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I need advice on a Polish guy Im seeing. Thanx :)


gillyt 1 | 4  
4 Jun 2008 /  #1
Dzien Dobry!

Hi everyone.
I have recently just got involved with my best friends brother, who is Polish. I am Welsh. In the beggining it was just abit of fun, as we were both involved with other people. He still has a Polish girlfriend, but he says he is no longer in love with her and is only with her because they are building a house together in Poland.

I really like him, we have a great time together and he is very charming and sweet with me. But I hate all this sneaking around.

Am I getting played here, and I should get out before I get hurt?
Or do you think this relationship could develope and he's going to leave his girlfriend?

Thank you
xXx
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
4 Jun 2008 /  #2
Or do you think this relationship could develope and he's going to leave his girlfriend?

um, so you think that when they finish building that house he is going to leave her? they will build a house and move in together, you are just a bit of fun on the side to him and the sooner you realise that and move on, the better.
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
4 Jun 2008 /  #3
I have to say I love these posts.

I have to work through the day so I miss Jeremy Kyle - this fills that void !
goodlook - | 13  
4 Jun 2008 /  #4
he is no longer in love with her and is only with her because they are building a house together in Poland.

He should make better excuse.
OP gillyt 1 | 4  
4 Jun 2008 /  #5
He doesn't want to move back to Poland, but she does. He said they will definately finnsh when she moves back.
hmm I don't know. I just feel we have something special
Shawn_H  
4 Jun 2008 /  #6
I am sure he feels like he has something special going as well. Until he is finished with her, stay away.
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Jun 2008 /  #7
I guess that you are older than him while his polish gf is younger.
It depends on his ambitions.
OP gillyt 1 | 4  
4 Jun 2008 /  #8
southern
Today, 15:10 #7

I guess that you are older than him while his polish gf is younger.
It depends on his ambitions.

No actually they are both in their 30's and Im 22.
Andrew78 - | 97  
4 Jun 2008 /  #9
hi
u r his booty call
Wroclaw 44 | 5,386  
4 Jun 2008 /  #10
I just feel we have something special

The sex might be good, but would you share the cost of a house and then just walk away.
I've seen it all before. This guy is playing you... hook, line and sinker.

But then you know how it works because you cheated on your last guy. What lines did you spin him.
Piorun - | 658  
4 Jun 2008 /  #11
You already know the answer and if you think you can win him over, all I can say is good luck.
I’m sorry to be so negative but it seems to me that you know exactly what you’re getting yourself into and getting hurt is out of the question.
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Jun 2008 /  #12
No actually they are both in their 30's and Im 22.

Then you have already won.His polish gf will get really mad when she finds out.
julita123 1 | 13  
4 Jun 2008 /  #13
Dear Gilly,
PLEASE do not allow him to play with You!!!!! Think it over: he is cheating his girlfriend at the moment, isn't he? So, do you REALLY think he is honest to You?? Because You feel smth special? I can bet his girlfriend also is that naive.. Men sometimes behave like dogs:(.. PLEASE do not become another victim of Your emotions. THINK WITH A BRAIN NOT WITH A HEART as it usually leads to suffering:(

I will keep my fingers crossed for You to forget that *******!!!!
PinkJewel  
4 Jun 2008 /  #14
He still has a Polish girlfriend, but he says he is no longer in love with her and is only with her because they are building a house together in Poland.

Run for the hills girl! If he has a Polish girlfriend and is building a house with her in Poland it seems very likely he will make her his Polish wife and live with her in their newly built house!

Am I getting played here, and I should get out before I get hurt?

Answer: Yes you are but you already know it, don't you?

you are just a bit of fun on the side to him and the sooner you realise that and move on, the better.

Truer words were never spoken. He will play with you gillyt because he is away from home and he needs a cuddle or more. Sorry, but that's how it is.
VaFunkoolo 6 | 654  
4 Jun 2008 /  #15
do you think this relationship could develope and he's going to leave his girlfriend?

You're the shtink on the side. It's not going to come to anything. Get out of it what you want and enjoy. Don't turn out to be a sad fuker like fireif. People will just laugh at you.
scott usa - | 63  
4 Jun 2008 /  #16
LoL first of all ur not dating him ur a SIDE SALAD(A BOOTY CALL) can u really trust a guy who is cheating on his gf with u ever hear of what goes around comes around.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
4 Jun 2008 /  #17
Why don't you tell him that you can't see him anymore until he leaves his girlfriend? And then wait and see if he does it. I'm sure you'll find out how real this is to him.
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Jun 2008 /  #18
You can try a threesome relationship with his girlfriend.
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Jun 2008 /  #20
The polish girl will cook and the english girl will dance.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
4 Jun 2008 /  #21
the english girl will dance.

you mean wobble? ha ha only kiddin!
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Jun 2008 /  #23
Yes,I know polish girls dance very well.However she should not intimidate the english girl or make her jealous.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
4 Jun 2008 /  #24
nah, the polish girl will be clever and cook more for the english girl so that her bum grows bigger lol
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Jun 2008 /  #25
Yes,but the english girl will dance all the time to burn the extra calories.And she will buy clothes in her taste for the polish girl to make her feel shabby.
OP gillyt 1 | 4  
4 Jun 2008 /  #26
lol :)

I kinda feel that no one is actually giving me advice, and that your trying to call me fat because you have the idea Im English. Some English women are quite beautiful, as are Polish women.

Actually Im Welsh/Spanish and Im a petite size 8
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Jun 2008 /  #27
My advice is to learn to prepare some polish dishes because I doubt if english food is attractive to him.
Or spanish food is quite good.
OP gillyt 1 | 4  
4 Jun 2008 /  #28
:) Its funny because many people have given the idea here that only Polish Women cook and thats all they do. Hhmm This Polish guy usually cooks for me great Polish food, and I make him Spanish food.

I don't think anyone really likes English food.
southern 75 | 7,096  
4 Jun 2008 /  #29
and I make him Spanish food.

You have found the way to his heart.
PinkJewel  
4 Jun 2008 /  #30
I kinda feel that no one is actually giving me advice, and that your trying to call me fat

Well, there's lots of advice been giving here but maybe it's the kind you didn't want to hear. You're being played, size 8 or not.

:) Its funny because many people have given the idea here that only Polish Women cook and thats all they do.

This is a bigger debate and relates to 'junk food diet' and 'western culture' so nothing to do with this really. It's a fact that cooking from scratch (or having the time to do so) is disappearing from British culture. It's a fact that Polish woman still cook from scratch (as do Polish men). We all know that Polish women do much more than cook so there's no need to try and start a little argument about that.

Your Polish guy is in love with his Polish girl, they're literally building a future together, what more proof do you need?

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