And the mistress doesn't even have to be his type, as long as she's willing.
Temptations will always be there. If you deny your temptations, you are untruthful with yourself. The point is to find a way to successfully defeat that. The first step is not to pretend they don't exist.
What's the point of getting married if men are so easy and weak?
All people are weak and nobody said marriage is easy. If I didn't find someone I'd love, I'd be much better off single. Marriage is not for everybody. It's sometimes better not to get into arguments because you may not always win.
I would dump you.
Marriage would not survive if such trivial things would make one of the partners to want to dump you. There are many trials in marriage and it becomes stronger if we win.
how old you two were when you got married?
Both 24.
It happened when I didn't know much about relationship between a man and a woman. I post it for people who may consider cheating that they can be strong enough not to do it and it's not worth trying.