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helghast 2 | 30  
15 Sep 2008 /  #1
hi im 20 years old from the uk. there's a 22year old polish girl at work. we work for asda and i only recently started talking to her. (about a month) i joke with her and talk alot and get in trouble :P today at work i was in a freinds asle talking and she came in wanting something and i joked and she walked past and like done somthing to my neck like a gentle push or something. she has a boyfreind but said its complicated but i think something could happen. so is there any tips people can give please?

thanks
dcchris 8 | 432  
15 Sep 2008 /  #2
take it slow and easy and see what happens
OP helghast 2 | 30  
15 Sep 2008 /  #3
so continue to the way iam? i walked her home as she lived near me. little did i know she USED to live near me and i went 25mins out of my way but i still had a nice convo with her. she was intrested that i might have a car if i pass my test in 3weeks.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
15 Sep 2008 /  #4
and like done somthing to my neck like a gentle push or something.

Can you describe this neck thing in more detail? How exactly did she push it? Was it the front of the neck, the back of the neck?
OP helghast 2 | 30  
15 Sep 2008 /  #5
from the back like a really gentle push id duno how she did as i couldnt see :P but i know it was gentle felt like she didnt know what to do so just nudged me instead. sorry just hard to describe it.
dcchris 8 | 432  
15 Sep 2008 /  #6
sounds like u r on the right track just keep cool and leave it up to her as she has a boyfriend... u dont want to chase her too much if u r really interested in long term its best to wait until she doesnt have a boyfriend. Is he there or in poland? learn a little polish that will impress her immensely for instance hello is gin dohbreh (thats how it sounds for english speakers) good luck
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
15 Sep 2008 /  #7
If she has a boyfriend and she hasn't broken up with him, it doesn't sound very good. It sounds like she is just having fun with 2 men. You should back off from this woman until she leaves her boyfriend. Otherwise, you're going to end up hurt (unless you don't mind).
OP helghast 2 | 30  
15 Sep 2008 /  #8
i dont mind bein hurt not end of world. but i feel as tho something could happen. as she said its complicated story between her and her boyfreind who also lives in uk. but what does this push thingy she did mean tho? ill take things slow but want to go in the right direction in dating and making her my girlfreind if i can. just likes of me saying i allmost driving sparked her and she made intrest in that so i duno i hope things will go to plan ( me and her happy together )
LCzachor 6 | 68  
15 Sep 2008 /  #9
i dont mind bein hurt not end of world

Well, you are some kind of masochist then :P It sucks to love and don't have a feedback in the same level... It sucks even more when you think the girl is really into you, and then she turns her back... (not saying it's your case)

Just back off until she leaves her bf... Not good for you, not good for her, not good for him. Or at least don't push her... Give time to time :)
Captain Scarlet 3 | 34  
15 Sep 2008 /  #10
she was intrested that i might have a car if i pass my test in 3weeks

You've answered your own question right there . Lol
PolskaDoll 28 | 2,105  
15 Sep 2008 /  #11
Some advice - don't go there! ;)

She's got a boyfriend and it's always dangerous when a girl (or guy) says "yeah but it's complicated". My guess is she likes the attention you're giving her, she's probably playful by nature that's why she's messing around with your neck etc.

she was intrested that i might have a car if i pass my test in 3weeks.

Yes, I bet she was.

Be friends with her but don't let anything else happen while she's with her boyfriend because you'll end up the one who is hurt.

:)
OP helghast 2 | 30  
15 Sep 2008 /  #12
thanks for the adivce people. lot of mixed veiw's. so my choice

to carry on way i am and just let things take it course. as i wasnt really goin in for the kill i was just joking around like you usally do with new people to make them feel comfetable. if we date then we date but we dont then no hard feelings as i not falling fer her... YET hahaha but yea thanks for reply's
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
15 Sep 2008 /  #13
just likes of me saying i allmost driving sparked her and she made intrest in that so i duno i hope things will go to plan ( me and her happy together )

Has she ever complained that she doesn't have a car and that she needs a ride somewhere?
OP helghast 2 | 30  
16 Sep 2008 /  #14
no not really just when i said i might be driving soon her eyebrow raised as in 'cool' but i was talking to her with my other foreign freind from africa and i said to him we go for drive IF i pass then i asked her if she liked to. and she replyed goin all shy yea ok. so i just hope to god god i pass not only for that but for job reasons aswell
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
16 Sep 2008 /  #15
I still think you should wait until she breaks up with her boyfriend. It sounds like you're trying to take away someone else's girlfriend. Someday she will do the same thing to you, go out with another man behind your back while you sit at home without a clue.
King Sobieski 2 | 716  
17 Sep 2008 /  #16
whats going on with the education in britain these days....
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
17 Sep 2008 /  #17
Don't even ask!!!! - I was holding my tongue - I don't think this person is English...and if he is, it's possible that he is semi-retarded...
djf 18 | 166  
17 Sep 2008 /  #18
it's possible that he is semi-retarded...

Dont mock, someone has to be at the lower end of the spectrum....:-P
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
17 Sep 2008 /  #19
But why do they always have to say

hi im 20 years old from the uk

??? why can't they be from somewhere else???? why oh why?? I ask myself this time and time again!!!!
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
17 Sep 2008 /  #20
we work for asda and i only recently started talking to her. (about a month) i joke with her and talk alot and get in trouble :P today at work i was in a freinds asle talking ... .

What a quaint picture of working class life in the UK. Why not share a KFC bargain bucket with her? Actually - no! Push the boat out and take her to Nando's.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
17 Sep 2008 /  #21
Push the boat out and take her to Nando's.

Not likely, haven't you heard the new buzz word "credit crunch" , she'll be lucky to get a bag of chips!
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
17 Sep 2008 /  #22
True true... So what do the working classes do for entertainment now?
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
17 Sep 2008 /  #23
I have no idea - ask your friends :)
OP helghast 2 | 30  
17 Sep 2008 /  #24
if ya all taking the **** out of me then keep ya mouths shut! I was only asking for advice on dating a foreign girl. I can get myself eng girls but i like polish as eng girls go for anything. And no i not retarded shelleys and i havent hit the credit crunch. Bargain bucket or nandos may be your choice mrbubbles but i go higher like fancy restraunts and arrive in a 2.2 vauxhall astra sri so if your all gona come on here and mock me then dont bother im still young and learning but many thanks to shewolf for helping.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
17 Sep 2008 /  #25
dating a polish girl is just the same as dating any other girl, we are not a different species or something. maybe she's just being friendly and she likes you as a friend, i tend to nudge my mates (guys) poke my tongue out at them and they drive me to places all the time yet there is no weird attraction between us or anything, just friends. if she says it's complicated between her and her bf, she probably means she's a bit bored with him cos he doesn't chase after her or flirt with her, but i wouldn't try telling her that you'd like to go out with her or something cos it might completely scare her off and she will never speak to you again. trust me, if you even make a joke about taking her out on a date she might seriously forget you were ever friends and feel like you want something from her and stuff. we are a bit shy and panicky like that lol.... good luck with the driving exam, and maybe look for a single Polish girl. plenty of them shopping in asda everyday haha....
OP helghast 2 | 30  
17 Sep 2008 /  #26
wasnt trying to say that JUSTYSIAS lol just polish act diff to eng woman like quite or shy but yea thanks and will keep to freinds :) better to be freinds then to be hated. Thanks again
King Sobieski 2 | 716  
17 Sep 2008 /  #27
but i go higher like fancy restraunts and arrive in a 2.2 vauxhall astra sri

sorry, i was mistaken, you are royalty..
OP helghast 2 | 30  
17 Sep 2008 /  #28
if i wanted stupid replys like yours or a comedian i would of posted on a lee evans site. Stop with the sarcky posts ok?
polishgirltx  
17 Sep 2008 /  #29
is it a standard now days to date a co-worker?
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
17 Sep 2008 /  #30
complicated

You want some complications aswell?

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