If you didn't say it, would anyone walking down the street know that you are gay?
I dont like to show off my personal sexual preferences. Besides i left gay scene two years ago. It is so much permeated with drug abuse, you know kinda mephedrone, alphaPVP etc. I find it is dangerous though i am not too addictive.
After all i am married and have kids, so have a bit different life accents.