Thought Polish guys liked e take the lead and did not want to scare him.
that is with polish girls. but you are irish. so he isn't on such familiar territory (yet ; ). so he is hanging back a little. so you have to open the door and make it easy for him at least to get over the threshold.
Nastasia...where r u from?
frankly have forgotten myself : )
but gone native in poland.
I know he had a beautiful Polish GF but they have split up
Yeah - right.
to be fair, most polish guys have at some point a beautiful polish gf, as most polish girls are pretty well turned-out. but quite a lot again treat those same dolls without the respect they deserve. and there are polish guys who find that cultural difference (there i go on that again) with other girls - eg, irish, english - intriguing and seductive. they think they might want a woman who thinks differently. and they are game to try it. we, i guess, are exotic for them. cool. we just aren't quite so good at the washing up ; )
so: maybe - and you have to face this - he split up with her and is still in love with her, or still having sex with her, or still arguing with her. but possibly he split up with her and you are the new and exotic one. you won't really know until you ask him round and have that back massage. actually, you won't really know until a few months down the line whether you were real or a fantasy. tough, but true.