Blackgirl212
8 Aug 2022 #1
Hello guys, I am a black girl from Nigeria in a relationship with a polish man I met online 4 years ago, we were in long distance relationship until we met last year in another country I was studying.
I searched for a polish forum to know more about polish culture and at the same time get answers to my worries.
We met four years ago and to be sincere he has really been a good and supportive boyfriend so far and his parents got to love me and even supported him when he visited me at the country I was studying but there are some things I want clarification from polish men.
1. What is average dating period for polish men before they propose marriage?
We have been together for 4 years he but doesn't like talking about marriage when I ask him of his intentions he get mad that I don't trust him and I reminded him when we started talking that i told him I always wanted a serious relationship that could lead to marriage.
2. Is cohabiting normal among polish couples?
My boyfriend has always wanted us to cohabit even when I am against it, he said it is normal in Poland that most couple cohabit before getting married.
3. Do polish men don't like posting their girlfriends?
He never posted me for once but I post him all the time because I love him, when I confronted him why he never posted me, he said " everyone knows we together already".
Is this normal or should I be worried?
I do feel he really loves me but he's just too busy and he has helped me alot in the past and even got me my first international passport.
I really do love him and for the fact he is my first ever serious relationship but I wanted to be sure if he's really serious with me because we had an intense argument this morning after I confronted him about my observations and plans for us.
I searched for a polish forum to know more about polish culture and at the same time get answers to my worries.
We met four years ago and to be sincere he has really been a good and supportive boyfriend so far and his parents got to love me and even supported him when he visited me at the country I was studying but there are some things I want clarification from polish men.
1. What is average dating period for polish men before they propose marriage?
We have been together for 4 years he but doesn't like talking about marriage when I ask him of his intentions he get mad that I don't trust him and I reminded him when we started talking that i told him I always wanted a serious relationship that could lead to marriage.
2. Is cohabiting normal among polish couples?
My boyfriend has always wanted us to cohabit even when I am against it, he said it is normal in Poland that most couple cohabit before getting married.
3. Do polish men don't like posting their girlfriends?
He never posted me for once but I post him all the time because I love him, when I confronted him why he never posted me, he said " everyone knows we together already".
Is this normal or should I be worried?
I do feel he really loves me but he's just too busy and he has helped me alot in the past and even got me my first international passport.
I really do love him and for the fact he is my first ever serious relationship but I wanted to be sure if he's really serious with me because we had an intense argument this morning after I confronted him about my observations and plans for us.