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Posts by dancer7  

Joined: 30 Sep 2012 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 8 Oct 2012
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dancer7   
8 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

Youre so sweet, he is a lucky guy! A psychologist would say; how would you bring this up? Be creative! Talk about your daily life, ask about his, if he sums up the negative sides, you could ask him if theres anyone he likes that cheers him up or whatever, test the water a little bit. He might be hesitant to tell you cause my bets are on you, you both seem rather shy. Bring up dating in Poland and China, his opinion and observations cannot be free from his own experiences and outlook on the matter. And slowly ask a little more specific questions, that what I would do although my questions would be very much depending on his anwsers and openness about the topic.

There is this Polish guy here in Holland i really like, if it works out, I give you a call at Christmas time ;)
dancer7   
8 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

I travelled to Poland because Im of Polish/Jewish descent. I was curious about my roots, since there are no Polish tradtions left in our family. I had met a few people form Poland at work and they invited me over, however this is a long time ago. I remember they had fortune cookies at christmas (thats Chinese isnt it?)) for everyone and they loved it!

About your presents, I agree, dont over do it. You could ask your crush about this and what might be expected in terms of giving Christmas presents. Although I would bring at least the cookies ( fortune cookies, or any cookie you like) This way you can show something about your culture too.

While chatting, cant you just ask him a little bit more about his love life? Like if theres someone he really likes? Youre friends so questions about this topic shouldnt be that strange (without coming on to strong). I have male friends in which I have no romantic intrest at all and I ask them all the time.
dancer7   
7 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

I brought some small souvenirs from Holland and Dutch cake, its was just a nice gesture. They were not into giving christmas presents to one another but I dont know how its done among other familys in Poland. Here in Holland it can vary. Christmas in Poland is a bigger thing when you compare with Holland, but we do find christmas the most important celebration of the year.
dancer7   
7 Oct 2012
Love / Understanding Polish men and when they are flirting [4]

Hey! Check my thread; How do guys from Poland flirt. I would keep your cards, and only kiss when you feel like it or want to, he seems he little pushy. As far as I know Polish men dont give compliments that easy, however thats just my observation, should vary from one person to another. He sure seems to like you, figure out to which extend though.
dancer7   
7 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

Is that you wrong name:)? My suggestion; learn a few Polish words and phrases, they love that, also reveals effort coming from you. And bring a little gift from your country for the host! Or a delicacy everyone can enjoy! When I came over to Poland for christmas, they really appriciated it!
dancer7   
7 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

Send you home? Do you mean; He brings you home/to your place? Anyway, you are in a privileged position because you can chat and figure things out before you show up at christmas, Im sure you can find a subtle way so things wont get awkward! I wish I was chatting with the Polish guy I like! Good luck!
dancer7   
6 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

As far as I experienced Poland and Polish people, they tend to be very warm and friendly, interested in other cultures. Inviting you over for christmas, meeting his friends and family and telling you Polish are pretty much open to forneigers is a way of showing you his culture and a way of showing you who HE is. The chatting on a daily basis and willing to save up money to visit you in the near future may also indicate that he really likes you.
dancer7   
30 Sep 2012
Love / How do guys from Poland flirt? [47]

Warszawette; Thanks for your input! I do believe that there can be cultural differences between countrys, its just a fact I cant deny. I had a relationship with an American guy for four years, every person is unique but in each country there are habits, dos and donts, its about probability.
dancer7   
30 Sep 2012
Love / How do guys from Poland flirt? [47]

There are many Polish men here in Holland, doing hard work Dutch people dont want to do. I never noticed them being smelly, sweaty or just not representable. They do stick out in terms of their clothing, its not new and just casual. Polish women overdress, even when they are very attractive, they tend to dye their hair extremely blond or black, wear trashy clothing, tanned, out dated, just not natural or sophisticated. However being Dutch, we are not praised for our exclusive taste in clothing either.

F stop; Thanks, I guess he is waiting for me (Dutch women have the reputation to just act like a guy when they like someone) to approach him, aint he lucky! But seriously, I should make it more obvious.
dancer7   
30 Sep 2012
Love / How do guys from Poland flirt? [47]

Milky; Thanks! Its just that whenver our eyes meet, he keeps on staring (but at times, he is staring while he cannot know Im aware of it) I was just wondering if this could me a common way of flirting in Poland and if not so, how do polish men approach women they dont know well.

Pennboy; Thanks! Yes Polish men dont overdress that much. Personally I dont like men who spend more time in front of a mirror than women do, but hey, no one likes a guy who looks like a bum.
dancer7   
30 Sep 2012
Love / How do guys from Poland flirt? [47]

Orpheus; Thanks for the comment. Cloggies :)? Im pretty much direct and open, even by Dutch standards, Im rather shy when it concerns someone I really like. He doesnt strike me as a rather shy person.
dancer7   
30 Sep 2012
Love / How do guys from Poland flirt? [47]

Thanks! I found out his facebook profile and it says he is single, unless he is very much calculated.
dancer7   
30 Sep 2012
Love / How do guys from Poland flirt? [47]

There is this guy at my gym I really like. Im Dutch and he is Polish. My guess is that he arrived here 2 or 3 months ago for work. We havent really talked yet but Im extremely attracted to him. I had some short talks with his friends, I know a little bit Polish/know some Polish words and phrases (they cracked up) because Im of Polish descent. It got me interested in Poland many years ago and spend a month in Poland.

Whenever I greet him he puts on this huge smile, looks me in the eyes and quickly looks downwards. While working out he keeps on catching my eye, although I was trying real hard not to reveal my intrest. He sometimes stares at me, even when Im talking to people I know and my face is not pointing towards his direction. I was wondering if he is deliberately flirting with me/ or if he is just not aware of this. I remember that during my stay in Poland people gave me stares, but at that time, the amount of tourists was zero and they could tell youre abroad from miles away.

How do Polish men flirt, I would love your thoughts on this, cant find anything on the net so I guess there are no differences?