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Sorry,, you made a mistake by supposing I was talking about appearance. No, I meant character, of course. Appearance is bound to change, it is normal. Character should remain the same coz that`s what attracts you to another person with whom you plan to spend the rest of your life.
I don`t know how I would react if my wife took up freak fighting. :):):
it's best to look at your mother-in-law (in the case of a wife) or father-in-law (in the case of a husband) because this is what they will look like in 30 years.
Yes, in many cases it works. Not in all - my wife differs from her mother. :):):