indianinpoland35
24 Jun 2019 #1
Dzień Dobry people! How is it going?
As the title suggests. My family and I are planning to move to Poland (Kraków) in the next couple of months and I had a few questions/concerns, Before the concerns, let me give you a little bit of background and context for y'all to get an idea about where the concerns are coming from.
Using a throwaway since my other account is active and don't want people prying into personal stuff.
So, yes. On to the background. I am in my mid 30s and have a wife and a kid. We have spent all our lives in India and by all standards are doing fairly well. I am currently in a comfortable job and my family and I lead a very comfortable (almost luxurious) life in India. I had no intentions of moving out of India ever and was very happy working for another 5-10 years before retiring comfortably and travel the world!
A few months ago I was reached out by a head hunter for a company based out of Poland. I was not very keen to move but started talking to them because they are working in an industry that is extremely interesting. The role seemed challenging and exciting as well! As I started talking with the company I was amazed by the passion everyone showed and how nice everyone was. Long story short, I was sold on the role because I thought it would be very fulfilling to solve that problem and that I had maybe some more time in my career to take a relatively riskier move.
I visited Poland for around 10 days and wow! What an awesome experience that was. The food was awesome, people were super friendly and the place was so beautiful. Granted, I visited during maybe the best time to visit Poland (Summer!) but nevertheless I was head over heals. And this is in nor just in comparison to India in general (everything looks better when looked at from that lens!) but comparison to other western/touristy countries as well!
I was getting more and more sure about the move and finally decided to go ahead when I got the offer, which was very generous and helped tilt the scales in Poland's favour.
The move the Poland seemed to make a lot of sense professionally and financially. The only grey area was family life and that is where I would need some help to clear my mind.
To learn more about living in Poland I did what everyone else does and started doing my research by visiting subreddits, watching Youtube videos and general reading up. And TBH was really surprised by the number of people who are very proud about the homogeneous populace of Poland and were against immigrants in general. I also sense a lot of hostility towards Indians in particular. This was slightly scary since it could mean that my child and wife could potentially be victims of a hate crime or general hostility? I personally am not worried about it that much but putting my family's life and well-being at risk is obviously pretty disconcerting.
Which brings me to the questions;
1.) Are people really as racist and against immigrants as much as what they seem online?
2.) Most of the perspective of expats online is through the eyes of a White person who have an inherent privilege and will be treated differently than a brown person. Is it going to be similar for a brown person as well?
3.) How do you think the experience of my child will be in school? Our child will go to an international school and I assume that they will be mostly sheltered within the school.
4.) How are minorities treated in general in local government offices and such?
5.) There seems to be some political instability within EU and also with Poland's neighbours. What's the general outlook over the next couple of years? How will it impact Poland?
I am sorry if the questions seem too generic or broad. I have gone through other similar threads and haven't got all questions answered. Am really looking forward to the move and hope these niggling concerns are cleared before that!
Hope you all have a great day and week ahead!
As the title suggests. My family and I are planning to move to Poland (Kraków) in the next couple of months and I had a few questions/concerns, Before the concerns, let me give you a little bit of background and context for y'all to get an idea about where the concerns are coming from.
Using a throwaway since my other account is active and don't want people prying into personal stuff.
So, yes. On to the background. I am in my mid 30s and have a wife and a kid. We have spent all our lives in India and by all standards are doing fairly well. I am currently in a comfortable job and my family and I lead a very comfortable (almost luxurious) life in India. I had no intentions of moving out of India ever and was very happy working for another 5-10 years before retiring comfortably and travel the world!
A few months ago I was reached out by a head hunter for a company based out of Poland. I was not very keen to move but started talking to them because they are working in an industry that is extremely interesting. The role seemed challenging and exciting as well! As I started talking with the company I was amazed by the passion everyone showed and how nice everyone was. Long story short, I was sold on the role because I thought it would be very fulfilling to solve that problem and that I had maybe some more time in my career to take a relatively riskier move.
I visited Poland for around 10 days and wow! What an awesome experience that was. The food was awesome, people were super friendly and the place was so beautiful. Granted, I visited during maybe the best time to visit Poland (Summer!) but nevertheless I was head over heals. And this is in nor just in comparison to India in general (everything looks better when looked at from that lens!) but comparison to other western/touristy countries as well!
I was getting more and more sure about the move and finally decided to go ahead when I got the offer, which was very generous and helped tilt the scales in Poland's favour.
The move the Poland seemed to make a lot of sense professionally and financially. The only grey area was family life and that is where I would need some help to clear my mind.
To learn more about living in Poland I did what everyone else does and started doing my research by visiting subreddits, watching Youtube videos and general reading up. And TBH was really surprised by the number of people who are very proud about the homogeneous populace of Poland and were against immigrants in general. I also sense a lot of hostility towards Indians in particular. This was slightly scary since it could mean that my child and wife could potentially be victims of a hate crime or general hostility? I personally am not worried about it that much but putting my family's life and well-being at risk is obviously pretty disconcerting.
Which brings me to the questions;
1.) Are people really as racist and against immigrants as much as what they seem online?
2.) Most of the perspective of expats online is through the eyes of a White person who have an inherent privilege and will be treated differently than a brown person. Is it going to be similar for a brown person as well?
3.) How do you think the experience of my child will be in school? Our child will go to an international school and I assume that they will be mostly sheltered within the school.
4.) How are minorities treated in general in local government offices and such?
5.) There seems to be some political instability within EU and also with Poland's neighbours. What's the general outlook over the next couple of years? How will it impact Poland?
I am sorry if the questions seem too generic or broad. I have gone through other similar threads and haven't got all questions answered. Am really looking forward to the move and hope these niggling concerns are cleared before that!
Hope you all have a great day and week ahead!