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Joined: 8 Jan 2008 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 13 Mar 2008
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angel   
10 Mar 2008
Love / I'm in love with a nice Polish; she's from another country and religion.. [39]

i followed my heart . its nor been easy-there are still issues-i have not met his family yet-i think this is wise at the moment. because wanting to please the familt can interfer with your relationship-best to develop your relationship first-make sure its a strong bond-then together you can support any negativity the family may cause. i ask your age- because i am 40 and my guy is 30. i got married at your girlfriends age-i had only known my x-husband 1 year-we were in love-i thought-BUT his family eventually came between us-take time to make sure you and your girlfriend will stand together not alone. at her age i felt guilty if i -went against my parents wishes-many times i pleased them more than i should have. in a relationship the two of you are the most important -this is my view
angel   
9 Mar 2008
Travel / hotels Gdansk [14]

flying to Gdansk soon any good 3/4 star hotels anyone can recommend? thanks
angel   
8 Mar 2008
Love / why is the older women such a problem for polish guys [37]

it will always remain a biological instinct of breeding,

no no no no no this is not true-what about people who "fall in love" when "breeding" is impossible- same sex couples, disabilities which cannot accomodate chid-bearing-or couples who choose not to breed

They were paid by males who realised that noble talk about love could help them seduce women faster and more efficiently

or maybe they needed help in expressing their
feelings

Of course I was in love but it was purely hormonic or ferromonic matter.

i take it it didnt last-it can be transient-doesnt mean cant happen again-hormonic,ferromonic, cupidmonic or any monic for that matter

i wish you love. love, love and nothing but love
angel   
7 Mar 2008
Life / Mobile phone reception in Poland [17]

i have a chance to add another phone on to my contract phone with t-mobile for £15 this would allow shared min and unlimitted free calls between the phone owners-this would certainly be a huge saving on the phone calls my boyfriend and i are making to his payg phone-just wondering if anyone has experience of t-mobile in poland-i know orange ofer the same deal but i have a years contract with t-mobile
angel   
7 Mar 2008
UK, Ireland / Dialing from uk mobile to a phone in Poland / International number code [12]

i think it depends on you phone the phone you are calling and the network.

if i call my boyfriend in poland on his polish number from my mobile use i +48........in front of his polish number also using 00 instead of + works. When i call his english vodophone number to his sony erricson phone from my tmobile or orange i just use his number as if he was here no code before it-this is also true for when i dail his english number from my land line i dont need to use a code. however he cannot seem to access passport on his english number and according to the vodophone guy i spent 2 hours talking to its because of the network his english number picks up-it can be set but every time he changes his polish-english sim the settings have to be changed-its like russian roulette trying to get a hold of each other and i thought he was avoiding me-lol

so now we are looking at skype phones or two phones on the same contract shared mins for talk time which allows each of us unlimitted free calls to the other. i have posted whether t-mobile or orange would be best for this
angel   
2 Mar 2008
Travel / EasyJet suspends flights to Gdansk [9]

Their own website has been in Beta stage for months now and still isn't finished. I also firmly believe that the majority of Brits think Poland is virtually a third world country, that it is located somewhere close to the North Pole and is always cold, and that flight times from the UK are 4 hours +

this is so true-so many of my friends hold this view-they wont entertain visiting the country
angel   
2 Mar 2008
Language / Correct Polish spelling [69]

do you use chcialbym when reffering to I or does it mean something else?
angel   
2 Mar 2008
Love / why is the older women such a problem for polish guys [37]

I wouldn't worry about it angel. If it's meant to be it will go ahead and you will both be stronger when you are actually together and be able to deal with it. Romantic view I know but life is so short just go for what makes you happy, is my view.

Love is a notion invented by poets hired by males.

tommy so love is subconcious-so you dont know it and you cant control it-so its no notion invented-maybe you have never been in love or you are just too analytical

lady in red i agree with you

love is what makes the world go round-or is it just physics-but we cant do a darn thing about that either coz force is not seen onlt the effects are so does it exixt at all or is it just a notion dreamed up by newton?-but then again newton was crazy
angel   
2 Mar 2008
Language / Correct Polish spelling [69]

Merged: wiem ty chcialbym: is this correct spelling

is this how you would write in poliash -i know you want to

wiem ty chcialbym-
angel   
27 Feb 2008
Love / why is the older women such a problem for polish guys [37]

it would appear from the post on here that men seem to judge women on "acceptable" norm sterotypes. forget age for a moment. would love discriminate on the grounds of dissability, creed, colour, finacial staus etc ..my point is you fall in love with a person not a set of expectations-well a real man or woman for that matter ,does
angel   
26 Feb 2008
Love / TO GO OR NOT TO GO (to visit my Polish boy-friend in Poland) [30]

my boyfriend doesnt want me to go to poland to see him-says age difference is a problem-he says he misses me-but he is not downing tools to be with me- so i guess he doesnt love me as much as i love him. i said i would go to see him but he said no-wait until he comes to england. i wonder what would happen if i went there?
angel   
26 Feb 2008
Love / why is the older women such a problem for polish guys [37]

hello i have this dilema with my polish guy (see post). i have text him to say i would come and see him for a few days in poland because he is there waiting for work in england so i decided to go see him-he text back "jestes fantastic buska".

but when i spoke to him yesterday he said please dont come to poland wait till i am in england-it turns out the age difference is a problem he is 30 i am 40-we had talked about this before and our feelings are strong for each other-but he said age maybe problem-ok in england but not poland-i am upset by this -does this mean he never wants to be seen in poland with me-he said maybe problem with his family-but i said we would meet in a hotel away from his village-i said was my age a problem for him he said maybe-i said i thought we were ok with age difference-i told him maybe we should stop seeing each other if he had a problem with my age-he said no way was i crazy-he didnt want to look for anyone else either in poland or england-i am confused i love him very much but if my age is such a problem for him i am not sure what to expect. advice please
angel   
24 Feb 2008
Love / My polish boyfriend and i love one another -- dilema, advice please. [16]

Best make sure to take some cooking lessons from his mum as well, perogi, barsch, Golabki etc..

Nothing like the tase of home!

i will do anything to make him happy lol

hi just want you all to know-my polish guy has spoken to me said thank-you to me for understanding why my age maybe a problem for his family in poland that he loves me and wants to be with me in england and that my age is not a problem for him and he will be here soon and he thinks i am fantastic-i love him so much
angel   
23 Feb 2008
Love / My polish boyfriend and i love one another -- dilema, advice please. [16]

i think i will telll him that one of us has to make a decision to be with the other if he ,for whatever reason is not able to come here by the end of march then i will go to him-i think this is the only decsion otherwise the relationship will not survive. i will post a translation
angel   
23 Feb 2008
Love / My polish boyfriend and i love one another -- dilema, advice please. [16]

In my opinion making a major location change for someone you haven't lived with for a while is a recipe for disaster. Can it work? Sure...but people are people and most are not that flexible.

i agree with what you say and i think it will be better for both of us if he come here with the job-so a sense of perspective can be maintained. the question is do i go over there and see him and talk face to faceif a job offer isnt fourth coming- the feelings for thiis man are special and i am not goingto give up without a "fight"

i do think his familyare holding him back-he is so happy when he is here
angel   
23 Feb 2008
Love / My polish boyfriend and i love one another -- dilema, advice please. [16]

i hope some of you can give me advice on a decision dilema.

my polish boyfriend and i love one another. we have known each other for 1 year. for the last 6 month due to his work we have not been able to be with each other-but have kept in touch by telephone and text. we miss each other very much. it has not been easy accepting beening away from each other but the thought of him coming here "soon" has kept us going. we say sweet romantic things to each other remember how good things are from our memories and look forward to the day when we are together again. it has not been plain sailing and i have sometimes cries with frustration at not seeing him-i miss everything about him and i miss the lack of intimacy-i am not a sex obessed woman but i have a healty apetite. we sometimes talk about this side of things and know we will make up for loss time when we see each other.

however i am beginning to find that the situation is becoming intolerable and i miss him more and more. for the last two months he has been waiting for a call for work and he has said if they dont call soon he may come over here independently to be with me.

The problem is that when i ask how long he is going to wait and what time span does he refer to when he says soon-he cant seem to tell me. i have become upset and have suggested on some occasions that maybe we should call it a day because we cant be together-he insists that he wants us to continue and so do i so for a few days i am hopeful again-but then i am back to the longing. i keep myself busy and he is helping his freind build a house-but nothing takes away the longing to be with him.

he lives at home with his parents and is a private person and his family in poland are not to happy with him working in england-so it is easier for them to accept a job offer in england than his own decision to come to england.

he wants to be able to come and go between england and poland when he wishes and this will be possible. i have told him i understand and i have been patient-but i now find i am suffering and my needs are being neglected.

the question is how much longer do i wait? the relationship is stagnating-i love him dearly and i want this to continue and from what he says he wants the same. but nothing is happening. i have expressed all these concerns to him and sometimes he goes quiet for a few day and then its ok.

i know something needs to change.

i dont want to put too much pressure on him put i dont want him to think that waiting indefinitely is ok.

i was thinking of suggesting to him that we will give it one more month till the end of march and if he has no job offer for here one of two things happen

1. he comes here
2. i go there
please any advice? thank-you
angel   
22 Feb 2008
Life / Why is Poland so slow; it takes a lot of time to arrange anything here [53]

i think in poland maybe tomorrow never comes. its like the word soon-niedlugo. now soon to me in england means within a few weeks maybe a month or two. but in poland i think niedlugo means -it will happen eventually-no particular time limit -but eventually-so you wait and wait-so frustrating
angel   
16 Feb 2008
Love / Why Polish girls are awesome? [141]

i have big boobs i am half polish i speak polish and english. i am hard working i have a sexy accent.i care about my man . i am faithful i have blue eyes and dark hair i am a mixture if what every man wants -a bit of polish and a bit of english; i have been told i am sexy-so i have it all
angel   
14 Feb 2008
Love / Polish boyfriends [77]

i am trying to establish a friendship with my x-he left me!! said he didnt love me anymore-it hurt-but i have come to terms with it-he has an involved relationship with someone else-says he loves her more than he ever loved me-we have kids together-i have have a few short term relationships since the split- now i have found someone i could give the world to-but not getting too involved yet-anyway -he-the x cant seem to be friends-i can be
angel   
3 Feb 2008
Love / Polish attitudes to pregnacy outside marriage [7]

my Polish friends 18 year old sister is pregnant -she has a boyfriend-she lives at home with parents and many brothers and sisters.

i thought it would be a bad situation but my friend said it was no problem for her parents and everyone was happy-that 18 was an ok age for pregnancy.

i find this difficult to understand as i thought catholic values were important and also-this girl hopes to go to university maybe in England
angel   
3 Feb 2008
Life / What do Polish people usually do on Sunday? [40]

Thread attached on merging:
what is sunday like for the typical polish family

when i was little sundays were family days-lunch- visiting relatives-no work-going to church.

its different now here in england-with shops open-shift work etc

i am curious to know what sundays are like for families in poland-is it still tradional for most-are shops open?