man you people are so ******* racist, you just dont know what this people go threw! and for being such a ******* ******** with them we (or our kids) will live threw the same **** they are for complicating their lifes so much, and in my opinion immigrants drive way safer then we do because they careful not like those ******* ******* you see with those 22's **** you all

I think that a lot of men on here tend to.

I was thinking of the boater women, fresh from the Old Country. These are the gold diggers here.

i don't think this has anything to do with americanization.

just want to add my ten pence worth.......polish women are better than the women here beacuse the polish woman will look after her apperance and over here its just not the case

Other than that, they're never happy.

Why I would be deported ?

well the way I see it, you were illegal in the US and you deserved to be deported.

What makes no sence. That since my deportation after PhD you have to hide in
the US lfrom ordinary police

as i try to be a bit sensitive and relating to the situation

i believe my remarks are certainly more helpful than those i quoted above.

i don't have to be. as i mentioned above i have polish girlfriend and we had similar discussions. guess what... i can understand the importance of the family connection in polish culture and i am certainly not trying to get people away from that. but if you choose to live with a foreigner you have to consider that this might become an issue somehow, right?

my girlfriend certainly doesn't as she is reasonable enough to consider my concerns in her decision where to live...
we discussed it and decided what is best for both of us.

in all this family tradition thing you must not forget that by committing to a relationship your centre and focus of life changes...

if you will have kids in the future they are your blood too, right?

and at the end not being able to live without "your blood" nearby completely restricts you in all decisions.

it doesn't matter where you live as the relation is strong enough to deal with the distance

in this case here i am a little bit irritated HOW some people give "advice"...

It looks like you, Britguyabroad, made up your mind already.

a little bit black and white, isn't it?

her husband is now part of her family

Come on guys and gals, You can't just tell this guy to break up with his wife. Think how that would effect you mentally if someone said that to you.

But when someone tells them to go back to Poland, they don't want to..

Most Americans believe what they see on TV more than they would believe their own parents

How about learning about new, NON-Americanized, culture, way of life, people, news-media, food, even shops?

any idea when it closed marek s?

personally i dont like it when guys say stuff like where can i find this girl or that gurl

that's not a healthy outlook.. that's not winning us any friends.

We can't vote for other people's leaders, but they can affect what happens in our lives, therefore, their actions are worthy of foreigners' criticism.