and are still active in polish community outside of poland.
Of course I am asking this on a furum where most people is not in Poland and have never been.
Living in Poland does not mean you know all about the place or it's people, that's proven because you've come here to ask a question about Polish men. So please don't get frustrated because the answer you wanted wasn't given.
You are very lucky. I find that things are never this black and white. Also, men aren't always as perceptive as we think they are...
I've never found this about men either. They say women are complicated but so are men. However, in relation to botica's thread title, they will make a move if there is a woman they are interested in.