Egyptian guy with Polish girl - is it normal?

hello dear friends

im ahmed
its my first time here

wish you can help

im in a relationship with polish girl
she is best girl i have known in my life
pretty honest innocent beautiful

i knew her since about 1 year
sometimes we have problems but we pass it
since few time we decided to meet in egypt in september
and i planned for that and she too and all was ok
im working now in saudia now and some changes happened in my work
and i couldnt go in this time
and i told her in march we can and it will be perfect
and i got shocked from her reply
she said i will go
its hurts me too much felt no appreciation and respect
how come and you was coming for me now you go without me

she think im controlling here and want her to be my slave
maybe she some bad background
but i never treated her like this i treat her always as a queen a princess
and want marry her and live with her the rest of my life

the problem i never accept she go alone
not because like she said
but because i will be sooo worry about her , i must be with her protect her and support guide her
introduce her to my family

she is much stubborn and not listen to me
and its hurt me always
now im asking where is appreciation and respect
why not listen to me ?

is is normal about polish girl ?

at last i told her its your choice now if you go i will never come to meet you and dont want meet you ever

and we dont talk to each other now

i swear i did everything for her till i get have nothing else to do

so maybe anyone can help me ? any suggestions

she first polish girl i know , maybe there is something i dont see

thanks guy

It just sounds like a typical Polish girl to me.
It's impossible for them somehow to make up there mind, and really there is nothing you can do about it.

Only thing that actually might just help you is to ignore her for awhile, and then she might come running back to you (that's my experience)

Best of luck buddy, you sound like guy with good intentions.

@clearly

You are a muslim nut dude.Leave her alone and find yourself some muslim chick.Women in this country (Poland) go out alone or with girlfriends and I totally understand her that she doesn't want to haul you everywhere she goes.You may think you are caring and supportive but to us Polish you are a controlling freak.

thank you dear friend phtoa , i will try that

i really have pure intentions for her pure love

thanks grubas ,
first i dont care about religion and she religious girl and i love her for that
and i dont like this way of talking
you muslim you christian
if love is there everything will be easy
she can marry polish christian man but not happy with him
and me can marry muslim chick like you say but not happy with her
love is number one in relationships and
do you think its easy to leave her?
egypt is not safe if she go alone , im not controlling her

anyway thanks

Go everywhere with her? It 's very much against out tradition, you will make her very very unhappy. We don't like being controlled, we don't like taking orders cos we're far too independent for that and if you look into our history, you will see this pattern opression=rebellion

.So either really respect her and let her live the way she wants to, or leave her and find someone who does'n have any sens of independence and who will not mind going out with you everywhere they go. Being chaperoned 24/7 is my idea of hell on earth.

Merged:

Do you think I can find the one in Poland?

Hello,

I have been to Poland this year and I spent 2 months doing a cultural exchange voluntary work, I was presenting Dubai and Egypt to the students in the schools, they really liked them and for me, I loved the country and the people they were so kind, helpful and polite. I spent a wonderful time! I am an Egyptian man who lives and works in the United Arab Emirates. The darkest part was when I loved a Polish girl during my stay there we have planned a lot about the future and she will come and work in the Emirates with me and so on. Everything was going fine, but at the end realized that it was one side love and she started to turn colder day by day maybe because of the long distance relationship as we know unless both sides are so loyal, that relation is not going to work out. However, I cared so much for her trying to make her feel I am still there I was so kind and open-minded too. I was sad, Mad and angry when she does that. But now I think I can begin again having the same belief that I will find the one in Poland the one who is going to make my heart warm and she will be honest with me.

Thank you

@DxB12
It must have been a TRUE LOVE since you spent the eternal two months in Poland lol. Polish girls like freedom and you, Egiptians are contradiction to that. No Polish girl likes to be humilated, stripped of dignity and forced to serve you. I believe you shouldn't come here again otherwise Polish young boys gonna make your life a hell.

@NoToForeigners you cannot judge a whole country that full of people and communities because of one person in each country you will find the good and the bad, also you judged me so fast and you do not know me! anyway, thank you for your observation :)

Why can't I? For example tolerance towards foreigners is deeply rooted in Polish culture and tradition. We all know that Egyptian tradition and culture is mostly based around the teachings of the False Prophet Peadophile. We can make assumptions from that.

I believe that no one has the right to tell someone else who they should/ or should not fall in love with, marry and have children with.

I believe that no one has the right to tell someone else who they should/ or should not go to bed with.
If everyone thought the same, the world would be a better place.
Now, if you want to tell me whom I should invite to my bed, and have sex with and children with- then we are living in a totally different universe.

she probably did some reading around Egyptian culture and found out just how many Egyptian women have their genitals mutilated.

Maybe she just didn't want to have a long distance relationship

Also polish women value their independence much like any other European woman. When you try to confine her or try to like plan her future out it makes her crazy. You were most likely going out a year or two and you were exotic fling to her or a rebound, then you screwed up by falling in love w her talking w her about ur family and all this stuff and u scared her off. At least that's my theory...

Also you know very well that in Muslim society if a Muslim man wishes to marry a non Muslim she must convert. I don't know how traditional and religious your family is but to many egyptian families conversion would be a requirement for them to accept the bride and marriage.

Oops didn't realize how old this thread was : /

@Dirk diggler Just clarifying one point of what you said if a Muslim man wants to marry a non-Muslim woman it's not a must to change it is up to her! as we know it doesn't make any sense if anyone will follow a religion without believing in it.

Not allowed

Do not (you men) marry the mushrikaat (women who commit shirk) until they believe; a believing slave woman is better than a mushrikah even if you like her, and do not (you women) marry the mushrikeen until they believe; a believing slave man is better than a mushrik even if you like him. These invite to the fire while God invites to Paradise and forgiveness, with His permission, and He clarifies His revelations for the people so that they may remember. 2:221

hi mate. I m a muslim guy,..I was near to married two times with polish ladies in Uk. I m Tunisian but I spend most of my life in Europe,most in Sweden...I don't know so much about other arabic countries.. but my impression about polish ladies are: they are a bit reserved, polite . The money is very important for them, so if you don't have a stable economy you wouldn't be very attractive for them. They are feminine, hard worker and you can trust them as long as you are stable.. they are a bit more religious, especially if they are catholic( it s jewish, and same protestant too). notice: you can find even virgin ladies in Poland now in 2021.. I had contact with polish people since many many years ago and I even share houses with them( men mates). the polish men are more controlling than many Arabic men, I think .. generally: I prefer to marry a polish educated lady who is not very money lover ..and not marry other ladies from other nationalities from europe..

Polish saying: Part one - money doesn`t bring luck. Part two- without money bad luck is more probable.

Please, don't. Polish ladies no good. Trust me. I married one and been stuck with for like 50 years. She nags me what I want to eat three times a day and to shower at least twice a week.