incel
Involuntary celibate. Yeah, that's definition of any straight man still married to the same woman after a year.
And how about an old gated suburban foreign homosexual like yourself?
With 15K+ posts (WOW!) to your name (and as pointed out by others with many of them made during marathon sessions which would exclude any possibility of you having social contact with anyone in real life) it's pretty obvious that you are projecting.
So what does your homosexual community call hermits like yourself? I believe "gaycel" would fit the bill.