BritboyByd
15 Apr 2017
Love / Urgent Relationship help - wife wants to stay in Poland [118]
@johnny reb
Amen brother.
It's been getting worse, as we say stuff to each other which we cant do over Whatsapp. We disagree, and end up falling out, and making up just as I fly home. Everytime it happens like this. So every time i leave Pol after a visit i feel like "why do I bother?" and get a sense of relief when going home.
@Paulina
Thanks for the advice. I think this situation was like a "whodunnit" where the perpetrator is revealed in the last episode. The clues were there all along, eg we have just grown apart. I can count on my hand how many times in 5 years me and my wife have been out together on our own. Kids, work, family etc have always got in the way.
I read that the natural rate of divorce is 42%, which isn't great anyway. But what chance of a mixed cultural marriage surviving overseas? 1-5% is my guess.
@johnny reb
Amen brother.
When you do meet every six weeks or so then does it feel good to be together ?
It's been getting worse, as we say stuff to each other which we cant do over Whatsapp. We disagree, and end up falling out, and making up just as I fly home. Everytime it happens like this. So every time i leave Pol after a visit i feel like "why do I bother?" and get a sense of relief when going home.
@Paulina
Thanks for the advice. I think this situation was like a "whodunnit" where the perpetrator is revealed in the last episode. The clues were there all along, eg we have just grown apart. I can count on my hand how many times in 5 years me and my wife have been out together on our own. Kids, work, family etc have always got in the way.
I read that the natural rate of divorce is 42%, which isn't great anyway. But what chance of a mixed cultural marriage surviving overseas? 1-5% is my guess.