Love / My Polish wife's family hate me. Maybe it is because I'm black. Advice needed. [87]

They imagined their grandchildren to be like milk. Instead they got milk... with coffee. ;) Seriously every grandparent likes to say: "He has my eyes" or "She is blond like her gramma". Your situation is complicated because your children will be nothing like their grandparents. I'm not racist and I'm sorry I'm not politically correct. It's just the way it is.

98% of Polish population is white... What did you expect? :)