Polish girls attitudes towards sex.

answered by the fact you don't go to bars, you seem to spend all your time at exhibitions, bookshops, concerts and riding bikes on the...... whatever it was :) sorry i could not remember. I mean where is the cinema, pubs, clubs, ice skating rinks etc etc where the less educated or lower classes like me hang out, hahahahaha. What i'm trying to say is that you move in different circles, i'm not trying to be offensive but honest.

your not on a different universe because of what you've been reading, its simple enougth to know that you lead a totally different lifestyle for me, i mean you've been married to millionaires for crying out loud, lol, i'll be lucky to ever earn £500,000 in my life let alone multi millions and buy fast cars and 35 bed houses that cost £3 Million to buy!!

I was at a private college just two weeks ago playing cricket, all the girls there had money coming out of their ears, dolled up to the max all the time, tanned up like they live abroad and coming across for a chat and some fun with the 'common people' just before daddy dropped of the new horse. I spoke to one girl whose grandad owned an island somewhere in the world!!!! she even told me that the way i talked was funny and cute!!! i doubt she had ever left the house or experienced normal life. That is what i mean by different circles/classes, this girl 17, goes around the world cheerleading for a rugby team and spends her daddy's money while i have to be satisfied with a jaunt to Latvia and a bit of cricket here and there between work :):):) have i made my point yet :) lol


these are clearly threads that are jokes or created by those with a bit of humour, do you think they are asking seriously?? lol


to be honest i think its ok for a person to try and find out what a Polish girl expects if he is going to date one, maybe he would like to move things on quickly but at least he has the thought of mind to try and find out about the 'Polish way' if you want to put it that way, would you rather him not ask and potentially upset the woman/girl??


So its English men is it?? well i'm and English man and i can tell you i have no sort of complex and for your information i'm sure there are Polish girls (like all other nations) that have the promiscuity gene :)


An upper-class Polka then??

Listen i'm not saying that i disagree with you, infact i think some of the threads are very disrespectul towards women in general let alone Polish ones. Some people just don't know where the line is or when to ask a certain question and in what way to ask that question.

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Nickie;"the reason that women cheat is because some man did something first."

You talk as if you're still in grammar school.

Nickie:"Prickiewicz makes me proud to be a bit of a feminist"

Why" ...because he stated the truth? Feminists fear real equality; that's why they pick-and-choose' what they want. Grow up!

Amaranta;"Paying for a woman's tea in a restaurant is a tiny symbol..."

If it's so tiny than women can pick up that tab. Of course the average 'date' in the states runs much higher than your example if you include dinner, movies, theater, etc. Buying a woman's time (on a date) means that women are afraid of real equality.

Amaranta;"having children in Poland leaves a woman at a man's mercy."

Yea, you forgot to include the fact that during a divorce even if the man is a better parent the woman gets the kids; that leaves a man at a woman's mercy. As a woman you conveniently leave out 'fuller facts'.

Amaranta: "[i]I wonder how come I have three university diplomas if I am so illogical that I don't understand any implications of a man paying for a woman's drink in a restaurant."

That's because you are overeducated in the "politically correct" sense. Highly degreed people are some of the most illogical people I know. They might be smart but have little common sense.

Prickiewicz: "Women are paid for on dates..."

So are prostitutes. The prostitute is direct and the 'date' is not. If some women are offended by this comparison then they should pay for their share of the date. Take it like a man! ...and perhaps you'll stop carping....and really begin to understand real equality.

Prickiewicz:"Women are too illogical to understand the implications of this."

...and some admit to it. To them equality means women keep all their feminine privileges (and ladies you know what they are) while demanding equality in those things they want.

For example, women have demanded the 'all boys clubs' integrate them and laws have been passed to this effect. Somehow, all women only clubs (like Curves among many others) don't allow men. To feeble thinking feminists, this is considered equality.

Good job Zimmy.
No "pr*ck shall pay for my dinner and then expect a payback.

Girls, please rate sex out of 10. Let's keep this on topic.

Polish girls and their opinion on sex.

My opinion: Overrated.
I don't know if it counts. I am not a girl any more.

yes Sir!

Sex with someone you love: 10.5 (important, very important).

I guess it depends how warmed up and ready you are. I get the impression that many here can take it or leave it.

10.5 :) Wow, you must have some secrets to share, Nika ;)

secrets must stay secret - bez spóły ;)


looks down on them????!!!!! Maybe in your imagination.
If you think that this is why PL girls go out with Arabs/Pakistani/Indian guys than it means that you know absolutely nothing about social relations my dear southern.

Then why is it like that?What is the reason?
For example this summer I met a polish girl who went to work on Rhodes island and there I suspect she had a relationship with an Arab from Syria who worked in a hotel nearby.The question is since Rhodes island is packed with greek and international lovers,where on hell did this girl find the anonymous Arab?

The same in Katerini.I saw a group of polish girls taking from the hand a humble paki selling toys in the street,a person you would not even notice when you passed by.And place is packed with uber-hot greek and serbian guys of the best appearance type.How to explain this negative discrimination?It is beyond my reason.

I wouldn't mind knowing as well ?

one of many reasons is that these guys don't say such stupid things like "The sense that western world and eastern world looks down on them".

Unlike many western people, they don't have the complex of superiority you see, they don't look down on us but see us as equal.

As I said, this is just one of MANY reasons sourthern but you will never understand it as you are not a part of this particular milieu.

We say the same thing.


What are these many reasons?I find the whole situation unreasonable.Why russian girls do not do the same,etc?

who's we?

I write polish girls have the sense that westerners and polish look down on them,that is maybe why they go for third wordlers,you write ''these guys(the third wordlers) see us as equal''.So basically we say the same.

Whatever I feel about women,is later confirmed.I recently read some czech girls confessions which confirmed what I already thought about the whole mentality.It is not so not obvious.

But stiil you want to grab your hair and pull them out when you see certain things.

Because it is the reverse thinking.How can this sper hot guy not have a gf or a wife?Sth is wrong with him or he is a cheater.And how to dismantle the wrong thought,it is a mental game.

i would, give me a nice genuine bloke anyday, i mean who wants some stuck up punk who thinks he can make up for the lack of personality with whatever goods he's got. and they're usually not very good looking either lol. if somebody asks me out on a date then yeah i'll let them pay for me, that is the unspoken rule and hush all you stingey men out there! i'm happy to buy a round of drinks myself i don't mind. I'll cook dinner on the second date or something. if the date turns out to be a disaster and i don't like the guy cos he's being ignorant/arrogant/trying to get me into bed (pick one) i will DEFINITELY let him pay just because he wasted my time! and my time is precious lol.

as for the 'good guys who always finish last', they need to work on a way to make a woman stay. niceness aside, you need some creativity and passion, i don't like their passive, laid back ways. yaaaawn.

As for what Amaranta is saying, i pretty much agree totally, although i do like to go to bars and clubs lol so i suppose i'm no upper class (although many claim i'm high maintenance ha ha). Thing is, like she said, relying on a guy financially and basically expecting of him to pay for virtually everything is a completely different situation to paying for a meal and drinks out, especially if the guy is the one who invites the girl to come. He's basically buying her time and he should be glad that she is prepared to go out and see him, go through all the effort such as getting her hair done, possibly buying a new outfit and make-up, which all cost money. So you can say it's a bit of an investment on both sides. And when it comes to sex, a girl should not feel pressured just because the guy paid and she feels she owes him. If they both want it then fair enough, but lines such as 'i didn't pay all this money for nothing' are really a cheap shot and a guy should consider all his chances lost after saying something like that. And just to be fair, a guy shouldn't feel pressured to pay for a girl just to get her attention and eventually to get sex. He should pay if he asks her out but just because he wants to have a good time in her company whether it involves sex or not.


ha ha true true, i think southern is just a peeping tom and a voyeurist, that's how he knows all this stuff.

Voyeurist I am like most girls who are incredible voyeurs.They ask for it in the most unsuspected places.But truth is what I saw in movies,I have also done myself almost everything to my surprise as well that girls comply to such things.

Well, if tradesmen charge top dollar for mere inspections and their time, why can't women? :0

This is a question for those women away from home. Do you feel more inclined to have sex due to a feeling of liberation? Being away from home brings different chances and changes ones behaviour.

But I love pubs and clubs.
I simply never have the time. Or when I finally find the time all my friends are working and I don't feel like going there by myself...

why shouldn't I like pubs?

what, any girls you meet, even for the first time? really this is hard to believe, and you bragging about it is very low. a gentleman never tells.

You should..... most Polish girls do, the good looking ones anyways:)

Polish girls want to LIVE.This is the problem.In my country when a girl does not work,she stays home,in many cases has no bf and tries to study,get some degrees in order to do sth better.Polish want everything here and now,the jobs,the good life etc but it does not come like that.

Russian women find the easy way of ass-bars,striptease etc till they find there sb more important who they get as bf or husband to get a better job or status only to find a better man after some time.It is an upscale process for many.But polish usually do not do that,they do not compromise.

what did i say about girls spending money on new clothes and hairdressers to go for a date? i probably wouldn't charge for a mere inspection if the guy was nice enough though ha ha....


i felt more liberated after splitting up from my deadbeat ex than after leaving Poland to be honest ha ha

sledz

They get attention there :) Sometimes unwanted attention by drunkards, but yet it's attention. I can imagine though that sometimes girls get annoyed when the so-manieth drunken d*ckhead comes on to them, says the same old lines and thinks he's funny and overly trying to act according to David D'Angelo's book of tricks to get EVERY girl (LOL). Like a girl is a machine or an animal which responds in a predictive way when certain buttons are pushed. I know girls who every now and then go to gay bars, simply because they are getting fed up with this and want to spend an evening without getting kinda harrassed by drunken guys coming on to them. What about the lesbian females in those bars? Apparently they are not so pushy, but this seems to be a main trait of homosexual ppl. I have joined some gay friends of mine occasionally to a gay bar, simply because they always went with me to straight clubs and I thought that since they were my friend, it would only be fair that I should join them to clubs that they like. I wasn't harrassed and the men that started talking to me left me in peace after I made them clear that I am not gay, but only joining my friends. I always had great fun there and especially the cross-dressing show I once saw there was hilarious. From the 4 or 5 times I went there, I even managed to take a girl home with me afterwards :))))


Southern! I never thought I'd see the day that I actually would agree to what you write. But I have to admit I do. Don't know about the Greek girls, but indeed Polish girls want to live. And indeed they want everything all at once. And, according to Western tastes, they are a bit over the top, a bit too much sometimes. You can always pick out the girls from Poland when you're in a club and looking at the girls that are dancing: the ones who dance very wild, with loads of gestures and movement everywhere are usually the Polish ones. I guess wanting all at once is part of a mental growing process Poles yet have to go through. It will take time, but they will get there. Now, if they only would get a better taste in clothing and men :) My ex once bought a truly hideous, nearly fluorescent GREEN fake fur coat. It hurt my eyes and ghee, it was so terrible ugly. She was so proud of it and when she asked me what I thought about it, I tactically said: "whatever you like, I like" :)

M-G (coffee)

Many girls are exhibionists.We know that.Of course not for first time but they like public places one way or another.(not all of them again).


I don't brag.It is embarassing to have the other saying to you ''there are so many people here,I feel horny,I want it here in front of all''.But again who said girls are rational?


This is a common accusation,that I am not gentleman.What does this actually mean?
I don't want you,you are not a gentleman.

no southern we definitely don't speak the same language. I don't categorize people as being 1st, 2nd or 3rd worlders first of all.

Second of all I don't ever have the sense that westerners (certainly the first world class in your opinion) and PL (????!!!!) look down on me and I am a PL girl (certainly somewhere between 2nd and 3rd class in your classification).

Again, an Arab/Indian/Paskistani guys don't make such stupid statements so if I had to I'd choose someone who thinks in the good/bad people categories and not the one that thinks in 1st/2nd/3rd worlders categories.

As I said before, you are not a part of our milieu therefore it is perfectly normal that you do not understand some of our behaviours.

I cannot imagine anyone saying ''how can you be interested in me since I am a third wordler?''


What is your mileu?My impression is that westerners got a bad reputation since many of them refused to marry polish women.The same way Italians gained their reputation as womanizers and not serious in Poland.

I rest in balkan power.

But this bad man-good man disticnction is ridiculous.If you get penetrated by your boss every day,are you good or bad?If you penetrate your boss everyday,are you good or bad?

You go for men who are seemingly good but in reality cannot handle the hardness,that is why they appear to the others as losers.

you just answered it yourself


i have a very good dress sense, always get complimented on my clothes. as for men, working on it ha ha...

I am sure you are, sweetie :)

About the men: like I said some time before, sometimes you see this really gorgeous girl (it's easy to find out if she is Polish by listening to them: every Polish person at one time in conversation says "tak" and Polish females like to talk a lot:) ) and then you see the creature that is supposed to be their boyfriend: some neanderthal-lookalike, hardly able to manage to push some grumblings out of his mouth. Big head, big ears and a stare in their eyes as if he was in some sort of stupor. And I see this here in Dubs more often than I'd like to. So, this would be the next step in Polish (sexual-) evolution: pretty girls, pick better looking men as first of all, the Ladder tells you to and secondly, it just doesn't look right :))

M-G (but sometimes you see really hideous combinations, brrr!)

are you being sarcastic? lol


yeah i notice in town Polish girls don't dress very well during the day, and for a night out they almost look like prostitutes! what's that all about

Me, sarcastic? I wouldn't dare being sarcastic with you :))

M-G (ahem)