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Joined: 20 Jul 2006 / Male ♂
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Speaks Polish?: yes, though Polska język trudna język. ;)

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Matyjasz   
19 Aug 2010
Language / Do Poles prefer US American or UK English language? [147]

For me American English sounds plain, unimaginative and common. Of course this is a clear generalisation as there are some american actors that I take pleasure to listen to, but on the whole there is much more going on for me in the British Eng . There is much more flavour and melody about it. Unfortunately it is harder to understand and mimic.
Matyjasz   
20 Aug 2010
Life / My own thoughts about life in Poland (have lived here for two years) [133]

I've read this forum for quite a while, but I have not bothered to reply to most things. I see it can be quite tribal. What I notice first and foremost is that, many posters here seem to be very sensitive to criticism of Poland. Also, they tend to be Polish ex-pats rather than Polish people living here in Poland.

It all depends how you voice your criticism, and having been here on PF since 2006 I must admit that your post with no derogatory words was a very refreshing one. Usually those criticisms that you mentioned were just venting by frustrates and lets be frank here, that never helps bringing a consensus. Quite the contrary, it sparks more arguments, witch is also very visible in topics about america and GB. Either way, you did make many valid points. We, as a society, are at the same time family oriented and antisocial. The english have a wonderfu word that lacks in polish language that would come in handy here, namely inconsiderate. We are also generally leery of others outside our circle of friends, outside our family, outside our neighbourhood, our village, city, our profession and of course outside our cultural circle.

Yes, the wages are low. This was the main idea to bring foreign investment to the country after the fall of communism. It's been 20 years now though...

Actually there is no point in me repeating your words. I could actually add few points here and there...

Poland is a country in a making. The transformation it took was enormous, but I do understand that some people would wish the pace of changes to be faster but talking here won't fix the problems.
Matyjasz   
27 Aug 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

i always have.. he really is clueless.. even about PL.. he said that Poles from kresy and areas beyond Bug R aren't even polish.. those areas have been polish for only a millenium.. he's a joke.. that's all. lol

No, he said that they probably aren't 100% ethnically polish, which is a huge difference. People from kresy ethnically are a very mixed bunch. Part of my wifes family comes from what is now Belarus. They were pretty much polonized belorussians or lithuanians. No polish blood running thorugh their veins.

As for the consensus, it definately serves a purpose, and that is to find out how many hispanics there are in the US of A, so no wonder the government doesn't give a fak wether you are a PolAm or IrishAm. The days of Ellis Island are long time gone.
Matyjasz   
27 Aug 2010
History / When will you Poles give back German land and the cities which you robbed? [557]

Bismarcks Kulturkampf being solely directed against Poles to opress especially them.
That being a Pole in Prussia had been pure terror...

Whether Kulturkampf was solely directed against Poles or not, or whether living in Prussia was a pure terror for them doesn't really matter. The point is that it did affect them to a degree that when the right time came they stood up and fought for their independence. Surely you don't risk your life if everything is fine and dandy.
Matyjasz   
28 Aug 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

I don't think it's purely a polish phenomenon. Even the term plastic paddy proves it.

In order to be seen as one of us you need to speak the lingo. At least this is the case when it comes to me. Language is the portal to understanding and existing in the culture.

I may be wrong but sometimes it seems as if this "I'm Irish American", and "I'm Italian Am" was a form of snobbery amongst yourselves. You know, everyone wants to be something special and not just yer plain american mutt.

Not you specifically, and not all of you of course. But some americans behave that way.

PS: Don't get me wrong, personally I do feel a kinship with people who pride themselves to be part polish and I do definitely feel happy and proud that there are people who openly admit to their ancestry. Especially that it wasn't always easy for you to disclose this info in public.
Matyjasz   
28 Aug 2010
Life / You are Polish if... [433]

You are Polish if you have the guts to fart while taking a pee!
Matyjasz   
29 Aug 2010
History / When will you Poles give back German land and the cities which you robbed? [557]

We won the war against Poland, against Norway, against Denmark, against Belgium, against Luxembourg, against the Netherlands, against France, against GB (throwing them out of Europe in Dunkirk) first round, against Greece, against Yugoslavia...and so on.

Than why am I not speaking German, BB? Because you lost! :)

We lost against Russia and an alliance of all these losers who knew they only had a chance together against little Germany....;)

PS: Even WWI had the Frenchies and the Brits so desperate that they were crying for the US to come and save their nuts...there is no european power greater than Germany! :)

Of course, and if an oma had a mustache she woud be an opa! :)

It's always the same excusees, excuses...
Matyjasz   
29 Aug 2010
History / When will you Poles give back German land and the cities which you robbed? [557]

Being conquered in 4 weeks, and then after a coalition did ones work declaring oneself a winner....now THAT is pathetic!

Do you know why you have to revert to excuses? Because try as you may you were not the winners of WWII! You haven't won a single war since XIX century. :)
Matyjasz   
29 Aug 2010
History / When will you Poles give back German land and the cities which you robbed? [557]

I never said we were the winners of WWII....we lost...we lost dearly....hammered.
But look how we fighted...it needed a whole coalition of half of the world to bring us down.

A loser will always find an excuse. It's not how you start things that matters but how you end them. And every conflict that you participated in the 20 th century you ended up loosing. So, in regards to your statement that started our little discussion I have only one thing to say:

You kicked nobody's ass for a very long time now!

People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones! :)
Matyjasz   
29 Aug 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

Matyjasz is that you? You're married now? aww. How cute.

Yes, I'm married and have a wonderful little daughter. :) And it's great to see you and Patty around here again. I thought you already gave up on this place.
Matyjasz   
30 Aug 2010
History / When will you Poles give back German land and the cities which you robbed? [557]

The only one started by Poles in 1919 was Wielkopolskie Uprising, after which Poles regained Poznań area still occupied by Germans.....

What about Polish-Bolshevik war?

Nonsense. The reason why Breslau was handed over to Poles was not because it was once a polish city. Germans consituted a majority in that city at least since the 17/18 th century. Wrocław was handed over to us because Stalin wanted to ensure that Poland would not stray away from the SU in the forseable future. It was certain that Germans would not let us have their land and SU was supposed to be the only guarantee for a "free" and "independent" Poland. The same thing with Stettin.

As for Gdańsk, you cannot talk about history of Poland without mentioning Gdańsk. It is a vital part of our history. However, in 1939 it was as polish as Modern Talking. The only reason why Poles wanted it to be part of their reemerged country was for pure practical reasons: Poland while resetablishing it's new boundaries managed to found itself in a war with virtually every neighbour ( apart from Romania) , and it needed a seaport to trade. Eventually Poles had to built their own sea port, Gdynia, from scratch as the inhabitants of Free city Danzig didn't want to have anything to do with Poland.

So to summarize, in politics all you need is an excuse and power and you can do whatever you want. Germans started a war, lost it and had to face consequences. Wrocław is Polish at least since 3 generations and it doesn't seem to change anytime soon.
Matyjasz   
4 Sep 2010
Life / Polish pride. PL stickers, flags and the white eagle! Where does our obsession come from? [79]

Funnily enough, there seems to be little celebration of Walesa's election, the first democratic election in 1991 or even the election which created the Contract Sejm.

There is just too much of it these days. I don't remember so many celebrations being held 10 years ago. Everytime I turn on the TV it's some new commemoration taking place, like the start of WWII, the start of Solidarity, the battle of Warsaw, the battle of Grunwald, the fall of cuminism, etc... I real am tired of all this...

You know, when I was going to school in Poland they 'made us' to carry flags during the May 1 celebration.

Exactly. People are rediscovering themselves and this is how this process manifests itself. My parents sometmes act as if they feel they are worse than westerners because they spent most of their lifes in a communist state. My generation, on the other hand, feel that we are no worse than the rest of Euros. Nothing wrong about it.
Matyjasz   
5 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

Their polish spirit didn't help them much during the 120 years!

It did actually. Had it not been for Greaterpolands Uprising Poznan would definatelly stay in German hands as neither Piłsudski nor the Legause of Nations was keen on giving this predominantly polish land to Poland. The people had to spoke.

PS: @ shewolf: thanx :)
Matyjasz   
5 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

No it didn't.
If it hadn't been for the fear of France and GB for a strong Germany and hence pushing for a cut of german territory to keep it smaller and more "manageable" all your spirits would had still accounted for nothing.

I think it's called picking the right moment to act. War and politics is not a mano-a-mano thing. It's never fair, just like Germn invasion on Pl in 1939 was not fair.

Of course had it not been for a major conflct between Austria, Germany vs Russia, the chances of an independent Poland were slim, but WWI did happen and Poles did took advantage of it. They picked the right moment to act and done a great job. Basically all of Pl borders were settled through an armed conflict. This would not happen if the spirit wasn't there.

Poland was the one sole profiteur of WWI and the Treaty of Versailles (well, you and Czechoslovakia), for the rest of Europe it spelled doom!

You make it sound as if it was all our fault, but remember that it was not Poles who started this madness.

What's insulting about the fact that Posen was a German, not a Polish city? Documentary evidence, as well as pictures show us clearly that the city was, to all practical extents, a German one. You know, there's a rather large German castle here to remind us of that fact ;)

Interesting. According to poznan.pl poles costituted about 57% of all inhabitamts of Poznan in 1918. There was also this economical rivalry betwen Poles and Germans prior to WWI that we are being taught in school, that apparently Poles won... Could you expand more on this subject. All educational systems use propaganda and i want to know whether I am in a wrong or not.
Matyjasz   
5 Sep 2010
Life / Polish pride. PL stickers, flags and the white eagle! Where does our obsession come from? [79]

They should just announce one date as a general "remembrance" date - have a two minute silence on that day and no more. I'm sick and tired of seeing failures commemorated too -why the hell are people celebrating the Gdansk Agreements when the PZPR had no intention of honouring it anyway?

Probably because it dates the birth of Solidarity movement but i know what you mean.

Anyway, the young don't really care and the "old" are bickering amongst themselves about it. I'm somewheare in betwean and feel pity as it really is an interesting topic that is worth remembering. But Solidarność past 89' is a disgrace. Big Cyc said it the best in 1993:

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Matyjasz   
21 Sep 2010
Life / 2 months to go - I will be a Polish citizen and try to find a better place to raise my kid. [67]

he he he nah got the product delivered he he he

Are you sure it's yours? ;)

anyway on a serious note if you will have a baby here ask your Polish partner to read some Polish forums in Polish about this issues health care here is scary for the most of i.

Some people get luck ,I am not luck so we decide to pay .

I actually have a baby here, delivered in a public hospital. I can't comment on the state of hopsitals in Warsaw, though, so will have to leave you at that. Mine was born in a hospital in a small town, and although there were two things that I didn't like I don't see a reason to choose a private hospital next time.

She's also Polish...Does it really make a difference still in Poland if someone is Jewish? If so I find that heartbreaking in this day and age :(

I'm pretty sure that it does for some... For me not really. I was just messing with zion.
Matyjasz   
1 Oct 2010
Life / Gypies/Indian-looking women with kids beg for money in Poland [143]

Anyone remembers the uproar in western Europe when it came out that in Hungary and Slovakia they want to separate gypsy neighborhoods from other neighborhoods by building walls around them? So basically build them ghettos? Now it looks as if every one and his dog is trying to deport Gypsies to Romania, with the French being right there at the top of the list. Laughable.

PS: Gypsy beggars from Romania is soooo 90’s. :)
Matyjasz   
8 Oct 2010
History / Life in Partitioned Poland (Specifically in the Prussian Partition) [118]

Bismarck's Kulturkampf wasn't anti-polish but anti-catholic church just as one example.
Pursuing one official language is also fully legal and something every country does.

It doesn't really matter whether it was meant as anti-polish or not. What matters though is that polish people were banned on their own soil in a predominantly polish environment from using their own language. Is that ok for you?

This had been the real facts.... Contrary to polish propaganda Poles had been quite well off in the most modern and advanced country of Europe at that time!

So, stop crying about mean, bad Prussia...I won't believe it anymore. hmpf

That Prussia gets a bad press here and that we are a little bit exaggerating the whole thing is true. But if everything was so fine and dandy as you portray here why would there be a Greater Poland's Uprising? You must admit that people don't risk their lives if everything is fine, no?
Matyjasz   
8 Nov 2010
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

I never thought that it could be such a problem. Warm clothes, shoes with thick sole and grok always did it for me.

I must admit that I'm not too fond of January and Ferbruary... it has to do with the post-christmass/new years eve depression, but in march everythng slowly turns back to life, etc so it's all good in the end... :)
Matyjasz   
8 Nov 2010
History / BEATS OF FREEDOM - A HISTORY OF POLISH ROCK MUSIC [106]

A lot has been written on this page about WWII or history of polish Jews and at the same time the period past 1945 still remains largely neglected and forgotten... and wrongly so! Maybe this documentary will spark an interesting debate about the history that a big number of us got to live through? Although it was meant as a testimony to polish rock music it is a great summary of what was actually happening socially, politically and culture wise on "our" side of the iron curtain. Unfortunately, not everyone speaks English in this documentary, nevertheless it should be an interesting watch for youz guyz. And it has some great tunes too, like this one, my all time favorite Manaam song:

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Anyway, enjoy!
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