Law / Lost without my daughter - father rights in Poland [32]

I am the father I am sure and I want to be the father.
Only the mother wants to show her self as being independant.
Living in her rent free appartment in Poland with her elderly mother.
I am blocked via every media sourse Mobile/ house phone/ fb/ watsapp for the last years.
I can only sit on skype and wait. The mother refuses to discuss or communicate to with me over visiting access and is frustrated and angered at any suggestion

that I suggest to see my daughter.
It comes with conditions which I will not write on this forum.
3 months ago I walked my little daughter to school in Poland. My little girl told the teacher in Polish this is my Papa :)
Later the mother screamed at me this is the last time you ever walk your daughter to school!!
I do not want the school knowing she has a father !!!!!!!!!!

Law / Lost without my daughter - father rights in Poland [32]

I have been unofficially supporting my child for 5 years in every way ( financially)

Driving 2400km in weekends to see my child. Sometimes to a closed door.

Sending clothes/ taking furntiture/ new laptop/ new phone/ sewing machines/ other things trying to please the mother to give me contact.
Every time wanting more and more and more.

My name is not even on the birth certifcate because I dont have the money to go to court or fight my case.

My ex has told me if I apply for DNA or go to court she will make sure I never see my child anymore.

She also admitted it was her last chance for a child and saw me as good man to be a father.
She thought having a child would make the love grow for me.

Easy to get pregnant and to run back to Poland.

Law / Lost without my daughter - father rights in Poland [32]

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Over the last years I have made numerous responses for advice.
Regarding my child not being able to see me.

Even though my daughter is asking everyday on skype for Papa to visit her the mother has every right to keep refusing me to visit my daughter.Because due to illness and disability I am unable to work.

I have taken legal advice in Poland like you suggested.
The mother had every right to leave me as soon as she was pregnant and return to poland as she is polish.
Only I have no rights as I am 1400 km away and have a disabilty and I am unable to work.
Polish laws are when a man cannot support his child he has no rights.
what rights does my child have to see her father??
I am 5 years in her life and no suddenly the mother wants more money my child is punished by not being able to see me.

I am sorry to say your justice system has totally no interest in fathers or the childs interest.
My child asked me every day for 5 months for papa to visit her.
The mother is allowed to tell me NO MONEY NO CHILD.
Disgusting totally wrong morals in your justice systems to support mothers and not the childrens interest.

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Hello Readers
Travelled maybe 40 times to poland in the last 4 years to see my child.
Now I am officially written off from working and on benefits the mother will no longer let me visit my child.
I have seen a lawyer in Poland and basically I have been advised that the mother has total rights to do this.
The lawyer adviced I give up my home and live in a room and pay less rent and support my child the best I can.

And carry on with the mother blackmailing tactics as going to court would not win me any justice in polish courts.
Due to the fact in Poland being sick or disabled this is not a reason to not be able to work 40 hours a day.
Infact my lawyer was quite shocked when I said I get sick benefits for not working.
OOoww in poland when you have 2 arms and legs you have to work !!!!!!!!
A child needs money to survive when you cannot give this you are not a father.

In Poland a good fathers must work and pay.

In western Europe a good father is considered the one that does his best for the child and gives love and support.
Now because I do not work my child gets punished AND any small payment I offer I am told to put in my Arrrrrrssseee.

Is it so easy for woman to get pregnant and run back to poland and then cry poverty and the man and child get ripped apart.

If any of you saw how my daughter misses me would you be all be telling me to pay??? or would you be advicing me to find a way to visit me child.

I am curious.

Before you all write and advice me mother needs money to support child.
Her home is rent free. And she has 60.000 acres of land.

Now I understand when she told me she never loved me and it was her last chance to have a child.
And she thought having a child would make the love grow.
I saw you as a good father although I never loved you.

Now even though I have been screwed over.
My child is the one who has to suffer right???

And there is nothing I can do because in Poland as far as I can see and what I have heard.

Money is the all and every thing of being a good father.