Thanks PolskaDoll. I think u understood exactly what I was trying to get across on here.
OK :) I've been there ;)
Has anyone on here been in a similar situation?
It is a tricky situation. I think if you talk to your current girlfriend about your relationship you'll find she is thinking the same. She probably cares for you a great deal too but feels that things have fizzled out. So you're right, talk with her, discuss your relationship and bring it to an end if that is how things should be.
However if afterwards myself & this Polish lady do get together I just want to make sure that she's gonna be around & really wants to be with me because I dont go for short term relationships & its very easy for ppl to say that they dont want to go back to their home country right now, but maybe 1 yr down the line she may get homesick or wish to leave & move on to another country, as I have heard many Polish ppl are currently doing due to the weak pound at the moment.
Well, unfortunately you have no control over anyone's emotions or feelings so if this new lady of yours is happy at the moment with being in UK and you really want to be with her you have to go for it. If she feels in 6 months or a year that she is homesick or it's time to go home then that's how it will be. Don't miss out being with her because of what "might" happen. You have to go for it. Who knows? You might want to go with her if that does happen. Or you might give her a great reason for staying here and making it work.