___limak____readreverse 8 Mar 2021 #1HiI am looking for advice. I was born in poland and spent my childhood there. When I was 8 we moved abroad. At some point of my life I met a girl and fell for her at first sight because she was shy like me, and I also have to add that she was extremely good looking. She also looked at me. Then one my friends found out that she was muslim, and I was shocked to find that out because she doesn't look muslim (she wears western clothes, sometimes wears dresses in summer, no headscarf, she's white) but she is quite conservative, she doesn't drink and doesn't go clubbing. My friends warned me about her because of our cultural differences and talked bad about her. This didn't stop me, we got together but I still think about their words. She said she'll never accept getting married in a church and doesn't want to baptise our kids. She also said she didn't want a christian boyfriend but that's what happened and we have to accept each other the way we are, with flaws and everything. My friends keep saying she'll never be like a polish girlfriend and that's right, she doesn't speak polish yet we loved each other and understood each other better than our fellow countrymen/women. She still doesn't get on with my friends cause she thinks they're all nationalists since she overheard them talking about her muslim heritage (she's white though) and that she is trouble for me. To be honest I don't give a damn about that, I just love her and that's it. But my family, friends, my people don't like muslims. What should I do? The love she gives to me no other girl has ever given me this kind of selfless, real love. She doesn't want much physical contact before marriage so sometimes it's hard for me yet I still wait for her because I love her. She said I was a serious guy and was happy to have found me.When we are alone everything's fine and we're alright, when my friends start to talk about her they ruin the idea of love that I have. Why can't I be strong enouughto let go of their words? Do you guys have any advice for me or can you share some similar experiences so that I can compare ourselves to other cases?