clearly 1 | 1 3 Aug 2012 #1hello dear friendsim ahmedits my first time herewish you can helpim in a relationship with polish girlshe is best girl i have known in my lifepretty honest innocent beautifuli knew her since about 1 yearsometimes we have problems but we pass itsince few time we decided to meet in egypt in septemberand i planned for that and she too and all was okim working now in saudia now and some changes happened in my workand i couldnt go in this timeand i told her in march we can and it will be perfectand i got shocked from her replyshe said i will goits hurts me too much felt no appreciation and respecthow come and you was coming for me now you go without meshe think im controlling here and want her to be my slavemaybe she some bad backgroundbut i never treated her like this i treat her always as a queen a princessand want marry her and live with her the rest of my lifethe problem i never accept she go alonenot because like she saidbut because i will be sooo worry about her , i must be with her protect her and support guide herintroduce her to my familyshe is much stubborn and not listen to meand its hurt me alwaysnow im asking where is appreciation and respectwhy not listen to me ?is is normal about polish girl ?at last i told her its your choice now if you go i will never come to meet you and dont want meet you everand we dont talk to each other nowi swear i did everything for her till i get have nothing else to doso maybe anyone can help me ? any suggestionsshe first polish girl i know , maybe there is something i dont seethanks guy
phtoa 9 | 236 3 Aug 2012 #2It just sounds like a typical Polish girl to me.It's impossible for them somehow to make up there mind, and really there is nothing you can do about it.Only thing that actually might just help you is to ignore her for awhile, and then she might come running back to you (that's my experience)Best of luck buddy, you sound like guy with good intentions.
grubas 12 | 1,384 3 Aug 2012 #3@clearlyYou are a muslim nut dude.Leave her alone and find yourself some muslim chick.Women in this country (Poland) go out alone or with girlfriends and I totally understand her that she doesn't want to haul you everywhere she goes.You may think you are caring and supportive but to us Polish you are a controlling freak.
OP clearly 1 | 1 3 Aug 2012 #4thank you dear friend phtoa , i will try thati really have pure intentions for her pure lovethanks grubas ,first i dont care about religion and she religious girl and i love her for thatand i dont like this way of talkingyou muslim you christianif love is there everything will be easyshe can marry polish christian man but not happy with himand me can marry muslim chick like you say but not happy with herlove is number one in relationships anddo you think its easy to leave her?egypt is not safe if she go alone , im not controlling heranyway thanks
Eva Aeri - | 14 3 Aug 2012 #5Go everywhere with her? It 's very much against out tradition, you will make her very very unhappy. We don't like being controlled, we don't like taking orders cos we're far too independent for that and if you look into our history, you will see this pattern opression=rebellion.So either really respect her and let her live the way she wants to, or leave her and find someone who does'n have any sens of independence and who will not mind going out with you everywhere they go. Being chaperoned 24/7 is my idea of hell on earth.
DxB12 - | 3 27 Jun 2017 #6Merged: Do you think I can find the one in Poland?Hello,I have been to Poland this year and I spent 2 months doing a cultural exchange voluntary work, I was presenting Dubai and Egypt to the students in the schools, they really liked them and for me, I loved the country and the people they were so kind, helpful and polite. I spent a wonderful time! I am an Egyptian man who lives and works in the United Arab Emirates. The darkest part was when I loved a Polish girl during my stay there we have planned a lot about the future and she will come and work in the Emirates with me and so on. Everything was going fine, but at the end realized that it was one side love and she started to turn colder day by day maybe because of the long distance relationship as we know unless both sides are so loyal, that relation is not going to work out. However, I cared so much for her trying to make her feel I am still there I was so kind and open-minded too. I was sad, Mad and angry when she does that. But now I think I can begin again having the same belief that I will find the one in Poland the one who is going to make my heart warm and she will be honest with me.Thank you
NoToForeigners 9 | 995 27 Jun 2017 #7@DxB12It must have been a TRUE LOVE since you spent the eternal two months in Poland lol. Polish girls like freedom and you, Egiptians are contradiction to that. No Polish girl likes to be humilated, stripped of dignity and forced to serve you. I believe you shouldn't come here again otherwise Polish young boys gonna make your life a hell.
DxB12 - | 3 27 Jun 2017 #8@NoToForeigners you cannot judge a whole country that full of people and communities because of one person in each country you will find the good and the bad, also you judged me so fast and you do not know me! anyway, thank you for your observation :)
NoToForeigners 9 | 995 28 Jun 2017 #9you cannot judgeWhy can't I? For example tolerance towards foreigners is deeply rooted in Polish culture and tradition. We all know that Egyptian tradition and culture is mostly based around the teachings of the False Prophet Peadophile. We can make assumptions from that.
terri 1 | 1,663 28 Jun 2017 #10I believe that no one has the right to tell someone else who they should/ or should not fall in love with, marry and have children with.I believe that no one has the right to tell someone else who they should/ or should not go to bed with.If everyone thought the same, the world would be a better place.Now, if you want to tell me whom I should invite to my bed, and have sex with and children with- then we are living in a totally different universe.
rozumiemnic 8 | 3,854 28 Jun 2017 #11she probably did some reading around Egyptian culture and found out just how many Egyptian women have their genitals mutilated.
Dirk diggler 10 | 4,585 28 Jun 2017 #12Maybe she just didn't want to have a long distance relationshipAlso polish women value their independence much like any other European woman. When you try to confine her or try to like plan her future out it makes her crazy. You were most likely going out a year or two and you were exotic fling to her or a rebound, then you screwed up by falling in love w her talking w her about ur family and all this stuff and u scared her off. At least that's my theory...Also you know very well that in Muslim society if a Muslim man wishes to marry a non Muslim she must convert. I don't know how traditional and religious your family is but to many egyptian families conversion would be a requirement for them to accept the bride and marriage.
DxB12 - | 3 28 Jun 2017 #14@Dirk diggler Just clarifying one point of what you said if a Muslim man wants to marry a non-Muslim woman it's not a must to change it is up to her! as we know it doesn't make any sense if anyone will follow a religion without believing in it.
dolnoslask 5 | 2,920 28 Jun 2017 #15marry a non-Muslim womanNot allowedDo not (you men) marry the mushrikaat (women who commit shirk) until they believe; a believing slave woman is better than a mushrikah even if you like her, and do not (you women) marry the mushrikeen until they believe; a believing slave man is better than a mushrik even if you like him. These invite to the fire while God invites to Paradise and forgiveness, with His permission, and He clarifies His revelations for the people so that they may remember. 2:221
moez 8 Apr 2021 #16hi mate. I m a muslim guy,..I was near to married two times with polish ladies in Uk. I m Tunisian but I spend most of my life in Europe,most in Sweden...I don't know so much about other arabic countries.. but my impression about polish ladies are: they are a bit reserved, polite . The money is very important for them, so if you don't have a stable economy you wouldn't be very attractive for them. They are feminine, hard worker and you can trust them as long as you are stable.. they are a bit more religious, especially if they are catholic( it s jewish, and same protestant too). notice: you can find even virgin ladies in Poland now in 2021.. I had contact with polish people since many many years ago and I even share houses with them( men mates). the polish men are more controlling than many Arabic men, I think .. generally: I prefer to marry a polish educated lady who is not very money lover ..and not marry other ladies from other nationalities from europe..
pawian 224 | 24,479 8 Apr 2021 #17who is not very money loverPolish saying: Part one - money doesn`t bring luck. Part two- without money bad luck is more probable.
Novichok 4 | 8,091 9 Apr 2021 #18I prefer to marry a polish educated lady who is not very money loverPlease, don't. Polish ladies no good. Trust me. I married one and been stuck with for like 50 years. She nags me what I want to eat three times a day and to shower at least twice a week.