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HELP!! Need some advice about Polish guy at work.


irish_girl88 1 | 6  
18 Nov 2009 /  #1
Hi everyone

I just ned some advice, i have met a Polish guy at work and we talk all the time. Everyday we meet for coffee on every break. I get the impression he likes me but he has not asked me out anywhere. I asked him if he goes out but he says he only ever has some drinks at home. I know he had a beautiful Polish GF but they have split up. I feel abit confused abt this. He even texts me all the time!! He is sooooooooooooo cute and nice!! Maybe he just wants to be friends!! But why spend so much time wit me and text me all the time. He lives with 4 other Polish guys, so he has never asked me to his house. He has ben in my house once, he helped me move in!!

Wat to do????
rozumiemnic 8 | 3,848  
18 Nov 2009 /  #2
irish_girl88

Wat to do????

Invite him round and answer the door naked.
natasia 3 | 368  
18 Nov 2009 /  #3
irish_girl88
certainly invite him round. watch a film with him. mention how long it is since you had a back massage ... polish guys ARE cute, and even cuter in the sack, trust me.
espana 17 | 910  
18 Nov 2009 /  #4
watch a film with him. mention how long it is since you had a back ma

that silly , put a porn film and that it
OP irish_girl88 1 | 6  
18 Nov 2009 /  #5
R they that cute in the sack? Now im interested!! Actually another of my male Polish friends said answer the door naked!! Ha ha....u r funny guys!!
espana 17 | 910  
18 Nov 2009 /  #6
show him how to play the flute properly
OP irish_girl88 1 | 6  
18 Nov 2009 /  #7
Hmmmm im sure he knows quite well how 2 play that properly himself...like all men!! R u Polish? Spanish???
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
18 Nov 2009 /  #8
u Polish? Spanish???

He's a cow :D
espana 17 | 910  
18 Nov 2009 /  #9
ShelleyS

come on shelleys........ help the lady. what do you think?

WHAT TO DO?

THIS IS NOT A POLISH FORUM .....this is EastEnders!!!!!!!!
natasia 3 | 368  
18 Nov 2009 /  #10
that silly , put a prn film and that it

but they are really good at massaging .. pity not to get a bit of that while they will still do it ... (as like all men you are likely to get more of that at the start of the relationship...).

R they that cute in the sack?

yes, they are
and they have v nice bodies
and a good mental attitude towards sex
and are v good at cuddling afterwards, too

not that i've tried so many that i can give such a definitive judgement, i guess, but still ... they are usually highly-sexed, put it that way. and you said yourself he was cute. they are like teddy bears with hard-ons ... every girl's dream ; )
OP irish_girl88 1 | 6  
18 Nov 2009 /  #11
yeah wat to do? So far movie. get naked and porn???
natasia 3 | 368  
18 Nov 2009 /  #12
frankly i don't think the porn will be necessary. just ask him round and he will take the opportunity. you won't have to force him ...
espana 17 | 910  
18 Nov 2009 /  #13
true but don't forget buy viagra
natasia 3 | 368  
18 Nov 2009 /  #14
i don't think even that should be necessary with a polish guy ... (boy am i giving them a good write-up here!! anyone would think i LIKE those b'stards!! ; )
OP irish_girl88 1 | 6  
18 Nov 2009 /  #15
Well honestly i was not going down the porn road!! I presume that was a joke!! Yeah i think i will just ask him round for something to eat and a movie!!! I just was not sure about making the first move!! Thought Polish guys liked e take the lead and did not want to scare him. And if he comes round and we get on...maybe i should just ask him if he just wants 2 b friends or what?? Just dont want 2 lose our friendship :(
espana 17 | 910  
18 Nov 2009 /  #16
natasia

Female Viagra.......
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8363743.stm

I presume that was a joke!!

no
OP irish_girl88 1 | 6  
18 Nov 2009 /  #17
God if they really r that good in the sack, maybe i will answer the door naked!!! Maybe i will move 2 Poland!! Ha ha....mind u i think there r enough Polish men ere in Ireland!!! :) Nastasia...where r u from?
Barr_2009 1 | 252  
18 Nov 2009 /  #18
eeeeh Irish girl, calm down, and think :)
nomaderol 5 | 726  
18 Nov 2009 /  #19
detective here.... hmmm.. he had a beautiful gf? hmm. you saw her? hmmm... he always spend so much time with you or you spend so much time with him... hmm. if you see each others and talk every day, why txt then? txting at nights? hmm.. what kinds of txts? hmm... he says he only drinks at home? hmm..

(summing, substracting, multiplying... divide. he not for you. he thinking his ex, no sex.)
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
18 Nov 2009 /  #20
maybe i shud just ask him if he just wants 2 b friends or what??

Option #1

invite him round. watch a film with him. mention how long it is since you had a back massage

Option #2
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
18 Nov 2009 /  #21
Option #3 - $hag his friend at work and see if he reacts :D
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
18 Nov 2009 /  #22
I know he had a beautiful Polish GF but they have split up

Yeah - right.
natasia 3 | 368  
18 Nov 2009 /  #23
Thought Polish guys liked e take the lead and did not want to scare him.

that is with polish girls. but you are irish. so he isn't on such familiar territory (yet ; ). so he is hanging back a little. so you have to open the door and make it easy for him at least to get over the threshold.

Nastasia...where r u from?

frankly have forgotten myself : )
from yorkshire.
but gone native in poland.

irish_girl88:
I know he had a beautiful Polish GF but they have split up
Yeah - right.

to be fair, most polish guys have at some point a beautiful polish gf, as most polish girls are pretty well turned-out. but quite a lot again treat those same dolls without the respect they deserve. and there are polish guys who find that cultural difference (there i go on that again) with other girls - eg, irish, english - intriguing and seductive. they think they might want a woman who thinks differently. and they are game to try it. we, i guess, are exotic for them. cool. we just aren't quite so good at the washing up ; )

so: maybe - and you have to face this - he split up with her and is still in love with her, or still having sex with her, or still arguing with her. but possibly he split up with her and you are the new and exotic one. you won't really know until you ask him round and have that back massage. actually, you won't really know until a few months down the line whether you were real or a fantasy. tough, but true.
ekcampos 3 | 12  
18 Nov 2009 /  #24
Ask him about Polish food/beer and see if he offers to take you out. If not, then don't pursue. If he likes you, he will show it then. If he doesn't, you guys are just friends. Maybe he's one of those European guys that only wants to date someone from their own country.
OP irish_girl88 1 | 6  
19 Nov 2009 /  #25
Yeah i think i will take your last advice. I was with one Polish guy before and he was much more straight forward. I am actually starting to think he wants to just be friends!! Well this wknd will show........wish me luck!!! Nervous!!!
Juche 9 | 292  
19 Nov 2009 /  #26
But why spend so much time wit me and text me all the time.

I think, madam, you have just answered your own question.

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