Love / I'm getting married to a Polish guy and need advice before visit his family; gifts, topics, customs [82]

I think Polis in general are every womens dream. He can carry his women with care and love. You can assure of his warm and tender loving feelings for you. If I will choose between Flilipino, amerikan scandinavian men I would prefer Polis as my first choice. Beating up wifes have nothing to do with nationalities. It has something to do with family upbringing, discipline and their point of view. I think the only problem with Polac is that many of them that cannot speak english and that's the reason why many intrepeneur really takes advantage of these people. But I bet ya, Polacs works harder than anyone else. Even a low wage they work for it. They are hardworking people.

I will fly to Gdynia one day for a wonderful vacation out in the countryside near the beach. I would love to see the place of my ex. At least now, I am in a very good status and have the capability to see the world and see him. He he he

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Hi, Sana ok ka na. Well, I am so new in this site and forum. I admit I am going crazy as well now. But, always I have But. You will see what I mean. In my case I had an ex polish. We never had an official break up, never even said goodbyes. We just let our lives go on. It was late 1999 when we last stayed together. Our realtionships was fantastic as a general discriptions of many about being with polish man. But our realtionships was not always in near distance instead very far. We met in the Cruise lines him as a contractor and me as a Casino bar waitress. I saw how he work hard everyday, punctual and devoted employee. The problem with him was cannot so much english that's why he cannot be ever be the person in my criteria. But I loved him with all my heart. I know he could be the perfect husband and father though. But We we're still young then, we're 26 both and now were late 30's. We never think of anything just be together and happy. Many were so envious of us. Many really likes him. But I found out that he is very choosy. He don't like girls on the go. You got what I mean? He noticed me first and asked who I am to many collueges in the whole ships. I found out that someone likes me but I did not care. I think I gave him a hardtime though and that's why he treasured me when we we're together. He is an every woman's dream, to describe him in one word.

We separated without any official word or things happened. I just let things, time gone. I know that both of us is struggling for our future life. And he knew that I am a hard working person and he sees himself with me. But I am a person who will reach high! So when we never had any contact anymore( I understand bec. he cannot speak so much english) I decided to move on. Incase we meet again, we are mature enough and life is even more serious as ever now. Life is so unpredictable and has many surprises. So try to go ahead. Only destiny will tell if you will meet again.

I can afford to meet him anywhere he is now. And that is the difference before and now. But still it is better to wait for the right moment. Build up yourself first if you can. Because polish is just now progressing. Life there would not be the same as to one's expectaions. Common people there have hardlife. So try to think and decide for youself. Hope it'll help.