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Joined: 18 Jan 2012 / Female ♀
Last Post: 20 Apr 2012
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RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
USA, Canada / Can you BE Polish without SPEAKING Polish in the US? [256]

she will never be considered Polish because of her obvious physical differences

poor kid... she is born and raised in a country, she never knew another one, but yet she cannot be accepted by her fellow Poles as one of their own - all because of the color of her skin and where her parents came from. and it all seems perfectly normal...
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
Law / Weapons laws in Poland. Carrying a concealed handgun? [918]

even the worst of districts in Polish cities during the nighttime hours are safer than the best of districts of Baltimore and DC in daytime hours

what is the basis for your statement?
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

but you're wrong. other people's opinions do infringe on me. or used to, back in Poland. here nobody gives a rat's a$s.

i used to live in a small town, where everyone knew each other. living in an apartment building, we pretty much knew when our neighbors had an argument, who got drunk the night before, who bought a new sofa, who had "ogorkowa" for dinner... it was inescapable. living together without marriage would be a social suicide in an environment like that, because the constant gossip would make your life unbearable. i have a friend who still lives in Poland, in her mid 30s, and the whole building has a gossip summit every time she invites some guy to her own apartment! An independent woman in her 30s! not to mention that she is considered "stara panna," so that's just another good reason for all the neighbors to pick on her... she is brave enough not to pay attention to those old hags, but a lot of people are not, between the neighbors and the family pressuring them to get married, they just give in. all because people have some misplaced urge to voice their opinions about stuff that should be nobody's business. and now that you are married, god forbid you don't produce offspring within the first two years... another flurry of speculations about what is wrong with you...

yes, you may call it

ordinary people sharing ideas and expressing their opinion which may or may not influence someone

listen, i'm not advocating against marriage. i'm very happily married and it's important to me that we are married rather than just living together. what i don't want is others telling me what to do.
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
News / Poland fines singer for bashing Bible [159]

Initially the term - freedom of speech - has been connected with ability to criticize a ruler or a government.

it did start like that, and then it evolved because a lot of forward-thinking people saw that it is beneficial for individuals to be able to criticize other aspects of a society, including other people's beliefs concerning "holy" objects. again, you can't have free speech if your goal is to be inoffensive, and if you can't have free speech, can you have democracy?
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

don't you think there is a difference between someone imposing their views on me, and therefore limiting my choices on whether or not to marry, and some pointing out the inadequacies of a piece of legislation?

bottom line, would you rather live in a society that tells you whether or not to stay single, or who to have sex with and when, and punishes you for talking crap about some pile of old stories? or in a society where you're free to choose, and free to say almost anything you want?
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

Yes the average cost is about $500.00.

LOL, so if you're divorced and swallow the wafer you face eternal damnation, but with only one easy payment of $500 you can buy your way back into heaven? wow, it's a bargain...

No one is telling anyone to do anything.

but people are... by expressing holy outrage at the life choices of others, you attempt to influence them and everyone around to follow your philosophy
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
News / Poland fines singer for bashing Bible [159]

whats good for the USA doesn't necessary is good for Poland

how did we start talking about the USA?

how is the inability to say anything you want good for any country?
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
Real Estate / Residential real estate values go down in Poland [455]

Speaking about my own experience - I spent the first 10 years of my life in an "M3" - basically, a one-bedroom apartment, with a kitchen that when you wanted to walk in, someone else had to walk out... it was built in the 70s. my parents were happy with it because it had a balcony, and they only had to wait 2 years (!) for their allotment (przydzial). Then we got "allotted" an "M4." I remember that quite well - it was a big effing deal, almost a miracle, the family celebrated for like a week... The M4 had two bedrooms, some 50 square meters, and a kitchen that could actually accommodate a kitchen table. Ultimate luxury... There was also the case of our neighbor, who was a single man living in an M5 (unthinkable!), and half of the tenants circulated a letter to petition the "co-op" (spoldzielnia) to evict the guy, because he "didn't deserve" an M5, living by himself.

Then I came to this country, in my early 20s, and without much hassle I got an apartment of about 750 sf (some 70 square meters) with a club house, gym swimming pool, tennis courts, a shopping strip across the street, some 2 miles from a mall and 3-4 miles from an interstate. Without a "petition," waiting periods, connections, bribes, affordable on my f/t office work salary that was far from spectacular. Meanwhile, my peers "back home" were shacking up with their parents or grand parents with their spouses and young kids. Some of them still live with their parents, where the parents would occupy the first floor of a house and they would have the 2nd floor. My own cousin, who is about 27, is now in the process of majorly sucking up to my grandma, who is in her 90s, just so she can leave her the apartment. My high school friend lives with her husband and their twin boys in one bedroom, while their elderly aunt occupies the other room of an apartment in Warsaw, hoping she'll kick the bucket soon...

Do you have any idea how ridiculous this picture is, looking from here?
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
News / Poland fines singer for bashing Bible [159]

that's not a very good reason to end up in court. the exercise of free speech is bound to be offensive, controversial, contentious, iconoclastic to someone out there. if we judged what can or cannot be said based on whether it offends someone, we couldn't say anything at all.

Freedom of speech does not exist in Poland and that sucks.

apparently not
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
USA, Canada / Can you BE Polish without SPEAKING Polish in the US? [256]

Born of at least 1 Polish parent and, provided they can communicate, can do so in Polish.

that would technically apply to half of my family in Upper Silesia, who for generations considered themselves German...

the point is, nothing can "make" you Polish, unless you feel Polish at heart. and if you do, nobody can tell you you're not Polish, based on some arbitrary criteria
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
News / Polish People STILL denied US Entry [96]

lol, they'd probably be happy with "Chinese" just to get it over with. and then they they took their suitcases and trunks and proceeded to set up their Czestochowas and Panna Marias...
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
News / Polish People STILL denied US Entry [96]

that's pretty interesting. technically, they were German nationals. Or Russian. Certainly the immigration clerks weren't interested in the nuances of border shifts in Europe. And I'm sure the immigrants themselves didn't care much what the form said.
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
Real Estate / Residential real estate values go down in Poland [455]

in other words, if all people can afford is old apartments far from tram connections, there is an issue of price. If the average price per square meter is 6,000-7,000PLN, and the average monthly wage is 4,000, don't you think there is a little disconnect there?
RoughFlavors   
20 Jan 2012
Real Estate / Residential real estate values go down in Poland [455]

people who can't be bothered to work hard

it's not quite that simple, but in general it's true, not everyone can - or should - own real estate. on the other hand, availability of affordable housing is both a sign of and a stimulant of economic growth. there have been multiple examples of that around the globe for decades. that's why it would be quite advisable for the Polish government to look into it, and PDQ... same goes for roads, and schools, and healthcare.
RoughFlavors   
19 Jan 2012
UK, Ireland / Why are Polish people, especially women, so disrespectful toward the English? [437]

good stuff, Wedle.
although there is something to be learned from the bus-queuing custom. can't say i miss the daily dose of bus riding... and the store clerk in our "Spozywczy" who would rather break your leg than have to give you change for a 100. oh, not to mention Pani Wiesia, the not-so-friendly post office rep. good old times.
RoughFlavors   
19 Jan 2012
News / Is there anything Poland won't do for money? "Wolf's Lair" - up for rent" [59]

i went to see it in 6th or 7th grade, and I thought it was an interesting place to see. there was a group from Israel there, too, I remember. just like i saw a bunch of black people visiting the sugar plantations around New Orleans last year - they didn't seem to want to set the places on fire, either.
RoughFlavors   
19 Jan 2012
Real Estate / Residential real estate values go down in Poland [455]

you really have two choices then - nationalize all land and existing housing and allocate it to deserving citizens (sound familiar?) or put pressure on the government to promote competition in the construction industry, which will create more supply. no developer ever made money on idle land unless there is no competition.
RoughFlavors   
19 Jan 2012
News / Is there anything Poland won't do for money? "Wolf's Lair" - up for rent" [59]

I'm sure it's less about profit and more about preservation. Historical sites all over the world, from prisons and former plantations to mansions, are "rented" by governments to various non-profits, under the condition that they take good care of the places, even if they charge admission. I don't see any problem with it. At least there is someone accountable for it.