In general, females love a man with a great sense of humor. And someone who is confident. Maybe the men that hold their attention are funny and full of confidence.
Many girls like guys that have guts and self confidence. If a guy can walk up to a girl to talk to her for the first time it shows that he has both. There might have been some much better looking guys in the club but lacked the guts and self confidence to go talk to those girls.
Therefore the girls could have chosen the average looking guys that had more guts and self confidence than the good looking ones that didn't.
Usually this so-called "confidence" of ugly guys is one of these:
1. they know they are too ugly for that girl, but nevertheless they give it a try (hoping she won't be too aware of her own attractiveness and their relative ugliness) because they know that many attractive girls can be manipulated into bedding a guy way below their standards.
2. mistakenly thinking that they in fact look better than other guys. this means they are unable to have a critical look at themselves.
Yes there are guys who aren't confident enough to approach, but a smart girl shouldn't be too impressed by confidence.
It makes guys only slighty more attractive, but a confident toad will still be a toad. Which means: having sex shouldn't be an option.
So i exptected this girl to give him signals that chatting was all he could ever get from her, but when the girl went to the toilet i saw this guy looking to his friends like he was doing well on the way to getting into her pants so i don't think the former happened.
She should have done that because it's bad for a stunning girl's image to be seen talking in a club with a very mediocre looking guy. Like she feels she can't get better.
A very very very dear friend of mine in Poland has a ponytail and whilst he's no Brad Pitt, he's one of the most inteligent and interesting guys Ive ever had the pleasure to meet and sh*g so maybe you are missing the point...maybe a lot of hot Polish girls find personality important...so good for them and the more I read of your post..Im thinking you are going to die a very unhappy virgin!!
So you're not in love with him and he is physically not attractive to you, yet you sh*gged him just because he is nice and intelligent?
Probably you couldn't get better looking guy.
I have a few female friends who are very nice, yet i am not interested in sh*gging them because physically they don't attract me enough.