shewolf
21 Jun 2008
Food / Woke up with a craving... [14]
you made that? are you single? :)
I dreamt about this the other night so had to make it today!
you made that? are you single? :)
shewolf
21 Jun 2008
Love / Meaning of Friendship (my friends is going back to Poland) [57]
I don't know how I missed this thread. Sorry to hear your friend is gone polishgirltx. I hope you feel better soon.
I don't know how I missed this thread. Sorry to hear your friend is gone polishgirltx. I hope you feel better soon.
shewolf
15 Jun 2008
Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]
I think her problems are much bigger than your relationship. It sounds like she has serious emotional problems in general. You really don't deserve to be treated like that.
In reality she does not care about me,
I think her problems are much bigger than your relationship. It sounds like she has serious emotional problems in general. You really don't deserve to be treated like that.
shewolf
13 Jun 2008
Love / Polish man- why they do not make a move?? [25]
so true. some places even prohibit romance between coworkers. one of them has to quit if they want to go out romantically.
Wherever I worked in the last 10 years (mostly large corporations) they had an employee manual - general rules, dress code and $hit were important, but one chapter had to be actually read aloud during the first day of employment. Then a bunch of forms had to be signed that the employee fully understood what sexual harassment was, even what they called, "in very subtle forms".
so true. some places even prohibit romance between coworkers. one of them has to quit if they want to go out romantically.
shewolf
11 Jun 2008
Love / Polish man- why they do not make a move?? [25]
Some of them are very shy but only because they're shy, not because they're Polish. And sometimes they want to make a move but they don't because of the shyness and they would go out with you if you just ask. It sounds like he's interested if he's always trying to be near you.
I am just trying to find out if they are usually shy, and they are definetely different on their public approach to woman than other countries.
Some of them are very shy but only because they're shy, not because they're Polish. And sometimes they want to make a move but they don't because of the shyness and they would go out with you if you just ask. It sounds like he's interested if he's always trying to be near you.
shewolf
11 Jun 2008
Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]
There's a daughter in the middle of all this? How old is she? Does she witness all this animosity? You have to get out for the sake of that child. You can't let her be exposed to this. Forget the money or whatever you've got to lose. I can't even stand reading this. I couldn't read what you wrote because it's so negative. Imagine how it feels living in it.
There's a daughter in the middle of all this? How old is she? Does she witness all this animosity? You have to get out for the sake of that child. You can't let her be exposed to this. Forget the money or whatever you've got to lose. I can't even stand reading this. I couldn't read what you wrote because it's so negative. Imagine how it feels living in it.
shewolf
10 Jun 2008
Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]
she sounds abusive. no one needs that in their life.
she sounds abusive. no one needs that in their life.
shewolf
7 Jun 2008
Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]
Have you taken her in your arms lately and told her that you love her? You should try it when she says something mean, even if you don't feel like it. Maybe it will shut her mouth. If you want to live in love and peace for the next 4 months, maybe you should give love and peace instead of arguing with her and creating more tension.
Have you taken her in your arms lately and told her that you love her? You should try it when she says something mean, even if you don't feel like it. Maybe it will shut her mouth. If you want to live in love and peace for the next 4 months, maybe you should give love and peace instead of arguing with her and creating more tension.
shewolf
4 Jun 2008
Love / Polish gf's got a really change (sex matter) [60]
Could it be her way of trying to get you to marry her? Does she ever talk about wanting to marry you?
Now she's coming back to normal and saying she regrets our "phone-sex" and that we won't make love in july when i'll be there:O
Could it be her way of trying to get you to marry her? Does she ever talk about wanting to marry you?
shewolf
4 Jun 2008
Love / I need advice on a Polish guy Im seeing. Thanx :) [30]
Why don't you tell him that you can't see him anymore until he leaves his girlfriend? And then wait and see if he does it. I'm sure you'll find out how real this is to him.
Why don't you tell him that you can't see him anymore until he leaves his girlfriend? And then wait and see if he does it. I'm sure you'll find out how real this is to him.
shewolf
2 Jun 2008
USA, Canada / I might be moving to Florida.... [36]
how does someone speak mexican?
I dont speak spanish or mexican.
how does someone speak mexican?
shewolf
2 Jun 2008
Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]
It's weird that she knows she is treating you bad but she can't seem to stop. That's not a good sign. I hope the psychologist can help.
It's weird that she knows she is treating you bad but she can't seem to stop. That's not a good sign. I hope the psychologist can help.
shewolf
2 Jun 2008
USA, Canada / I might be moving to Florida.... [36]
Are you aware of the heat and humidity and hurricanes in Florida? Some people don't mind those things, especially if they don't like living in a cold climate, but the real estate show probably didn't mention them.
Are you aware of the heat and humidity and hurricanes in Florida? Some people don't mind those things, especially if they don't like living in a cold climate, but the real estate show probably didn't mention them.
shewolf
31 May 2008
Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]
it's just weird that she doesn't want the guy to speak to his own mother. come on.
it's just weird that she doesn't want the guy to speak to his own mother. come on.
shewolf
24 May 2008
Love / Stalker Friend of my Polish GF? [40]
scary. I hope the police can help.
Tonight I definately saw him watching me or the restaurant after she had gone home - that is concerning.
scary. I hope the police can help.
shewolf
24 May 2008
shewolf
22 May 2008
Life / Secondary school choices in Poland [11]
Maybe her school in the U.S. would let her do long distance education so that she won't fall behind in her credits and then she could attend a class or two in English at the local school (in Poland) as electives.
p.s. there are online schools in the U.S. or schools that have online classes for students who can't attend on campus, so you wouldn't have to do the teaching yourself.
I want my daughter to use next year as the equivalent of 10th grade, so that she won't fall behind back home.
Maybe her school in the U.S. would let her do long distance education so that she won't fall behind in her credits and then she could attend a class or two in English at the local school (in Poland) as electives.
p.s. there are online schools in the U.S. or schools that have online classes for students who can't attend on campus, so you wouldn't have to do the teaching yourself.
shewolf
6 May 2008
Love / I just met a Polish lady & we like each other, but its complicated. [26]
Nobody is mad at you. We're all human and have been there ourselves. I would be surprised if no one here has ever been there. What were you hoping we would say, that you should ask the Polish woman to wait for you while you decide what to do about your current relationship? Why are you still with your girlfriend if you don't want to be? She has the right to help you decide what to do. It's her situation now, too.
By the way, are you absolutely sure you want to invest your time and feelings into the new woman if she's inviting you to her home while you're attached to someone else? She's could easily do the same thing to you behind your back someday when she meets another man. She's shown you what she's like.
I feel that I have hit a tender spot with some ppl on here & feel that they have possibly been in a similar situation themselves & that this is why they are angry with me, or it may be the opposite in that they cant understand my current dilemma as they havent experienced it for themselves. If that is the case then I'm sorry but this is a totally new situation for me to be in as I am now on the other end.
Nobody is mad at you. We're all human and have been there ourselves. I would be surprised if no one here has ever been there. What were you hoping we would say, that you should ask the Polish woman to wait for you while you decide what to do about your current relationship? Why are you still with your girlfriend if you don't want to be? She has the right to help you decide what to do. It's her situation now, too.
By the way, are you absolutely sure you want to invest your time and feelings into the new woman if she's inviting you to her home while you're attached to someone else? She's could easily do the same thing to you behind your back someday when she meets another man. She's shown you what she's like.
shewolf
5 May 2008
Love / I just met a Polish lady & we like each other, but its complicated. [26]
She is probably not going to be as surprised as you think she is. I'm sure your feelings for someone else have shown.
I've been avoiding the dreaded 'ditching' situation as I'm normally the 1 who gets ditched & so I know what it feels like, & its not a situation that I ever thought I'd be in, & getting ditched doesnt get any easier the more it happens. However you guys are right & I feel the time is right & will discuss the situation with my gf & finish it tonight.
She is probably not going to be as surprised as you think she is. I'm sure your feelings for someone else have shown.
shewolf
5 May 2008
Love / I just met a Polish lady & we like each other, but its complicated. [26]
Why don't you ask your girlfriend what you should do and see if she can help you.
Why don't you ask your girlfriend what you should do and see if she can help you.
shewolf
5 May 2008
Love / I just met a Polish lady & we like each other, but its complicated. [26]
break up with your girlfriend and then ask us.
What should I do?
break up with your girlfriend and then ask us.
shewolf
3 May 2008
Love / Confused English man: is she stringing me along or is she confused? [62]
I don't believe she is really confused about how she feels. I think she knows how she feels but she won't say it because she is getting something from you that she doesn't want to lose. Is she lonely? Does she need your attention? Do you give her money? Why does she stay with you?
I'm confused, is she stringing me along or is she confused? Any help from women would be appreciated.
I don't believe she is really confused about how she feels. I think she knows how she feels but she won't say it because she is getting something from you that she doesn't want to lose. Is she lonely? Does she need your attention? Do you give her money? Why does she stay with you?
shewolf
11 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
She has already shown you how easy it is to hurt you, even if she hasn't meant to. I don't think she's somebody you should give your heart to. If you stay friends with her there shouldn't be the hope of someday becoming more than that again unless she somehow changes and becomes a better person.
She has already shown you how easy it is to hurt you, even if she hasn't meant to. I don't think she's somebody you should give your heart to. If you stay friends with her there shouldn't be the hope of someday becoming more than that again unless she somehow changes and becomes a better person.
shewolf
10 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
That's so true. She should have given the necklace back if she knew how expensive it was. I never would have kept it myself. But didn't he give it to her before they broke up?
I still don't think her reaction is a reason to automatically suspect her of dishonesty. Maybe she thought he gave the gift from his heart, because she meant something to him. When he asked for it back maybe she felt like it had all been fake, like "this gift is only yours as long as we're together but as soon as we break up you can't have it anymore so it's not really yours."
it does to extent.. but she was upset that he asked for the necklace back and called him cheap, yet she broke it off with him and accepted that 1200.00$ worth..
if she was real in her feelings, she would say. I cannot accept this at this time
because I am not sure about my feelings and need to sort thru them..
that would be called honesty.. calling him cheap after dumping him sounds
a little off balance..
if she was real in her feelings, she would say. I cannot accept this at this time
because I am not sure about my feelings and need to sort thru them..
that would be called honesty.. calling him cheap after dumping him sounds
a little off balance..
That's so true. She should have given the necklace back if she knew how expensive it was. I never would have kept it myself. But didn't he give it to her before they broke up?
I still don't think her reaction is a reason to automatically suspect her of dishonesty. Maybe she thought he gave the gift from his heart, because she meant something to him. When he asked for it back maybe she felt like it had all been fake, like "this gift is only yours as long as we're together but as soon as we break up you can't have it anymore so it's not really yours."
shewolf
9 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
Her answer sounded very real. That's how some women feel when they lose a loved one. I don't think you have a reason to feel vengeful toward her.
If she called you today then she obviously doesn't want you completely out of her life. You should definitely decide if you can live with being only a friend to her. If not, then yes, it's time to move on but you shouldn't leave or avoid her out of anger. It really doesn't seem like she's trying to hurt you on purpose.
i asked her today she said no doesnt that she just wants to spend time with mom and brother wants time to heal and said she doesnt feel like being in relationship or having sex or being accountable to a man.. so she said it was to hurtful and not fair to me cause she cant give me anything.. she opened up and said she needs time to think cause she had plans for her dad to come live here and now hes gone
Her answer sounded very real. That's how some women feel when they lose a loved one. I don't think you have a reason to feel vengeful toward her.
If she called you today then she obviously doesn't want you completely out of her life. You should definitely decide if you can live with being only a friend to her. If not, then yes, it's time to move on but you shouldn't leave or avoid her out of anger. It really doesn't seem like she's trying to hurt you on purpose.
shewolf
9 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
It doesn't make sense that she would get mad just because you ask her if there's someone else. Why can't she just say no?
It doesn't make sense that she would get mad just because you ask her if there's someone else. Why can't she just say no?
shewolf
9 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
First this woman asks you to give her space for 4 weeks but it's okay for her to be with other people. Then she blames you for the end of your relationship. And then she calls you classless because you ask for the $1200 necklace. Why are you taking this woman to lunch?
taking her to lunch tomorrow to say goodbye any advice on what i should say?
First this woman asks you to give her space for 4 weeks but it's okay for her to be with other people. Then she blames you for the end of your relationship. And then she calls you classless because you ask for the $1200 necklace. Why are you taking this woman to lunch?
shewolf
8 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
Sorry to hear that things have ended so badly. I don't understand her request to have 4 weeks of space from the man she loved. But I think it was good that you didn't leave her even though she was treating you so wrong. It just would have been wrong to abandon someone during a time like that despite her bad behavior.
Sorry to hear that things have ended so badly. I don't understand her request to have 4 weeks of space from the man she loved. But I think it was good that you didn't leave her even though she was treating you so wrong. It just would have been wrong to abandon someone during a time like that despite her bad behavior.
shewolf
8 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
Did she ask you for the 4 weeks of space? If she did, what did she say when she asked for it?
(I haven't read the entire thread)
i guess its too bad when she got back from poland i gave her space for 4 weeks i sent her flowers every week and bought her a david yurman necklace very nice she excepted it all and now this....
Did she ask you for the 4 weeks of space? If she did, what did she say when she asked for it?
(I haven't read the entire thread)
shewolf
7 Apr 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]
How does the conversation go? Why do you feel you're pushing her away?
It sounds like she doesn't want you to move on just yet, otherwise she would have told you to go. She sounds confused, unsure.
But I think plk123 has a good point. If the two of you had been very close before it would make sense that she would need you right now. Were you very close before? Has she let you visit her or spend time with her since the death?
thats what i have been doing but the way the conversation goes it semms that im bothering her and its hard to keep calling it makes me fell im pushing her away more.
How does the conversation go? Why do you feel you're pushing her away?
i talked to her today and said that she would be honest if she wants me to move on and she would tell me and not string me along....
It sounds like she doesn't want you to move on just yet, otherwise she would have told you to go. She sounds confused, unsure.
But I think plk123 has a good point. If the two of you had been very close before it would make sense that she would need you right now. Were you very close before? Has she let you visit her or spend time with her since the death?