Posts by local_fela

local_fela

24 Apr 2012

Life / Teenage Pregnancy in Poland [108]

Glad you noticed my writing skills though

The prize will be given at the end of the year for the best writer in PF.. We will consider your effort!

Back to the topic now!

My gf when she was only 18 she was insisting she wanted a baby! But I didnt want to

She's a professional screenwriter, and her finances are secure enough

Its because of this what this guy wrote on top! I didn't have enough means to support myself and my gf and she was very argumentative at that time! But today she realised that what I said it was right as she saw that our financial position is worse than before and on top we would have had a baby... She told me 1 week ago that how her friends suffers now after being pregnant at 17 and didn't finish school, couldn't enjoy life, ruined career....

Why teens want to have a baby not because they are ready to be a mum but looking at others (other friends)...But they don't know that there is still much in life to learn and to experience which once you become a parent when teen you will 80% land up in working a shop and having a less than average life style both you, your partner (with who yuo have the baby and if he/she is still with you) and the kid!!!

local_fela

23 Apr 2012

Life / Teenage Pregnancy in Poland [108]

Why sterilise a teen when we have sex education?? Countries like Sweden and others are going very good in managing teen pregnancy!!! Its better and might be cheaper too! Even in developing countries kids/teens are have an hour or so of sex education! I think its govt responsibility as the they will save a lot in the long run...

How do you know these girls are un married you judgemental twats?

I am not going to start a thread on here without doing any research and make fun of this country and its people. As you can see no 'developing' country form part of this list of teen pregnancy by countries..... I think a country like Poland should do more about it as it is a country will is full of cultures and trads....

My mum was married (in a Church 'n' everything...)at 17,had me at 18

Thats why you are so abusive and lack manners! So you can see my point here, 'the consequence'' of having a kid when teen results to; having a kid who will be idiot like you on earth!

And read what I wrote again....

In the city I live I think I've seen and met more teen-mum rather than just 'teens'...

FYI in this city I live is a small one where people know each other its not my problem if people are talking about that next to me! I started this thread to see others views and your views is like those who are born by a teenage and immature mother! Now stop being abusive for no reason otherwise you will be reported!

local_fela

20 Apr 2012

Life / Teenage Pregnancy in Poland [108]

abortion is illegal in Poland!

but many of them go too countries like UK to do abortion but not all of them can afford them, can they?

And I came to know recently that the priest in my local city have said that he is not going to do any marriage for those who got pregnant ''outside'' the marriage bond unless it was a ''When the pregnancy is a result of a criminal act'' as Pip said above!

But actually have you noticed the ladies around you with a prom... just guess their age next time! I know it might not be fair as it could be the teen's sibling but a bit of enquiry doesnt harm! does it!!! ;)

local_fela

20 Apr 2012

Life / Teenage Pregnancy in Poland [108]

Hi...

I was recently reading some news which caught my mind about teenage pregnancy. In the city I live I think I've seen and met more teen-mum rather than just 'teens'...

Is there any problem in Poland concerning population or sex education? Because I think Poland will soon be leading in European chart for having the most teenage pregnancy!!

Most of my girlfriend friends have at least one baby when they were only 19 years old. Is it a social taboo or sort of culture among Polish in Poland? I started the thread as I think the problem does not only lie here but in fact, with teen mums which adds up a significant number in the unemployment list and young fathers who still enjoys like being a single teen lad....and goes into drugs and alcohol.

How do you find it?

local_fela

18 Mar 2012

Law / ARE POLISH PUBLIC SECTOR WORKERS INEFFICIENT? [6]

I doubt you are important for them or us to give a flying **** about a sloppily written letter.

Well mate, I think you got it wrong this time! It never happened to me since I've been living in UK and in France.... So for me its kind of 'absurd' (if I am permitted to say). Standard matters!

Go To Pozcta Polska to buy some stamps, get a number from their ticket machine and read a book you ll have 2 hours to spend

I can't get you mate. What do you mean!

local_fela

17 Mar 2012

Law / ARE POLISH PUBLIC SECTOR WORKERS INEFFICIENT? [6]

Hi!

I sent some documents to be processed to XYZ department of the public sector... However, I encountered two major problems with them, which both were paperworks unacceptable mistakes.

1) In January I sent my documents to that department. 1st week of Feb I received a letter which was addressed to me on the envelop but the content of the letter was sometimes referred to me (Mr Local Fela) and sometimes to Mr 'IdontKNOW'... So who the hell is this man? And why they wrote me a letter telling me that Mr 'IdontKNOW' should do this and that?? mmmmmmm

When me wifey called that person who signed at the end of the letter addressing herself as a 'Director' of the institution we were surprised.... WHY? Because:

Whenever it was referring to Mr 'IdontKNOW' it was actually referring to me but as Mr 'IdontKNOW' most of the time and rarely by my name.....

2) In March, a second letter was sent to me and one to my wife... Mine was clearly written this time...BUT my wife's letter....ha ha ha or ggggrrrrrrrrrrrr..... Written: 'Mrs Local Lady' you are married to Mr Local Fela... You will.............with your husband Mr 'whoZfRu'.... She was mad when she read that bit...When we translated this letter it was OMG..... implying that my wife got 2 husbands...... And not to mention, it was again signed by the same 'Director'........... We called again... Sheprasham pany... its a mistake I was referring to your husband Mr Local Fela...WTF.....

Well, I have been staying in many countries and I have never received any profesional document like this from a public institution......And the document I sent them does not only concern the Polish Govt but even one department of the EU institution....

I don't know what will happen if this case or this letter is given to a newspaper and sent to the EU respective department...

Why like this? Naming a director who can't even write a formal letter??

local_fela

6 Mar 2012

Law / HOW LONG DOES THE APPLICATION FOR KARTA POBYTU TAKE TO PROCESS IN POLAND! [36]

Hi all. I sent my application to the corresponding department for my karta pobytu. I received a letter last week saying that they will take another 24 days to make a decision and on Monday I received a second letter saying that a personel from the immigration department will come to visit me next week!

Reading through all these replies on this thread, I didn't see anyone talking about this bit (visit from the immigration) which is making me more frustrated at the moment to be honest. Why are they taking 24 days more? My schengen visa expires just one day for the 24 days and I wonder what will happen if they take longer than that.

local_fela

22 Feb 2012

Life / Living Costs and life in Poznan? [70]

Thank you all for replying. ;)

In regards to looking for work I don't know what kind of work you are in

What kind of work will you be looking for?

It would be nice to know what you plan on doing here

Well, same answer to you three guys- Actually I am not into teaching. Because teaching I believe requires a talent which I don't have. No matter what qualification someone got, but if they don't have that talent its hard to share knowledge. And I don't want to mess with those kids future. But I'd say my field is Accounting, Management, Service industry (Hotel, restos, bar, clubs, call centres).

But I'll give preference to Accounting and Mgt first because I am an ACCA student and been working at supervisory level in a care setting in UK for 3 years.

Well from what you all have been posting I can assume that for the first month:

Rent +deposit= 1800PLN
Bills= 200PLN
Travel= ??? (assumed 100PLN)
Food= 700 PLN
Entertaiment & Clothing= 100PLN

Which sum up to : 3900PLN.

Am I correct ladies & gents?

local_fela

20 Feb 2012

Life / Living Costs and life in Poznan? [70]

Merged: COST OF LIVING IN POZNAN

Hi everyone!

I am planning to move to Poznan soon. I wanted to know how much do I need to carry with me if i want to move there. I don't have a jobs at the moment but willing to be registered at an address there and then go for 'hunting'..

I am currently living in a small town with my wife and I've got some savings which is around 2-3k PLN....

Can any of you please tell me the monthly cost of living in Poznan? I would be grateful to you if you could break it down for me!

Regards!

Karl