@dolno, I'm sorry that your wife has to go through this, send her hugs from me...
is is possible to take a private way and do it using a private hospital in Poland?
My father went to a private visit to a doctor and he told him he can have a surgery in his private clinic on NFZ. Generally, my impression is that if you go to a private visit everything goes faster and the surgeon is more interested in you later on at the hospital... My father at that private clinic had great care, he was alone in his room, there was bathroom
in the room, TV and anesthesiologist even brought him tea...