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Joined: 10 Jun 2015 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 15 Jun 2015
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mhmh2   
15 Jun 2015
Love / My Polish girlfriend is pregnant by cheating on me and wants this baby without my permission. Please help. [51]

This is not Turkey. You ARE NOT the owner of your girlfriend. She is the ONLY ONE that can decide to continue or not to continue her pregnancy.

why you are so stupid and at the same time are so lazy? you didnt write my comments. no one talks about ownership! please stay calm. Actually yesterday she told me that I didnt eat pills !!!!! and it was her mistake, so dont say stupid things when you dont know anything. thank you
mhmh2   
11 Jun 2015
Love / My Polish girlfriend is pregnant by cheating on me and wants this baby without my permission. Please help. [51]

Ok, I read your comments and I should say shame on most of you ! you stupid guys, are talking without any information. So,please do not comment here and if you know the answer, help me. I keep some links, regarded to abortion law, which proves that abortion is legal in many countries and in Europe, the only country that abortion is forbidden is Poland unfortunately:

worldabortionlaws.com/map/

Most countries in the European Union allow abortion on demand during the first trimester (en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_law)

womenonwaves.org/en/page/460/abortion-laws-worldwide

So, instead of blaming me, dont spam this post with your extremely emotional comments. And for the guy, who told me, polish women are fat and ugly, you shame on yourself.

As I told once, I am not worried about the money I must pay for taking care of that baby. He pushed me to not use condom and she told me I will eat pills, while she didnt. I am worried about the baby's future. She wont have a happy life, because at least one side, is not happy with his/her birth and didn't have any plan for growing his/her life.

And for the guy who said , who am I, to gave her permission to that woman, she had a plan to get pregnant, without me knowing this ! I think Its my right to know that she is not going to eat the pills! additionally, which one is more brutal? abort and unexpected/unwanted two months baby or giving an unhappy life to a person?

Almost just one person answered my questions and the rest was offensive words and non-related conversation.

I don't know what kind of Turkish cave that doctor came from but it is very much possible that she didn't know after 3 months.

what must I do if I dont want to see this women again.
Killing her before she's giving birth would be a perfect end for this lame love story.

how do you know? are you a doctor? Please prove your words, give me a reference.
and for the second part of your comment, please stop stupid and useless conversation. thank you man !

Please , I know my English is not good, but yours is worst! I didnt say, she must have my permission to have a baby !! i said she should have informed to, if she had wanted the baby, not by cheating and not eating pills. And second of all, I think women in Poland, are not free as the women in rest of the Europe. If you see the link below, you will see the only country that abortion is forbidden is Poland unfortunately:

worldabortionlaws.com/map

But i would really appreciate it if you stop non-related conversation and if you have some opinions about my personality, freedom in poland and blah blah ... keep those comments for yourself. thank you

One issue is that he wasn't careful - contraception is easily available. But yes, if there's doubt, a DNA test is essential.

i was careful. but she told me, I will eat those pills and she didnt't !! because she had wanted a baby and she was worried about her age and not be able to have a baby in the future !
mhmh2   
10 Jun 2015
Love / My Polish girlfriend is pregnant by cheating on me and wants this baby without my permission. Please help. [51]

She can force you to pay for the care of the child. In fact you can be forced to pay for the child until the child is 27 years old.

Thank you for your helpful comment. She is 35 and she told me I made a mistake and really wanted a baby, while I was aware that you didn't wanted at all, because I was afraid that I can't have a baby in the next years. She told me, I am ready to have an official letter that I wont ask anything from you regarding to this baby and I will take care about this baby alone. Because you didn't want and I wanted. What do you think? Is this good idea?

I must edit this:
she told me, * I will give you an official letter ...
I should explain, she is working in a financial section of a average level company and his economic situation is much more better than mine. To be honest, I am not worried about the money, but having a baby is a significant responsibility and I am not in this situation to have a baby and it was not my choice, because she could have abortion, but she didnt want.
mhmh2   
10 Jun 2015
Love / My Polish girlfriend is pregnant by cheating on me and wants this baby without my permission. Please help. [51]

hello, first of all, sorry for my English if its not perfect. I hope that this story wont hurt Polish people, since they are very kind, polite and perfect people. I'm just talking about my case. I hope somebody can help me, because I have to make very important decision soon.

Almost 8 months ago, I met a Polish girl in Poland and we slept just one time and after that night I came back to my country (Turkey). Almost 3 months ago she came to Turkey, and we spent two weeks in my place and during this time, she was always asking/insisting me, not use condom and she was telling me I eat/use pills to avoid pregnancy.I am 26 and she is 35.

Actually I found a job in Poland and in less than 10 days I will be there and I told my current workplace in Turkey I'm leaving and I resigned.

Yesterday she told me, I am pregnant and I understood I am pregnant after three months!! And I was shocked! because its not possible to be pregnant and know this after three months. I talked with some doctors and they told me its not possible and she had knew this at least from the past two months.

I talked with her that having a baby is not a joke and he/she needs attention and lots of other things and we dont know each other very well and we were with each other just 15 days! and she answered I'm old and this will be my last chance and I've always wanted to have a baby and in the next years, I wont be able to have a baby. I told her I wont take care about that baby, because maybe you didn't eat the pills or at least you could have abortion(I know abortion is forbidden in Poland, but she could do in another country)

Now, I am very sad , because I really don't want to be a father at this age and also don't want a have a baby from that women.

my questions are:
1. Since we were not married and I've never wanted to have a baby, if I go to Poland, is it possible that she force me to leave with her and take care about baby? Because I want to work and study at the same time and I am already very busy.

2. If I go to Poland and forget her and stop contacting her, can she force me to be officially sign some paper and be father of that baby?

Since I am not familiar with Poland law system, I would really appreciate it if someone let me know, what kind of responsibility or other things would be on me in this case? and what must I do if I dont want to see this women again.

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