@pawian, thanks for digging up this thread, I remembered that johnny_reb wrote it, but I didn't remember in which thread exactly:
I was more then ready to get back to my 'high earning' job before I had a nervous break down.
Much less physical work,much less stress
And here's the truth why in reality men want women to stay at home with kids and why fathers
don't want to do it or share duties at home lol