this song

Genealogy / Looking for sister, conneticut? Originally from Bielsko Biala [14]


seanus, that was pretty rude, I am also working with someone, and have postings in other places for someone also searching for their brother and siblings,

she found the siblings ,but not the adopted brother..

imagine feeling this way.. I think you need to chill for a while and realize how important this really is. you would never know what type of feelings he has or is going thru.. I am so dissappointed that you would even suggest that.

theres other threads to pick on.

and cant a person hold some type of hope.. people have found each other on the intranet.. believe it or not.